Monday, August 23, 2010
Guys...need your advice!!!!!!!!!?
okayyyyyyy
so how can i teach my BF wat type of woman he has. No games please...just good ';soul'; advice that will hopefully help me find some type of strengh and love for myself so that he can see that energy. Im tired of crying and yelling. Im too good for this. Half of you will say to break up with him but thats not an option. Even though I am saying all of this, truth is we are in love. Our problem is respect! He doesnt respect me. My feelings, my pain and my anger seem to not affect him. He doesnt give me a shoulder to cry on, or anything. I tell him something he goes ';ah, baby';. I know some guys hate the nagging cry of their girl but if you in ';love'; (and YES we are) then I would expect some deep care and he doesnt give me that. How can this change? Please give me advice like you would to a sister. Im hurt guys =[Guys...need your advice!!!!!!!!!?
I think the ultimate answer to your question is probably going to be the one you don't want: whether it's because of what kind of person he is or because of how your relationship has developed, he's not providing you with the support that you need (and that, frankly, everybody deserves from time to time) and it might just mean that you aren't right for each other. But it doesn't sound like you're ready to give up, so here's a couple things to think about:
First, try to figure out if it's his personality type or your connection with him. Some guys can detect the slightest hint of distress and (within reason) will drop everything and talk, listen, hug, whatever is needed; others care deep down but don't know how to react to emotional problems. Most are probably somewhere in between. So your problem could be that he just isn't the right type of guy for you. If he has never been particularly sensitive to your distress and he doesn't seem like the ';touchy-feely'; type with his close friends and family, then it probably just means he's not comfortable dealing with emotions the same way as you. If on the other hand he used to be more attentive or it seems only to be with you that he behaves this way, it's probably just a bad pattern that has arisen and (perhaps) can be fixed.
Second, the kind of care you want really needs to be a two way street. Ask yourself if you have been insensitive to his feelings before, even if it meant not picking up on subtle cues he was trying to leave for you. And be as honest as you can with yourself. Being responsive and having good communication in a relationship is something to which both people have to be dedicated or one party will feel slighted. And remember that men sometimes deal with stress and anxiety differently from women; rather than crying or getting overtly angry, maybe he needs to escape into a video game or a violent movie or something from time to time. Being attentive to him means understanding how he deals with stress and being supportive.
Third, make sure you're not loading him up with too much baggage. He should be there for you when you are facing big problems and major changes, but helping a troubled girlfriend can be very draining. If his life isn't completely together or if he's under a lot of pressure from work, it could be just too much for him to help you deal with your problems as well. So maybe you could try dealing with the little things on your own as much as you can, and when you come to him with the big things say ';please, I really need your help';. It could be that you're coming off as too ';needy'; in the status quo.
Ultimately, no matter what the real problem is, you just have to talk to him about this. Tell him that you need a shoulder to cry on sometimes, and that you have needs that he isn't meeting. Don't phrase it as an ultimatum (even if that is what it ends up becoming), just tell him very nicely that there is a problem and ask him to try to improve. And don't just think of it as teaching him what kind of woman you are; also think of it as learning about what kind of man he is. Go half way, make some compromises, and ask yourself some hard questions if he doesn't meet you in the middle.Guys...need your advice!!!!!!!!!?
tell him no sex until he respects u that is 100% guarantee.
talk to him and tell him and if he doesn't listen tell him no sex,blow jobs,or any thing to do with intercourse.
so how can i teach my BF wat type of woman he has. No games please...just good ';soul'; advice that will hopefully help me find some type of strengh and love for myself so that he can see that energy. Im tired of crying and yelling. Im too good for this. Half of you will say to break up with him but thats not an option. Even though I am saying all of this, truth is we are in love. Our problem is respect! He doesnt respect me. My feelings, my pain and my anger seem to not affect him. He doesnt give me a shoulder to cry on, or anything. I tell him something he goes ';ah, baby';. I know some guys hate the nagging cry of their girl but if you in ';love'; (and YES we are) then I would expect some deep care and he doesnt give me that. How can this change? Please give me advice like you would to a sister. Im hurt guys =[Guys...need your advice!!!!!!!!!?
I think the ultimate answer to your question is probably going to be the one you don't want: whether it's because of what kind of person he is or because of how your relationship has developed, he's not providing you with the support that you need (and that, frankly, everybody deserves from time to time) and it might just mean that you aren't right for each other. But it doesn't sound like you're ready to give up, so here's a couple things to think about:
First, try to figure out if it's his personality type or your connection with him. Some guys can detect the slightest hint of distress and (within reason) will drop everything and talk, listen, hug, whatever is needed; others care deep down but don't know how to react to emotional problems. Most are probably somewhere in between. So your problem could be that he just isn't the right type of guy for you. If he has never been particularly sensitive to your distress and he doesn't seem like the ';touchy-feely'; type with his close friends and family, then it probably just means he's not comfortable dealing with emotions the same way as you. If on the other hand he used to be more attentive or it seems only to be with you that he behaves this way, it's probably just a bad pattern that has arisen and (perhaps) can be fixed.
Second, the kind of care you want really needs to be a two way street. Ask yourself if you have been insensitive to his feelings before, even if it meant not picking up on subtle cues he was trying to leave for you. And be as honest as you can with yourself. Being responsive and having good communication in a relationship is something to which both people have to be dedicated or one party will feel slighted. And remember that men sometimes deal with stress and anxiety differently from women; rather than crying or getting overtly angry, maybe he needs to escape into a video game or a violent movie or something from time to time. Being attentive to him means understanding how he deals with stress and being supportive.
Third, make sure you're not loading him up with too much baggage. He should be there for you when you are facing big problems and major changes, but helping a troubled girlfriend can be very draining. If his life isn't completely together or if he's under a lot of pressure from work, it could be just too much for him to help you deal with your problems as well. So maybe you could try dealing with the little things on your own as much as you can, and when you come to him with the big things say ';please, I really need your help';. It could be that you're coming off as too ';needy'; in the status quo.
Ultimately, no matter what the real problem is, you just have to talk to him about this. Tell him that you need a shoulder to cry on sometimes, and that you have needs that he isn't meeting. Don't phrase it as an ultimatum (even if that is what it ends up becoming), just tell him very nicely that there is a problem and ask him to try to improve. And don't just think of it as teaching him what kind of woman you are; also think of it as learning about what kind of man he is. Go half way, make some compromises, and ask yourself some hard questions if he doesn't meet you in the middle.Guys...need your advice!!!!!!!!!?
tell him no sex until he respects u that is 100% guarantee.
talk to him and tell him and if he doesn't listen tell him no sex,blow jobs,or any thing to do with intercourse.
Guys: i need advice!!!!!! please help?
My ex-bf and I ended our relationship in the begging of Sept, mainly b/c he said i was “getting mad to easily about small things” and because he started liking a girl named Kelly. We ended up not talking for a whole month (like we’d only say hi or smile in the hallway at school if we saw eachother). I texted him last week, we texted alittle but he didn’t talk that much.This past weekend was homecoming (he went with Kelly), but now they don’t like each other and don’t talk as much. He said hi and asked me to dance so I thought “this is a step up” (because I never stopped liking him, i’ve been wanting him back). But then later I saw him dancing with his other ex-gf Allie, so I was afraid that he liked her again..But my friend that has cheer with Allie said that the day before homecoming, she said that she has no feelings for him at all.
