Guys and Girl can i have your advice?

alright.ugh.big breath.istarted dating this guy in February. this is the 2nd guy i have ever dated since my ex of 6 years (im 22 years old by the way)well we got along great and he helped me feel better and know that there are other guys out there.i honeslty was starting to fall hard for him.but it seems like he has did a total 180 on me.i dont understand whats going on and if this is what every guy does or not.it just dont seem write.heres a list of things that are upseting me:


*he texts on his phone constantly and freaks out when i try to take it


*barley calls.maybe once a day..and i only see him once a week.we live a hour apart


*doenst hold my hand.he walks ahead of me


*example: today hurt me very badly.i didnt talk to him all day.he tried calling me earlier but i couldnt answer it.well he never called back so around 9 at night i tried calling him.he didnt answer,a hour later i called unavailable and what do you know he answered!he was short with me and said he wasgoing to sleep.Guys and Girl can i have your advice?
Not really sure why he seems almost negative towards you in some way. The calling not too much maybe that he does not want to look desperate or drive you away in some manner. But again some of the stuff you said is just stupid on his part. Why would I want to walk way ahead of my girl instead of walking and holding hands with her? He makes little sense. The hour apart may also be hard on both of you, but still its no excuse for his stupid ways. If the guy does not treat you well then he may not be for you. Don鈥檛 let yourself be used and abused by anyone. He sounds a little arrogant if not a jerk. Good luck to you.


PS How hard is it to pick up a new relationship when you were with a guy for that long? Girl I am trying to date is about the same so im confused too. Email or post if you can. Thanks.Guys and Girl can i have your advice?
if i were u i would break it off before it got serious he doesnt sound very nice
You shouldn't have to put up with that, you should be with a guy that treats you really well and from what you've wrote, I don't think he does at all. If he's completely different from when you guys started dating then something's probably up. It's not necessarily cheating everytime a guy changes this drastically but it's usually something pretty big. He's not showing you a lot of attention so maybe he's losing interest. You should just talk to him about it and try to work things out or make the first move at least rather than being surprised when something bad happens.