Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?

We have been together for two years. He is 40, I am 42. I know men look at other women but for two years now when we go out, he ignores me, and watches other women. Last friday night we went to a family resturant, a sixteen year old girl was behind us with a short skirt on, she was heavy set, anyway he watched her the whole time we were there. He used to view porn on line but we got in fights over it, so now every morning before work he looks at Lingerie, this is every single morning, the man wont pack his lunch but he will get up early to view them. Like I said I know men look, but most dont do it in front of their g/fs or wives. Ive tried for two years to tell him how I feel, he still continues to do this in public. When we go out he acts like hes looking for something, he wont even hold a conversation with me. He said hes just looking, no big deal!!!! What do you think. Should I give up and move on??Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
Well, being in his 40's, its possible that he's just set in his ways. He's always looked at other women, and now that he is in a relationship, he can't bring himself to stop.





Or he is stubborn, believes it is no big deal (like you said), and continues to do it in front of you knowing that it bothers you, ';proving'; that it isn't a big deal - that is, he wins the ';argument'; every time he does it anyway.





Personally, based solely on what you've told me about you two, I would leave. I don't know how serious you two are, though, or how other aspects of your relationship are going.Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
sorry but if he's looking he's thinking about cheating. some men can look and not touch ,others you never know, if he's looking at porn he's not happy in your relationship,and he's shopping for a new girl if he looks when your with him. One more thing,if your catching this and not doing anything about it your in for trouble down the road.
He is looking, because he is missing what you can't offer him anymore. Is not stable relationship if he find what he is looking for you are history.
It sounds a little over the top, but i would think their is a deeper insecurity on your side you are redirecting at him either that or you don't trust the man... and i don't know maybe there is reason for that, if not remember you are what you think of others... deal with it or leave him..
Get rid of the perv. No offense, but you're not going to get any BETTER looking with time.....none of us will. There will always be porn and hot chicks. If that's how he chooses to use his eyes instead of for you, then get rid of him.
If you're ready to pack it in, move on.
Sounds like maybe you are not satisfying him. Maybe you should try some new things in bed. Get his mind back on you. He's probably bored of the same old routine.
First, you need to let that man look at pron, unless your going to give him some action 2-3 times a day. Second, every guy looks on occasion, he just doesn't sound very discreet. If he's dumb enough to get caught, then you have a right to get mad. However, I would suggest letting him look at the pron and maybe even have a little alone time for yourself. If you catch him looking, then he deserves a kick to the junk.
It sounds like he has a problem. He needs to seek counseling, or you move on ~ especially if you only see things getting worse.
Looking at porn and beating off is one thing, but to ignore you to stare at other girls or women is not cool. I'd dump him and move on to a real man who can treat you like a lady. What a jerk.
hell yeah, move on! unless you want to put up with it forever. Duh. Empower yourself. Why would you want to put up with that crap?
i hate to say it; but he is an inconsiderate jerk with no respect for you, women in general, or your relationship. RESPECT yourself and move on.... good luck

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