What should I do? Other people said to make the first move but I don’t know what to do!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!Guys: i need advice!!!!!! please help?
Find yourself a real man. One that will cherish you. Not some dumb fool that prances from girl to girl. Either he doesn't know what he wants or he is looking for an easy hop in the sack with someone. Forget him. Find somebody decent.Guys: i need advice!!!!!! please help?
Well, im a girl and I think you should leave this dude alone. He`s confused and on top of that, making bad decisions along with not telling you who he talks to and doesn`t talk to. Move on girl, and trust me, you find other guys. Hanging around this guy will be a very confusing rollercoaster and he possibly might try playing out on you.natural facial
What should I do? Other people said to make the first move but I don’t know what to do!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!Guys: i need advice!!!!!! please help?
Find yourself a real man. One that will cherish you. Not some dumb fool that prances from girl to girl. Either he doesn't know what he wants or he is looking for an easy hop in the sack with someone. Forget him. Find somebody decent.Guys: i need advice!!!!!! please help?
Well, im a girl and I think you should leave this dude alone. He`s confused and on top of that, making bad decisions along with not telling you who he talks to and doesn`t talk to. Move on girl, and trust me, you find other guys. Hanging around this guy will be a very confusing rollercoaster and he possibly might try playing out on you.
Guys Please offer advice 10 points for best answer?
Well there is a girl at my work she is 19 and im 16(yes i know she is over 18 but the law in australia is allowing our age difference. I like her does anyone have any advice to give me that would sort of make her melt in my arms(lol) Also her brother likes my cousin who also works there. PS dont say anything like you will never get her because i guarentee i will have a shot and im not a wimp and also its just showing ur ignorance in not offering and constructive advice OKGuys Please offer advice 10 points for best answer?
Right..
Just be aware that a relation with a co worker is not accepted by all companies. In case the relation fails, one of them would need to find somewhere else to work. (most likely - you, as you are the younger one).
The age difference : not a problem. If both parties are okay with it, so what? It is your life, not that of anyone else. 3 years is not that bad.
So, how to win her? Be friendly, helpful, and if you have finished a job or assignment together succesfully (don`t know where you work, so i`m guessing) - then you could start by asking her to 'celebrate' a job well done with a drink.
The rest depends on you and her - and whether or not she sees more in you than a friend.
You are at a disadvantage though. Girls mature faster than boys, which is very obvious between 15 and 20. She might consider you to be just a kid. So make sure that you do not act like one.Guys Please offer advice 10 points for best answer?
Ok first you become friends... Than you find out what she really likes and what she interested in. Than you use that you giver her compliments you tell her that she is attractive. As a compliment make sure she know that you like her than you make your move. Take her to the movies, or the park or anything like that. This is wear know what interests her comes in handy.
Hope this helps man
Firstly don't tel her your age. If you already have act mature towards her and see if she will fall for it. Im sure you know how an 18, 19 or 20 year old would act. Get her laughing and feeling happy. Those are the first steps to getting a lady on your side. Never show her your childish side. You will lose alot of points if you do.
tell her 2 sit on ya face and pedal ur ears. she'l either smile and do it or knock ya on ya arrrse. good luck mate
if you like her talk to her be nice to her get to know her then ask her out.
just man up and ask her out. women love confidance as long as it doesn't move into the cocky realm.
You will never get her, lol. Prove me wrong
Right..
Just be aware that a relation with a co worker is not accepted by all companies. In case the relation fails, one of them would need to find somewhere else to work. (most likely - you, as you are the younger one).
The age difference : not a problem. If both parties are okay with it, so what? It is your life, not that of anyone else. 3 years is not that bad.
So, how to win her? Be friendly, helpful, and if you have finished a job or assignment together succesfully (don`t know where you work, so i`m guessing) - then you could start by asking her to 'celebrate' a job well done with a drink.
The rest depends on you and her - and whether or not she sees more in you than a friend.
You are at a disadvantage though. Girls mature faster than boys, which is very obvious between 15 and 20. She might consider you to be just a kid. So make sure that you do not act like one.Guys Please offer advice 10 points for best answer?
Ok first you become friends... Than you find out what she really likes and what she interested in. Than you use that you giver her compliments you tell her that she is attractive. As a compliment make sure she know that you like her than you make your move. Take her to the movies, or the park or anything like that. This is wear know what interests her comes in handy.
Hope this helps man
Firstly don't tel her your age. If you already have act mature towards her and see if she will fall for it. Im sure you know how an 18, 19 or 20 year old would act. Get her laughing and feeling happy. Those are the first steps to getting a lady on your side. Never show her your childish side. You will lose alot of points if you do.
tell her 2 sit on ya face and pedal ur ears. she'l either smile and do it or knock ya on ya arrrse. good luck mate
if you like her talk to her be nice to her get to know her then ask her out.
just man up and ask her out. women love confidance as long as it doesn't move into the cocky realm.
You will never get her, lol. Prove me wrong
GUYS and GIRLS advice plzz?
ok so i am a sophomore in high school.. i have liked this guy for a long time.. and we have Only been friends... we talk on the phone for hours sometimes and text now and then... about a week ago i told him i liked him and he said ';finally u tell me!'; we are still l just friends but our friendship has changed.. we still talk on the phone for hours sometimes but now when i talk to him he is perverted...he flirts more and stuff... he'll tell me my eyeliner brings out my eyes just to see what i will do. I have tryed to walk away from him becuz i get to involved in liking someone who i dont no if he likes me back... but everytime i try i get upset and cry. my friends tell me he likes me and stuff and his friends mess with me sometimes about him and me.... i dont no what to think... does he like me or do i just never cross his mind???GUYS and GIRLS advice plzz?
It sounds like he likes you and is he a sweet boy, Don't listen to his friends, sometimes guys just like to mess around and fool with you. If he flirts with u and talks with u for hours on the phone can't u tell that he likes u? U shouldn't have someone to tell u that, u should kno urself. And ive never liked a guy who told me my eyeliner brings out my eyes =). That sounds sweet and he sounded happy that you told him that you liked him. Give him a try despite whathis friends sayand ur own inhibitions!GUYS and GIRLS advice plzz?
He likes you. If you don't like what he's doing, then leave him be. Guys are weird.
It sounds like he likes you and is he a sweet boy, Don't listen to his friends, sometimes guys just like to mess around and fool with you. If he flirts with u and talks with u for hours on the phone can't u tell that he likes u? U shouldn't have someone to tell u that, u should kno urself. And ive never liked a guy who told me my eyeliner brings out my eyes =). That sounds sweet and he sounded happy that you told him that you liked him. Give him a try despite whathis friends sayand ur own inhibitions!GUYS and GIRLS advice plzz?
He likes you. If you don't like what he's doing, then leave him be. Guys are weird.
Guys Whats Ur Advice? I'll Answer Urs..Well If I Can...?
he is perfect tall tan funny sweet caring just perfect even when we were we with all his friends and they were beings *** holes he was nice and ignored them and just talked to me even when they made fun of him well anyway we talked for days and since we go to diff. schools we knew it would never work out if we went out but if we hooked up whenever i went to my cuz's that would work so we planned on hooking up but i had to cancel the plans he seemed upset then 2 days later he had a gf...does he still like me? and is there any hope that he would like me again? whats up opinion and what would u do if it was u?Guys Whats Ur Advice? I'll Answer Urs..Well If I Can...?
im not a guy but he seemed interested but i guess u both missed oyur opputunity! grab the next oen u get n dotn miss it!
im not a guy but he seemed interested but i guess u both missed oyur opputunity! grab the next oen u get n dotn miss it!
