Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Bofriend Is Cheating????

Well last Friday I went to his house and he wanted to have sex but im still a virgin and when i told him i wasnt ready he just stayed quiet and he does know i am a virgin well i went to his house yesterday to talk things through and while i was their i went to use his bathroom and when i went in there i saw 2 used condoms in the trash i just broke out into tears but then i thought about it he has an older brother could it have been him well i just needed your advice is he cheating on me???/Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Bofriend Is Cheating????
Definantly ASK him first before going to any conclusions.


but you know..he could lie


and its hard to tell if they are lying or ttelling the truth


Maybe..ask the brother??Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Bofriend Is Cheating????
There are any number of possibilities. The condoms could have belonged to your boyfriend, his brother ... or, if he is still living at home, even his parents. Yes, older people have sex too!





The important thing is not to jump to conclusions and not to accuse him, but if you are concerned, then you are best to raise the issue with him. Communication is key to any relationship. One thing, though: trust is also vital in a relationship. If you remain doubtful after talking to him and do not believe he is telling you the truth, or simply know within yourself that you don't trust him, then don't waste your time. Move on.





On another matter, do not allow him to pressure you into sex. If he is a good guy, respectful and actually cares about you - or even loves you - he will not try to force your relationship to move forward at a pace greater than you are comfortable.
Dont assume, just ask him. Use your womans intuition and make your decision from there. Just keep your eyes and ears open. Make your first time memorable, forget that jerk if he cant wait for you...
Some guys prefer to wear condoms when they masturbate. Just a thought, he may not be cheating at all.
ask him??? it could be his brother or he could be playing head games with you better off asking him or his brother cant hurt
u should talk to him about you being a virgin and if he sees that as a problem. dnt lose ur virginity just to make him happy though. u can wait for the right guy hu'll apprecieate u better so it can be special. as for cheating? dont jump to conclusions, if anything else weird has happened than u can ask him bt maybe ur just being paranoid
You know him more than your public forum here. All you can do is ask.





You'd be wise to save yourself until marriage. You won't regret it.