so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 1/2 years haveing sex for a about 2 years ya know well we kinda go off and on about the sex thing but it got to the extreme i mean we was having sex everyday sometimes twice a day for like a month then he went threw a phase i thought we was gunna break up he didn't cheat or anything (trust me) but like he said i was gettin mad at him too much and always fighting with him which was true so he left for a while..we still talked everyday alot and it was only for like 5 days he just went and stayed with a friend in the next town (who has a family so nothing stupid and i knew them) but ever since he came back which was probably like 3 weeks ago we've only had sex like maybe twice a week and i've even stoped getting mad about everything and we haven't fought once! which is good cuz it was like everyday but it was his drinking but differen't story so is this like another phase and it'll pick back up cuz when i mention it he gets all sweet and ';no i love you and only you..can't imagine bein with someone else'; blah blah but im worried soo should i be cuz we've done this before just i dont think this long its like 3 or 4 days between each time i HATE it but i dont want him to think he has to and then have sex with me just so i'll shut up about im confusedNeed a guys opinion real long but please need advice?
Interesting! Maybe the booze is got something to do with the sex or a lack there of.Need a guys opinion real long but please need advice?
Stop saying ';like'; and ';we was'; every other scentance! It makes it really hard to understand what's going on.
I'm thinking that you've done it to much that it felt more like a routine then somethig enjoyable.
i wish my wife wanted it all the time like that. stop (pretend) not to ever want sex with him. he'll come running eventually.
he loves u if he wants sex everyday theres some guys that just hit it for a few times and they quit it but he loves u if he has sex with u a lot thats love
eh, well sounds like a lucky guy, push him into the action or tell him how ya feel.
He doesn't love you... he just wants to make love with you.
woahh... lol calm down
he is very strange
Honestly this relationship sounds really unhealthy for both of you. It seems as though he is in it for the physical relationship that you seem completely ok with furnishing him with. I also think that having some more space has been good for you. Being together all the time does not work out for all couples. Keep the space, it seems to be working for you. The only other thing is that I would really talk to him a little bit more, and try to figure out where the two of you are as a couple. It sounds like there are a lot of problems that are getting resolved with sex, and that is ultimately going to be unhealthy for your relationship. Just talk to him because at this rate, somebody is going to crack.
u made a mmistakke by gettinng mmad at somone who lloves u every day coz he will get dubble huurt .. i think he has sommone eals or he llost some feelings for u so try to win him back do every think he likees take him out be nice with him... and i c u care abbt sex alot sex is a part of a relationship not all of it is abt ';sex'; .... good luck
hey, i think he is just looking to have sex with u, and all that blah blah of ';ur the best of the world and i cant imagine.....'; is just BS. He's waiting for someone else, i mean he is just using u as a sex toy. Be careful because you may say ohhhh he loves me and wont do such a thing, but if he truly loves u i think u can have fun without sex for a while and try to see if he is just into u so he gets some sex or he really loves u. In my opinion he is just using u as his sex toy, he thinks he controls every situation and can do whatever he wants with u. Be careful....bye bye peace.
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