What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She's always telling my MOM how cute i em, and how she wants to be with me. The thing is i talked to my cousins about HER. They said they have heard things about her saying she is a DIRTY female and have seen guys go in, and out of her house she is only 15 y/o.
I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my guy cousin is saying and that the girls mom is very strict with her and rarely let's her out . The thing is every time my cousin knows about a female trying to get with me he says ';She's a slut right away';.... And this one time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go then next thing i know he's going out with her!.
Who would you believe your mom who's good friends with the girls mom or your cousins????What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
I guess if i had to believe one of them i would believe my mom. Your cousin has already stabbed you in the back about girls. But i am the type of person that i have to form my own opinion about people regardless of what i hear about them.
I would take my chances with this girl. Good LuckWhat do you guys think of this i need your advice?
you're a decent kid. do what you feel. make sure when things work out that you don't have sex or anything like that. it just messes things up.
More likely your mom. It sounds like your cousins are jealous? If shes dirty then dont be with her..... just call it off.
I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my guy cousin is saying and that the girls mom is very strict with her and rarely let's her out . The thing is every time my cousin knows about a female trying to get with me he says ';She's a slut right away';.... And this one time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go then next thing i know he's going out with her!.
Who would you believe your mom who's good friends with the girls mom or your cousins????What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
I guess if i had to believe one of them i would believe my mom. Your cousin has already stabbed you in the back about girls. But i am the type of person that i have to form my own opinion about people regardless of what i hear about them.
I would take my chances with this girl. Good LuckWhat do you guys think of this i need your advice?
you're a decent kid. do what you feel. make sure when things work out that you don't have sex or anything like that. it just messes things up.
More likely your mom. It sounds like your cousins are jealous? If shes dirty then dont be with her..... just call it off.
Ok, just a little advice (girls only please b/c all guys [including myself] give the same answer to this)?
Ok so theres this girl that took me to a dance, and I normally go to her softball games, but the dance was kind of akward and even though I tried to contact her I haven't heard back. Should I still go to her game even though she might be trying to avoid me, I still want to go to see my other friend who is on the varsty team that plays after them.Ok, just a little advice (girls only please b/c all guys [including myself] give the same answer to this)?
just go, but act like youre there more for your other friend than for her, if she ignores you at the game, then you know she is not interested, but if she says hi or whatever then maybe she has just been too busy to call you backOk, just a little advice (girls only please b/c all guys [including myself] give the same answer to this)?
hey hey! not all chicks are dumb!
well do what you really want -i would go to the varsity game and if that girl that is maybe avoiding you sees you- then talk to her and ask what's up
Gee, teen love was ';awkward';? Sounds pretty much par for the course. It's fine... everything in HS is awkward. If you still like her, go!
yeah still go.....if she feels akward she might tell you. And make sure that you go and talk to your other friend too so if she does feel akward she knows that you weren't just there for her.
yeah she is the one who is going have to deal. go out have a ball show her how much she is losing!
yes just go, than you will know if she is avoiding you, if she is go up to her and ask be forward dont get ran over by someone! speak your mind:)
i personaly think that you should go n talk 2 the girl, and observ the conversation see wat you can get from there i mean u can make out weather she is intrested in you or not....
n ya you should go 2 tha game as u dont sound shure about wat ur saying(dance).....give it time if the girl is worth it
Well since your friend plays after them, maybe you could show up towards the end of the girls game and say to her, Hey I came to want so-so play next, I would of come for your whole game, but since I didn't hear back from you, I didn't want you think I was stalking you. Is everything okay or would you like me to leave you be.
Now everything is out in the open
yeah, go! don't try to talk to her, see what happens but if she asks why you're there, you have a legitimate excuse. maybe she will talk to you, maybe not - but don't stop living your life just because of her. go and have fun! i hope your friend's team wins. :-)
Yes, go see your other friend play. You don't stop seeing other people because someone else might be there. Maybe she hasnt' had a chance to get back to you, or maybe she doesn't want to.. either way, no reason to stop seeing your other friend play. Just go! If she talks to you.. talk to her, if not, just go as you planned to see your other friend.
Go to the game and see your ather friend.
go! talk to her and if u notice that shes not interested then just mention that u came to c ur friend and maybe ';didnt know she would be there too'; or something like that, its the perfect way out of a weird situation
good luck
hay life goes on dude..
did you do anything to piss her off? maybe shes not sure where you stand. i think you should still go to the game. maybe go for the end of her game and then catch you other friends game. make a point of it to say hi to the other friend so she might get a little humbled if she thinks your there just for her. indifference baby, it always works.. (trust me im in sales, lol)
May go halfway through the game? If she asks why you came you said you are waiting for your other friend to play. And, if she asks you why you were late, you can make some excuse for being a bit late. It might help to answer some of your questions...
just go, but act like youre there more for your other friend than for her, if she ignores you at the game, then you know she is not interested, but if she says hi or whatever then maybe she has just been too busy to call you backOk, just a little advice (girls only please b/c all guys [including myself] give the same answer to this)?
hey hey! not all chicks are dumb!
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well do what you really want -i would go to the varsity game and if that girl that is maybe avoiding you sees you- then talk to her and ask what's up
Gee, teen love was ';awkward';? Sounds pretty much par for the course. It's fine... everything in HS is awkward. If you still like her, go!
yeah still go.....if she feels akward she might tell you. And make sure that you go and talk to your other friend too so if she does feel akward she knows that you weren't just there for her.
yeah she is the one who is going have to deal. go out have a ball show her how much she is losing!
yes just go, than you will know if she is avoiding you, if she is go up to her and ask be forward dont get ran over by someone! speak your mind:)
i personaly think that you should go n talk 2 the girl, and observ the conversation see wat you can get from there i mean u can make out weather she is intrested in you or not....
n ya you should go 2 tha game as u dont sound shure about wat ur saying(dance).....give it time if the girl is worth it
Well since your friend plays after them, maybe you could show up towards the end of the girls game and say to her, Hey I came to want so-so play next, I would of come for your whole game, but since I didn't hear back from you, I didn't want you think I was stalking you. Is everything okay or would you like me to leave you be.
Now everything is out in the open
yeah, go! don't try to talk to her, see what happens but if she asks why you're there, you have a legitimate excuse. maybe she will talk to you, maybe not - but don't stop living your life just because of her. go and have fun! i hope your friend's team wins. :-)
Yes, go see your other friend play. You don't stop seeing other people because someone else might be there. Maybe she hasnt' had a chance to get back to you, or maybe she doesn't want to.. either way, no reason to stop seeing your other friend play. Just go! If she talks to you.. talk to her, if not, just go as you planned to see your other friend.
Go to the game and see your ather friend.
go! talk to her and if u notice that shes not interested then just mention that u came to c ur friend and maybe ';didnt know she would be there too'; or something like that, its the perfect way out of a weird situation
good luck
hay life goes on dude..
did you do anything to piss her off? maybe shes not sure where you stand. i think you should still go to the game. maybe go for the end of her game and then catch you other friends game. make a point of it to say hi to the other friend so she might get a little humbled if she thinks your there just for her. indifference baby, it always works.. (trust me im in sales, lol)
May go halfway through the game? If she asks why you came you said you are waiting for your other friend to play. And, if she asks you why you were late, you can make some excuse for being a bit late. It might help to answer some of your questions...
