Hey guys i need some serious help and advice. im so in love but i dont know what to do?

ive been in this relationship for nearly a year and a half. but we broke up for about 4 months. my BF who i love so so much used to be the greatest. Then i made some mistakes and he changed. now we are back together for about a month and a half or so, hes better than he was during the 4 months because he was a complete jerk but it seems like he still doesnt love me like he used to.


In the beginning ALL his attention would be on me and only me. Now when we are together he plays video games and watches sports. He even changed his comp background the giants rather then a pic of us that i put there. everything used to be about me in the beginning. his myspace..everything. i feel like hes still not giving me his whole self bcuz of my mistakes. he says he gave me all his love and i broke his heart. we agreed before that we wudnt bring up past but he still dont trust that hes the ONLY guy i want. DO NOT SAY BREAK UP WITH HIM BC THATS NO OPTION. I lived w/o him for 4 months i cant do it agaiHey guys i need some serious help and advice. im so in love but i dont know what to do?
you need to talk to each other. just come right up and ask him if it was because of what you did. if it is, try to find some way to make it up to him, get him to trust you again. good luck. :)Hey guys i need some serious help and advice. im so in love but i dont know what to do?
UMM BREAK UP WITH HIM HE DESERVES BETTER. ok most likely you cheated on him well i know i would have not taken you back, nothing you do is gonna make him trust you fully now. Sounds likes hes with you but not taking the relationship seriouse. Maybe hes just had it with you and only with you for the sex or something.
You guys need to sit down and have a little chat. Ask him what's been on his mind lately... maybe he's sad about something.Or maybe he has another girl on his mind..but doesn't know how to break it to you. Guys are weird like that... I bet he's just trying to act cool around his friends... or he's getting over puberty.. (lol...no way..jk)... Maybe you guys should spend some more romantic time together... like a nice walk to the park... or a picnic. And you guys can just get along..If he wont talk to you at all about it... he probably has another girl on the mind... and you might have the think about another guy...There are probably plenty of other guys dieing for you right now... maybe you should give them a chance... Oh yeah by the way... If you don't want to break up with him...but you think you should... just tell him that you guys need to just be really good friends... and if you guys start to fall more in love... get back together... kind of like a fresh new start... right?





Sorry my advice is probably stupid.. I'm just a little middle schooler. :-(
Give him time. He's not going to immediately give you everything he's got to give if the last time he did, you broke his heart. And don't be afraid to comfront him with the problem. Guys don't always pick up on things like this, so be sure to sit down with him and try to find out how he feels and why he feels that way.
Well you made your mistakes - try not to make any more. Do not push your relationship onto him - let it grow naturally. In time, things will change, dont push your love on him, let it grow in the way it blossomed in the beginning.
You can fix it but not over night. it takes time to gain trust just show him how you fell by not messing up any more. don鈥檛 take it to hard just try and if he loves you still the feelings he had will come back.
talk to him about it...





dont make a big deal about it





dont get upset





just let him know how u feel.








cant hurt right?
Well, give him SPACE.


Like you guys are best of friends!


So you and him can get to know each other better in a comfortable zone.





Also, do something else rather than always minding your bf all the time.


It would make you more interesting and you'll probably have fun too!
You have some serious self-esteem issues and you need counseling very badly. I would suggest that first. Also pointing attention to yourself is very wrong and very immature, and guys don't like that, you need to learn to be yourself. You also hurt this guy and you made mistakes (but you didn't say what kind of mistakes) but its OK for you to pine away over your ';failing'; relationship with him, but he's not allowed to bring up that he can't trust you and that you hurt him, grown up that's not fair to him and you're going to lose him if you don't mature and sit down like a woman and have a heart to heart talk to him. One more thing, the faster you learn that you don't tie your hopes and dreams to one person and learn that you have to make yourself happy first, the better your life will be. I know it take me 30 years to figure that one out and I've been happier for it. This relationship may be saved, but you'll have to work at it...and your boyfriend has got to want it as well. Besides video games and sports are most guys hobbies. Good Luck.