If it were me, I'd let them know that I don't want to get into anything serious because you're not sure about it yet. You don't have to let each know about the other, but just make sure they know you need time to think about it...
Then take your time. You can't rush these things.Hoping to get advice on how to handle being interested in 2 guys? I'm not good with situations like this?
there is nothing wrong with being interested in several people at the same time.
you are not committed in a relationship with either or both to feel guilty of anything.
now, karma will/can come to you in two ways. bad karma only if you play with their feelings. good karma by being honest.
people tend to get into these messy situations of cheating and stuff because they are afraid of being honest. if you tell them both that you are open to get to know them both. that you are not committing to either until you are sure. that you are openly dating, they will respect your honesty. give them the choice of saying yes i want to see you, or no i don't want to be a part of this.
if they both want to date you, then you are the one that sets the pace and the dept of this. you are the one who knows how far you would go. and you are the one who will know when to move forward.
at the same time, if you want to see more than one person at a time. keep in mind that you are dealing with people's feelings. they are falling for you and you need to be responsible for that. if you see that one is getting much more attached to you than what you are, then you may want to back off before it's too late for him.
otherwise, i say go out have fun and date date date.
don't commit until you are sure. and you can only commit to one
Just tell them, look we're not serious yet, so we can both date other people. People do it all the time and understand. When you get serious and ready to make a commitment, then you can choose one
o, bu hu. enjoy now, worry later. and by the way nobody ever confirmed that karma exists. so go nuts and screw them both. good luck
Put it out there...if you have more interest in one than the other then go with him. If you can't make up your mind then try dating both...just make sure they both know (they may make your decision for you at that point). Good luck.
That's what you get for looking for someone when you already have someone.
how old are you and the guys? i think that you would have more of a ';relationship'; with the older guy by what you have said about him. older guys are jsut more mature although depending on your age and his he may want to start settling down and your 6 years younger so you may not be on the same page. sooo if thats the case go for the younger guy, but if not the older one sounds best. good luck.
You really have to follow your ';gut'; on this one.
But, for me, I would be more interested in the fun guy and the connection you say you have.
That could be a basis for some interesting love..........
Don't be playing either unless you have let them both know your are not being exclusive. (that Karma thing you mentioned, ya know......)
Good luck
IF YOU STRING THEM BOTH THEN KARMA WILL COME INTO PLAY. SO DON'T WORRY ABOUT KARMA. PICK THE ONE THAT YOU HAVE THE STRONGEST CONNECTION..KARMA WON'T BE A PROBLEM. THESE TWO GUYS SOUND REALLY GREAT....BUT IT SEEMS YOU LEANING TOWARDS THE OLDER GUY A LITTLE MORE THAN THE YOUNGER GUY. SO IT SEEMS YOU KIND OF ALREADY MADE YOUR DECISION. GOOD WITH YOUR GUT. KARMA IS A *****.....BUT LIKE I SAID AS LONG AS YOU DON'T STRING ANYONE ALONG KARMA WON'T BE A PROBLEM.
Dating two guyz at thesame time can be dangerous, watch out!!!
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