What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She's always telling my MOM how cute i em, and how she wants to be with me. The thing is i talked to my cousins about HER. They said they have heard things about her saying she is a DIRTY female and have seen guys go in, and out of her house she is only 15 y/o.
I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my guy cousin is saying and that the girls mom is very strict with her and rarely let's her out . The thing is every time my cousin knows about a female trying to get with me he says ';She's a slut right away';.... And this one time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go then next thing i know he's going out with her!.
Who would you believe your mom who's good friends with the girls mom or your cousins????What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
Ahh man.. your cousin sounds like one of mine! He is obviously doesnt know wat he is talking about, he thinks they are all hoes and wants them for himself.. listen to your mom or better yet, get to know the girl yourself! It seems like you dont want a dirty girl as ur gf and let her know that; no reason in getting in something with a person who will just hurt your feelings. But anyway your cousin is looking for something else in woman than what you are so when u hear his advice understand its from his rotten perspective, lol. You dnt have to be rude to him either, and find out with this new girl for yourself! GL mateWhat do you guys think of this i need your advice?
what ever your cousins say is right
Why don't you test her fool!natural facial
I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my guy cousin is saying and that the girls mom is very strict with her and rarely let's her out . The thing is every time my cousin knows about a female trying to get with me he says ';She's a slut right away';.... And this one time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go then next thing i know he's going out with her!.
Who would you believe your mom who's good friends with the girls mom or your cousins????What do you guys think of this i need your advice?
Ahh man.. your cousin sounds like one of mine! He is obviously doesnt know wat he is talking about, he thinks they are all hoes and wants them for himself.. listen to your mom or better yet, get to know the girl yourself! It seems like you dont want a dirty girl as ur gf and let her know that; no reason in getting in something with a person who will just hurt your feelings. But anyway your cousin is looking for something else in woman than what you are so when u hear his advice understand its from his rotten perspective, lol. You dnt have to be rude to him either, and find out with this new girl for yourself! GL mateWhat do you guys think of this i need your advice?
what ever your cousins say is right
Why don't you test her fool!
Do girls like guys to chase them?? + i need some advice , please answer?
ok i really dont know if my views on this are right, usually when i see a girl i would like to talk to /date , but i see her taking /laughing with another guy , i just back off , i feel she is happier and just leave , this has caused me to skip many opportunities that may have lead to a relationship , do you girls like a guy to pursue you , because there are people like me who feel you are happier and give up trying?? what advice can you offer me , thank youDo girls like guys to chase them?? + i need some advice , please answer?
yeah immature girls like boys to chase them. any girl you want to be in a matture relationship with though, knows how to put away those romantics preteen fantasies and grow up and go for the person they want to be with. move onDo girls like guys to chase them?? + i need some advice , please answer?
When ever this happens ... just play it cool...Don't let it get too you even though you may feel upset or sad..
Well you see, while you might have developed feelings for the girl... she might not... It's normal.. because men develop attraction right away, almost instantly because men are visual creatures... Where as for women it takes more time to develop attraction, they have to know you more as a person...
So don't expect her to be just thinking about you and keep her attention focused on you, especially at the beginning. Because remember she might have not still developed feelings for you..
So just play it cool...and act casual, like if nothing is wrong... But this should also encourage you to take things to the next step... Because in life there are moments and if you don't do nothing...you might loose your opportunity...or you might have to wait a long time..
So be optimist, confident, and keep a good humor.. because any girl likes that.
And yes girls like being chased...
this is my advice to you;
just talk to them normally and make them laugh
and talk to like every girl you see
but dont be creepy
and by that i mean dont be like hey wuts up in a random place because then she will be like, ok.....and she will act awkward
tlk to the girls u sit next to in school
and make sure u dress nice and ur hair is good
but the main thing is, Dont be creepy
it makes girls run away and they tell all their friends to get away from the creepy dude to
u should ask a guy that gets a lot of girls wut to do lol
Yeah girls like if you make a bit of an effort and pursue her a little. It makes her feel wanted and like you really value a chance to be with her. Talk to these girls as them out if they say sorry no or I have a boyfriend then back off but no girl will not like you for asking it will be nice for her!
hii, :)
well you will get nowhere if you see them talking to someone else and just give up!
just go over and join in, or talk to them after wards. just cause there talking to someone else, it doesn't mean anything.. and most likely its just nothing.
a girl likes a boy to come over and talk to them, and maybe even ask them out?
hope i helped,
xxx
Haha.
This is a truly funny question.
Yea, I love it when a guy 'chases' me.
It's so fun.
But some girls get too wrapped up into it, and then it just becomes a game of 'how long I can keep him wanting me.'
It's enjoyable for awhile, but if you feel she's just playing a game, let her go.
we like guys that chase us.. we want you to come up to us and say hello you look so pretty today while we are with our friends. we want you to say you look beautiful today lil compliments like that.. we want you to make us laugh and joke we take that as flirting and chasing
what is so great about women????? all they want is money and looks....... if she is not physically attracted to you she wont want you any way so maybe you should just work on you for now and leave women alone...... they will never change....
Personally, i love it. it means that the guy thinks highly of me, enough so to try harder!! if a guy put half the effort into getting to know me as they do getting in my pants i'd be so much better off!
yes we like t be chased but not for to long let her no that you would like to talk to her and maybe even have a date.
oh yes because it makes them feel valuable and loving, wanted.
ok yeah i think you should put more into it i mean she might feel like your over her and shes only doing it to bug you :)
yea girls like to get chased it makes them feel pretty5
ahhh yeah i like a guy who is easy
yeah immature girls like boys to chase them. any girl you want to be in a matture relationship with though, knows how to put away those romantics preteen fantasies and grow up and go for the person they want to be with. move onDo girls like guys to chase them?? + i need some advice , please answer?
When ever this happens ... just play it cool...Don't let it get too you even though you may feel upset or sad..
Well you see, while you might have developed feelings for the girl... she might not... It's normal.. because men develop attraction right away, almost instantly because men are visual creatures... Where as for women it takes more time to develop attraction, they have to know you more as a person...
So don't expect her to be just thinking about you and keep her attention focused on you, especially at the beginning. Because remember she might have not still developed feelings for you..
So just play it cool...and act casual, like if nothing is wrong... But this should also encourage you to take things to the next step... Because in life there are moments and if you don't do nothing...you might loose your opportunity...or you might have to wait a long time..
So be optimist, confident, and keep a good humor.. because any girl likes that.
And yes girls like being chased...
this is my advice to you;
just talk to them normally and make them laugh
and talk to like every girl you see
but dont be creepy
and by that i mean dont be like hey wuts up in a random place because then she will be like, ok.....and she will act awkward
tlk to the girls u sit next to in school
and make sure u dress nice and ur hair is good
but the main thing is, Dont be creepy
it makes girls run away and they tell all their friends to get away from the creepy dude to
u should ask a guy that gets a lot of girls wut to do lol
Yeah girls like if you make a bit of an effort and pursue her a little. It makes her feel wanted and like you really value a chance to be with her. Talk to these girls as them out if they say sorry no or I have a boyfriend then back off but no girl will not like you for asking it will be nice for her!
hii, :)
well you will get nowhere if you see them talking to someone else and just give up!
just go over and join in, or talk to them after wards. just cause there talking to someone else, it doesn't mean anything.. and most likely its just nothing.
a girl likes a boy to come over and talk to them, and maybe even ask them out?
hope i helped,
xxx
Haha.
