Sunday, August 22, 2010

What would you guys do with this situation?? I need advice!?

What if your bf/gf told you that ';there is a girl/boy who crush on me and i might wanna see how it works out with the girl/boy. But i still love you so i don't know what im going to do yet. ';





What would you do?? What would you tell your love??? How would you make him/her change their mind??What would you guys do with this situation?? I need advice!?
I'd dump their shallow @$$ - because it's clear that they are FAR too immature to even know what the word ';Love'; TRULY means...





As far as I would be concerned - whatever feelings I had for her would have disappeared the instant those words came out of her mouth!!





Someone like this is ONLY interested in ';playing the field'; - and being with as many people as possible. They don't care about anything other than their OWN feelings - which is why you should WALK (no - RUN) AWAY... NOW!! ;););););)What would you guys do with this situation?? I need advice!?
say ';then dont'; and reassure her that you love her
ask this person how serious they are about the relationship... if they are serious ask them why they would ever consider that...
you can't make them change their mind, if they don't want to be with you, then you can't change that. The best thing you can do is give them space, and don't cling on, because that will push them away even more. When you give them space, it will give them an opportunity to see how they really feel about you. And if they leave you for a crush, then you'll know that they don't really love you. It sounds horrible, but it's that simple, unfortunately.
Just tell the person how you feel about this.
They better make up their mind. I'd tell them ';Fine, date that other person. But I might not want to get back together when it ends in catastrophe.'; Obviously, they are not ready to commit, and they aren't being kind to you by playing with your emotions. Let them go. If they loved you, they would not say that, would not string you along. If they loved you, they would not be looking at other girls. Let. Him. Go.
I don't think I would take that very well...
Tell him/her that you love them (if that is true) but that it isn't fair for them to be messing with your head and your guys' relationship. Make it clear that (s)he needs to decide and let you know his/her relationship NOW. It simply isn't okay to keep you waiting. And if (s)he doesn't value your relationship enough to decide in a timely matter, you deserve better.





If (s)he refuses to decide, make the decision easy for him/her: break up.





I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but I really think it's what should happen.





You sound like a great person, and you deserve a great bf/gf. Good luck!
I would tell them to pick. now. its an either/or situation

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