This is a truly funny question.
Yea, I love it when a guy 'chases' me.
It's so fun.
But some girls get too wrapped up into it, and then it just becomes a game of 'how long I can keep him wanting me.'
It's enjoyable for awhile, but if you feel she's just playing a game, let her go.
we like guys that chase us.. we want you to come up to us and say hello you look so pretty today while we are with our friends. we want you to say you look beautiful today lil compliments like that.. we want you to make us laugh and joke we take that as flirting and chasing
what is so great about women????? all they want is money and looks....... if she is not physically attracted to you she wont want you any way so maybe you should just work on you for now and leave women alone...... they will never change....
Personally, i love it. it means that the guy thinks highly of me, enough so to try harder!! if a guy put half the effort into getting to know me as they do getting in my pants i'd be so much better off!
yes we like t be chased but not for to long let her no that you would like to talk to her and maybe even have a date.
oh yes because it makes them feel valuable and loving, wanted.
ok yeah i think you should put more into it i mean she might feel like your over her and shes only doing it to bug you :)
yea girls like to get chased it makes them feel pretty5
ahhh yeah i like a guy who is easy
Guys!! i need one of you to IM me after saying something stupid in a answer? i gotta have advice.?
help meh please.
i need advice about another guy from a guy i dont know.
lol
my friends are too blabbery to help at the moment. haha
so please IM me there is a link on my profile to the IM.
thanks!Guys!! i need one of you to IM me after saying something stupid in a answer? i gotta have advice.?
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i need advice about another guy from a guy i dont know.
lol
my friends are too blabbery to help at the moment. haha
so please IM me there is a link on my profile to the IM.
thanks!Guys!! i need one of you to IM me after saying something stupid in a answer? i gotta have advice.?
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Is it a good idea to take relationship advice from a guy called the Love Monkey?
He seemed reputible. All I needed to do was buy him a case of Keystone LightIs it a good idea to take relationship advice from a guy called the Love Monkey?
If you give him a shot of vodka too do you get the Deluxe Version of Relationship Advice????
I can give you advice and all I want in return is to borrow your fingers!!!!Is it a good idea to take relationship advice from a guy called the Love Monkey?
i think that's monkey business. Keystone light YUCK!!! Let's get him some good micros and then maybe the advice would be good.
Monkeys are great at relationships, I would trust him.
Y waste buying that..monkey stuff??
we have whole lot of people with different experience here to help!
lol
I don't trust monkeys ...
If you give him a shot of vodka too do you get the Deluxe Version of Relationship Advice????
I can give you advice and all I want in return is to borrow your fingers!!!!Is it a good idea to take relationship advice from a guy called the Love Monkey?
i think that's monkey business. Keystone light YUCK!!! Let's get him some good micros and then maybe the advice would be good.
Monkeys are great at relationships, I would trust him.
Y waste buying that..monkey stuff??
we have whole lot of people with different experience here to help!
lol
I don't trust monkeys ...
I'm insanely shy around guys. unless they're really funny or something. any advice to get over it?
i want more guy FRIENDS but i'm too shy...? any advice at all would be great :)I'm insanely shy around guys. unless they're really funny or something. any advice to get over it?
darling this is the joys of females. I was the same. I dont think there is any easy way of getting over the shyness except to boost your self esteem up first. People with low self esteem tend to be more shy of the oppisite sex. However, one day you will meet the right one who will rid you of your shyness and you will wonder what you were ever worried about. good luck.I'm insanely shy around guys. unless they're really funny or something. any advice to get over it?
Just whip out your penis and go buck wild.
darling this is the joys of females. I was the same. I dont think there is any easy way of getting over the shyness except to boost your self esteem up first. People with low self esteem tend to be more shy of the oppisite sex. However, one day you will meet the right one who will rid you of your shyness and you will wonder what you were ever worried about. good luck.I'm insanely shy around guys. unless they're really funny or something. any advice to get over it?
Just whip out your penis and go buck wild.
Question mostly for girls, but guys answer if you can help, need advice please?
i am a 20 year old guy, and my little sister is nearly 10, when she was growing up her dad was never there, and i pretty much was her dad, even though mum was there always, if felt like that father figure and have always felt an incredible amount of love for her and would die for her in a second, we have always been very close but lately she doesnt talk to me and just swears at me and says she hates me and stuff like that, i know she has been getting picked on at school by one girl cos she is pretty small, but would this make her act like this towards me, and should i be not as close to her and leave her alone and back off, or just keep trying, it really sucks cos i love her but she treats me like s**t, any advice please, is this just normal for a growing girl or what?Question mostly for girls, but guys answer if you can help, need advice please?
Its her age, When I was 12 years old I use to be really crancky and bitchy with my mom not that I still aint cause I Do get my moments still with her, your sisters hormones are probally changing and maybe it is because of school maybe try to take her out somewere to try to let go of some of her stress and maybe to try to have a conversation with her and let her know that you are always there 4 her and just talk to her. well good luck with everything. and I agree with the woman above me. Dont let her push you away be with her thru even the hardest situations and its a cry 4 help. well good luck and I hope everything works out.Question mostly for girls, but guys answer if you can help, need advice please?
Since you are 20 pay a visit to her school and speak with
the principal. Ask if your sister is doing okay and let the
principal know about the bullying. Something is wrong and
her change in behavior is a cry for help. Don't let her push you away. She needs you.
Its her age, When I was 12 years old I use to be really crancky and bitchy with my mom not that I still aint cause I Do get my moments still with her, your sisters hormones are probally changing and maybe it is because of school maybe try to take her out somewere to try to let go of some of her stress and maybe to try to have a conversation with her and let her know that you are always there 4 her and just talk to her. well good luck with everything. and I agree with the woman above me. Dont let her push you away be with her thru even the hardest situations and its a cry 4 help. well good luck and I hope everything works out.Question mostly for girls, but guys answer if you can help, need advice please?
Since you are 20 pay a visit to her school and speak with
the principal. Ask if your sister is doing okay and let the
principal know about the bullying. Something is wrong and
her change in behavior is a cry for help. Don't let her push you away. She needs you.
I need some help, with guys and rumors; anybody willing to give advice?
I'm so disgusted with everything right now. First let me tell you my situation. Im 15 and i play Football. I love it, im the only girl ever to play on my high schools team. Its my dream to be in the NFL. Anyways there is this huge rumor going around saying that i am a lesbian. No, its not true at all. The only reason why i think that is going around is because i play football, which is considered to be a manly sport. I don't know what to do about it, and its so hard to ignore. Next the boy problem, every guy thinks as me as a there best friend. Basically like a guy too. In football all i hear about is boobs and buts, who they like and don't like. The other night my crush who happens to be on the football team and one of my best friends comes up to me while im watching the game and he says ';Abby, i like that your one of the only girls who actually plays and watches football.'; I ofcouse said thanks but then he said Your totally like one of the guys. I can tell you which girl id like to bang and you wouldn't even mind';!
Right then and there i walked away, i know guys are pigs(some of them) and i don't know.
I am not quitting the football, the thing i love.
So please don't have that as one of your suggestions.
ThanksI need some help, with guys and rumors; anybody willing to give advice?
I don't really see a way out of this situation, if I there was a girl on my team, she would be, by definition, one of the guys. I guess that's just how it works.
My question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need some help, with guys and rumors; anybody willing to give advice?
well you have to prioritize
whats more important to you;
having a boyfriend or playing football.
natural facial
Right then and there i walked away, i know guys are pigs(some of them) and i don't know.
I am not quitting the football, the thing i love.
So please don't have that as one of your suggestions.
ThanksI need some help, with guys and rumors; anybody willing to give advice?
I don't really see a way out of this situation, if I there was a girl on my team, she would be, by definition, one of the guys. I guess that's just how it works.
My question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need some help, with guys and rumors; anybody willing to give advice?
well you have to prioritize
whats more important to you;
having a boyfriend or playing football.
Ladies! Guys! College Students! Help me out, I Need Some Advice!?
Im interested in majoring in Radio Production. Im 18 years old and start college this upcoming fall....Can anyone tell me the Pro's and Con's of a Radio Production Major?Ladies! Guys! College Students! Help me out, I Need Some Advice!?
omg it's not mandatory that you submit your question in a certain area.
good luck with your question, wish i could help!Ladies! Guys! College Students! Help me out, I Need Some Advice!?
Wrong place but I'd say go for something that is a little MRE trust worthy, I say this because unless the gov pulls something out their behind the users going to get worse into this ';represion';, we're in a damn depression already. About you question though I would choose something to fall back on first then go for the radio thing. Unless your rich like crazy go with the radio
WRONG SECTION DUDE
omg it's not mandatory that you submit your question in a certain area.
good luck with your question, wish i could help!Ladies! Guys! College Students! Help me out, I Need Some Advice!?
Wrong place but I'd say go for something that is a little MRE trust worthy, I say this because unless the gov pulls something out their behind the users going to get worse into this ';represion';, we're in a damn depression already. About you question though I would choose something to fall back on first then go for the radio thing. Unless your rich like crazy go with the radio
WRONG SECTION DUDE
Need advice - can b from any1 but preferably guys.?
ok - so - this is a luv question - like a does he like me question - but, i need 2 know if hes flirting or if hes just doing this stuff 2 annoy me
so, his name is Tyler, and he always punches me and stuff, so i always kick him back! IT's sorta our thing - and anywayz - he always tox 2 me and stuf and he leans on me and stuff. he always tells me ';I ahv no friends'; and then I go yes i do, ur sorda one of them and then he's like ';i know';. And he tells me to suck his balls - eww - and yea... hes like dat... he also told me he liked me but then said just kidding.
yea - so..is he flirting or just annoying me?
would u do dat if u were flirting?Need advice - can b from any1 but preferably guys.?
I do do that to some girls i like and dont like. It could be both probably he best way to find out is to ask him.Need advice - can b from any1 but preferably guys.?
I have the same problem at my job with this guy who i have to work next to. Jus tell him straight up look please stop, its interfering and you havnt the time nor enegy to waste. Look girl, how old or you? dont waste your time there are PLENTY fish in tha sea. either he likes you (if he does then great) if not (if he just wants to mess with your head) you need to find yourself someone who'll treat you better. even if he is fer real do you always wanna be treated that by your boyfriend?
He really sounds like a jerk but there's a good chance he's into you.
hard to tell, you must like him or you wouldnt have asked, you should tell him you like him and want to date him, and if you get rejected, just tell him you were joking, maybe thats what he was doing with you, and i would never flirt like that but i would never do that anyways
Ok,
Depending on the age criteria...
If i were to flirt with someone, I wouldnt insult them or ask for sexual favours, But like i said, Depending on the age criteria. It sounds like you two have known each other for a while, However, he might be flirting with you to an extent! If he wanted something he would have already tried for something!
of course, it just playing, like him tapping you, it could be worse
so, his name is Tyler, and he always punches me and stuff, so i always kick him back! IT's sorta our thing - and anywayz - he always tox 2 me and stuf and he leans on me and stuff. he always tells me ';I ahv no friends'; and then I go yes i do, ur sorda one of them and then he's like ';i know';. And he tells me to suck his balls - eww - and yea... hes like dat... he also told me he liked me but then said just kidding.
yea - so..is he flirting or just annoying me?
would u do dat if u were flirting?Need advice - can b from any1 but preferably guys.?
I do do that to some girls i like and dont like. It could be both probably he best way to find out is to ask him.Need advice - can b from any1 but preferably guys.?
I have the same problem at my job with this guy who i have to work next to. Jus tell him straight up look please stop, its interfering and you havnt the time nor enegy to waste. Look girl, how old or you? dont waste your time there are PLENTY fish in tha sea. either he likes you (if he does then great) if not (if he just wants to mess with your head) you need to find yourself someone who'll treat you better. even if he is fer real do you always wanna be treated that by your boyfriend?
He really sounds like a jerk but there's a good chance he's into you.
hard to tell, you must like him or you wouldnt have asked, you should tell him you like him and want to date him, and if you get rejected, just tell him you were joking, maybe thats what he was doing with you, and i would never flirt like that but i would never do that anyways
Ok,
Depending on the age criteria...
If i were to flirt with someone, I wouldnt insult them or ask for sexual favours, But like i said, Depending on the age criteria. It sounds like you two have known each other for a while, However, he might be flirting with you to an extent! If he wanted something he would have already tried for something!
of course, it just playing, like him tapping you, it could be worse
';My guys is being conduce or something'; I need advice?
i met this wonderful guy over the net few yrs ago and we started exchanging mails and all those stuff, he alwys tell me that he love me and how he would me to be his wife but the problem is that he never ever call me or send me sms to cut the strory short i feel that he doesnt wana spend his money callin me or what. i am not really a demanding person but i guess if you really care with the person you will atleast show it not only on mail? well i hope im making sense out here coz im really confuse i dnt know if he really loves me or just playing out me. Do you think i should stop this foolishness or continue day dreaming that it will work out...
:-(';My guys is being conduce or something'; I need advice?
Please stop day dreaming, internet romances seldom end up as fairytales do. Get real. How can you have feelings for someone who just emails you. It's incredible that he never calls you or hasn't even tried to see you in person.
if you wanna judge him, maybe you can call him and set the things right, who knows maybe the guy on the email is someone else...wake up queen!';My guys is being conduce or something'; I need advice?
hi this is shalu.ur problem is quite common. the same probblem was with me . all guys are same . they flirt with girls.if the guy u met really loved u then he would have definitely make u a call .i think u should forget him i know it is quite difficult but u should try ur best.becoz life is like that. may be a perfect guy must be waiting for u so don't loose hope,be happy.
I think unless he comes to where you are to MEET you, give it up. I don't know how old you are, but do you even KNOW who you are talking too? Meet someone in person, give this guy UP. I would say he's married already. How can he want to marry you , or you him, if you NEVER met? Let him explain THAT, then see what he has to say. If someone on the NET fell for ya, you got a whole WORLD out there with REAL men waiting. Leave him alone. Or tell him to come to your door and meet the family. He'll either come running or RUN.
:-(';My guys is being conduce or something'; I need advice?
Please stop day dreaming, internet romances seldom end up as fairytales do. Get real. How can you have feelings for someone who just emails you. It's incredible that he never calls you or hasn't even tried to see you in person.
if you wanna judge him, maybe you can call him and set the things right, who knows maybe the guy on the email is someone else...wake up queen!';My guys is being conduce or something'; I need advice?
hi this is shalu.ur problem is quite common. the same probblem was with me . all guys are same . they flirt with girls.if the guy u met really loved u then he would have definitely make u a call .i think u should forget him i know it is quite difficult but u should try ur best.becoz life is like that. may be a perfect guy must be waiting for u so don't loose hope,be happy.
I think unless he comes to where you are to MEET you, give it up. I don't know how old you are, but do you even KNOW who you are talking too? Meet someone in person, give this guy UP. I would say he's married already. How can he want to marry you , or you him, if you NEVER met? Let him explain THAT, then see what he has to say. If someone on the NET fell for ya, you got a whole WORLD out there with REAL men waiting. Leave him alone. Or tell him to come to your door and meet the family. He'll either come running or RUN.
Need girls advice, how to dress a guy in high school?
Im a guy entering junior year of high school and would like to have a bit better wardrobe. Mine has always been fine, mostly t shirts and shorts, just simple. If anything, I lean more towards preppy and/or athletic. Id like girls advice on what clothing to buy because they seem to know fasion and they are the ones I am trying to impress. Im about 6'1';, somewhat muscular and have brown hair. Any tips?Need girls advice, how to dress a guy in high school?
well don't wear something you don't like just to impress a girl!
but i like guys who shop at stores like pacsun, hollister, abercrombie, amercian eagle..like those kind of styles. and i like the preppy and surfer/skater look...kahki shorts look good on pretty much all guys, with just a t shirt from hollister or something. but if you don't hollister, abercromibe, etc, then buy t shirts from a store that you DO like. and i also kind of like the polos with kahki pants, but that's just because i go to aprivate school and all the guys look like that, so i've kind of grown used to it since i really dont have much of a selection, they all dress the same..just be yourself and you'll eventually impress a girl with your style =D.Need girls advice, how to dress a guy in high school?
I love it wen guys wear collared shirts under t-s ... %26lt;3 hollister too!!
helloooo cutie ;)
well if u want to go preppy go to abercrombie and fitch, hollister, but make sure its not ';gay preppy'; or anything
get a nice pair of dark jeans that make ur butt look cute and some long collared shirts untucked
hope i could help
xoxo
simple.. colours!!! colours colours colors!! juicy colour make a guy look hot!
well there is a point when you have to switch it up too so... but i love seeing guys in for eg. broad white + colour stripes.. dark jeans .. white sneak. cool cap. diamond earring in and wow.. hot stuff. lol..
anyway.. what to look out for when u buying clothes for school:
1. hoodies are in. ones with designs/writings on it too. metallic prints etc
2. white shirts.. clean white shirt do trick with hoodies. (less can be more at times)
3. dark jeans. not baggy falling off the butt. ensure that it covers the butt so the ladies see that u have a cute butt!! lol
4. sneakers!!!! pops an outfit. check out unique patterns etc.. check out akademiks timberland addidas etc whatever u guys wear. timberland boots are cute too and come in juicy colours..
5. t shirts .. polo shirts .. unique stuff going on. unique colour coordinations.. prints patterns etc
6. if your ears are pierced... diamond studs are hot for anything. colours too. topaz. pink diamonds .. white .. all cute!
7. if u wanna wear belts mek sure u have colour to wear so u dont ruin the outfits.
8!!!! COLOGNE. finishin touch. all that and u will be loved by many
stick w/ A%26amp;F....you can never go wrong w/ jeans, tee-shirts, and sweatshirts from there, also shop at Hollister, they have cute stuff too..good luck and hoped this helped!
hmmm... I like guys that dress simple, and casual. What you're wearing seems ';hot'; to me. loool. T-shirt, and some nice shorts. And... a guy who shows he's a bit on the athletic side is nice too^^.
But... if you want to dress... ';better'; or different, try wearing band t-shirts of your favorite bands. lol. Or... shop at PacSun. Nice dark jeans that are sort of loose are sexy. Don't bother with belts.... I'm not a big fan of them. haha ...
uhmmmmmmm.... if you want, you get get a nice piece of necklace to wear every once in a while. ermm... watches can be nice too.
BUT DUDE, you're style is EXACTLY what I like in a guy. simple, casual, and just...laid back
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Brapp Brapp!!! okay Well i love anyswering guys questions about fashion cuzz they're so Cute! =P But anywayyy lol First i'll Start with your HAIR..
|| Hairr ||
lol If your hairs Long and Shaggy leave it that way.. Long hair is totally Cute.. but if you have short hair Go to the Barber shopp and get a FRECKIN MOHAWKK =D =D Mohawks are Hott Trust me it'll Make you look totally cute! it Wonk look to ';emo'; or ';punk'; if thats how u think its gonna look.. Just make sure your hair is short...lol not thoose LONG mohawk thingys thoose are just plain Weird.. lol Butt yahh if you think a mohawk is Too Risky then Just get a plain Guy haircutt like nick lachey and just Jel it up everyday.. That would loook hott too... =] lol Ok after your hair We would Work on your SCENT lol
|| Scent ||
Well Tests have proven that B.O still makes girls atcracted to you.. But still.. You still need to put on some CLONEE .. because clonee WILL MAKE B.O **** ITS PANTS.. =D
I swearr .. =] But seriuosly Clone.. is Very Addictive.. =] if i smell a u=guy with clone WHATTT I'l go freggin crazzy.. hehe.. Butt anywayss ya Clone makes you smell good get like AXE or sumthinnn and Always put it on after gym or w.e Sports Stuff .. because girl will come runnig after you.. -Thumbs up- .. Now come the CLOTHES
|| Clothes ||
Your clothes..i told this other guy too...They dont have to be So So Stylish thats just weird..But just get like Plain things like Polo Shirts and Jeans Shorts and Nike sports shorts..
// Top 10 Needed Things \\
1// Polo's... u should get a Polo from lacoste.. and ther rest from Hollister,AE, and abercrombie kids.
2// Dark Jeans.
3// Baggy jean Shorts.
4// A nice designer Watch.
5// Nice shoes.
6// Clean socks%26amp;BOXERS!!..LOL.. hehe.. =]
7// Fcuk Sweater.
8// Logo Tee's.
9// Nike Shorts kinda baggy too.
10// Plain black tee and a Plain White tee.
11// i just remebered one more thing!.. if you like .. Black and White converses are cute too.. lol
|| Here are some looks For you /all from A%26amp;E =S ||
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_sh鈥?/a>
Umm yahh .. Just Have alot of Nice Hot expensive Accessoires and the clothing should just be Plain..
|| To-Do List ||
- Get a haircutt or Get jel or get a new comb .. lol
- Get new clothes
THATS ALL LOVE YAHHH and good luck
=] xoxoxoxooxox
-Kraziie-Cookiie2
what u are wearing now is perfect 4 me. it shows that a guy is somewhat athletic and that is very good.
yea but dont go with very long loose dickies shirts with 3X undershirt and loose dickes pants with jay's((jordans) thats my style)
If you can spend the mony go to the popular store(ae,hollister,aeropostal...ect.) but if you cant try steve and berrys, kohls, even walmart. All the stores have good clothes. Try lookin in magazines and at manicans for examples, and dont be afraid to buy vogue,seventeen, and other fashion mags.(if the person at the checkout line is a chick, thell her there for your GF, she''ll think your sooooo nice!LOL!)
well don't wear something you don't like just to impress a girl!
but i like guys who shop at stores like pacsun, hollister, abercrombie, amercian eagle..like those kind of styles. and i like the preppy and surfer/skater look...kahki shorts look good on pretty much all guys, with just a t shirt from hollister or something. but if you don't hollister, abercromibe, etc, then buy t shirts from a store that you DO like. and i also kind of like the polos with kahki pants, but that's just because i go to aprivate school and all the guys look like that, so i've kind of grown used to it since i really dont have much of a selection, they all dress the same..just be yourself and you'll eventually impress a girl with your style =D.Need girls advice, how to dress a guy in high school?
I love it wen guys wear collared shirts under t-s ... %26lt;3 hollister too!!
helloooo cutie ;)
well if u want to go preppy go to abercrombie and fitch, hollister, but make sure its not ';gay preppy'; or anything
get a nice pair of dark jeans that make ur butt look cute and some long collared shirts untucked
hope i could help
xoxo
simple.. colours!!! colours colours colors!! juicy colour make a guy look hot!
well there is a point when you have to switch it up too so... but i love seeing guys in for eg. broad white + colour stripes.. dark jeans .. white sneak. cool cap. diamond earring in and wow.. hot stuff. lol..
anyway.. what to look out for when u buying clothes for school:
1. hoodies are in. ones with designs/writings on it too. metallic prints etc
2. white shirts.. clean white shirt do trick with hoodies. (less can be more at times)
3. dark jeans. not baggy falling off the butt. ensure that it covers the butt so the ladies see that u have a cute butt!! lol
4. sneakers!!!! pops an outfit. check out unique patterns etc.. check out akademiks timberland addidas etc whatever u guys wear. timberland boots are cute too and come in juicy colours..
5. t shirts .. polo shirts .. unique stuff going on. unique colour coordinations.. prints patterns etc
6. if your ears are pierced... diamond studs are hot for anything. colours too. topaz. pink diamonds .. white .. all cute!
7. if u wanna wear belts mek sure u have colour to wear so u dont ruin the outfits.
8!!!! COLOGNE. finishin touch. all that and u will be loved by many
stick w/ A%26amp;F....you can never go wrong w/ jeans, tee-shirts, and sweatshirts from there, also shop at Hollister, they have cute stuff too..good luck and hoped this helped!
hmmm... I like guys that dress simple, and casual. What you're wearing seems ';hot'; to me. loool. T-shirt, and some nice shorts. And... a guy who shows he's a bit on the athletic side is nice too^^.
But... if you want to dress... ';better'; or different, try wearing band t-shirts of your favorite bands. lol. Or... shop at PacSun. Nice dark jeans that are sort of loose are sexy. Don't bother with belts.... I'm not a big fan of them. haha ...
uhmmmmmmm.... if you want, you get get a nice piece of necklace to wear every once in a while. ermm... watches can be nice too.
BUT DUDE, you're style is EXACTLY what I like in a guy. simple, casual, and just...laid back
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Brapp Brapp!!! okay Well i love anyswering guys questions about fashion cuzz they're so Cute! =P But anywayyy lol First i'll Start with your HAIR..
|| Hairr ||
lol If your hairs Long and Shaggy leave it that way.. Long hair is totally Cute.. but if you have short hair Go to the Barber shopp and get a FRECKIN MOHAWKK =D =D Mohawks are Hott Trust me it'll Make you look totally cute! it Wonk look to ';emo'; or ';punk'; if thats how u think its gonna look.. Just make sure your hair is short...lol not thoose LONG mohawk thingys thoose are just plain Weird.. lol Butt yahh if you think a mohawk is Too Risky then Just get a plain Guy haircutt like nick lachey and just Jel it up everyday.. That would loook hott too... =] lol Ok after your hair We would Work on your SCENT lol
|| Scent ||
Well Tests have proven that B.O still makes girls atcracted to you.. But still.. You still need to put on some CLONEE .. because clonee WILL MAKE B.O **** ITS PANTS.. =D
I swearr .. =] But seriuosly Clone.. is Very Addictive.. =] if i smell a u=guy with clone WHATTT I'l go freggin crazzy.. hehe.. Butt anywayss ya Clone makes you smell good get like AXE or sumthinnn and Always put it on after gym or w.e Sports Stuff .. because girl will come runnig after you.. -Thumbs up- .. Now come the CLOTHES
|| Clothes ||
Your clothes..i told this other guy too...They dont have to be So So Stylish thats just weird..But just get like Plain things like Polo Shirts and Jeans Shorts and Nike sports shorts..
// Top 10 Needed Things \\
1// Polo's... u should get a Polo from lacoste.. and ther rest from Hollister,AE, and abercrombie kids.
2// Dark Jeans.
3// Baggy jean Shorts.
4// A nice designer Watch.
5// Nice shoes.
6// Clean socks%26amp;BOXERS!!..LOL.. hehe.. =]
7// Fcuk Sweater.
8// Logo Tee's.
9// Nike Shorts kinda baggy too.
10// Plain black tee and a Plain White tee.
11// i just remebered one more thing!.. if you like .. Black and White converses are cute too.. lol
|| Here are some looks For you /all from A%26amp;E =S ||
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Umm yahh .. Just Have alot of Nice Hot expensive Accessoires and the clothing should just be Plain..
|| To-Do List ||
- Get a haircutt or Get jel or get a new comb .. lol
- Get new clothes
THATS ALL LOVE YAHHH and good luck
=] xoxoxoxooxox
-Kraziie-Cookiie2
what u are wearing now is perfect 4 me. it shows that a guy is somewhat athletic and that is very good.
yea but dont go with very long loose dickies shirts with 3X undershirt and loose dickes pants with jay's((jordans) thats my style)
If you can spend the mony go to the popular store(ae,hollister,aeropostal...ect.) but if you cant try steve and berrys, kohls, even walmart. All the stores have good clothes. Try lookin in magazines and at manicans for examples, and dont be afraid to buy vogue,seventeen, and other fashion mags.(if the person at the checkout line is a chick, thell her there for your GF, she''ll think your sooooo nice!LOL!)
What does this mean? guys i need your help.or girls advice would help.?
ok so there is this guy that i have liked for around 2 yrs now. He moved into my state last year. When i got his screen name i sent him an instant message introducing myself hoping we could be friends at the very least...maybe more. That didn't work. So we kept it to a on-line thing, which wasn't a bad thing exactly. We would talk as if we had grown up together for about an hour on average we would talk.Monday night we talked for 3 hours and senice then we havent really spoken much bc he always signs off when i sign on (or so it seems) he signs off. or if i im him we talk for around 5 minutes then he signs off. I wanna know what his problem is and what i can do to make him stop.I know he doesnt realize it but it's hurtful and it makes me sad but whatever. tell me what to do
thanks bunches!
~*laura*~What does this mean? guys i need your help.or girls advice would help.?
maybe its just because your obssesive. lmao
What does this mean? guys i need your help.or girls advice would help.?
Stop messaging him when you log on, or do it to him a few times. If he asks you what's up then just say well you have no desire to talk to me! And if he says nothing, let it go, he lost interest for some reason. Just remember he's a guy... they do dumb things
Here's what you do....
Move on, because he doesn't care...
Yes that sucks, but the sooner you realize it, the sooner you'll be able to move on...
And no matter what you think, it probably has NOTHING to do with you, its just him being an idiot
PATIENCE...RELAX, YOU REALLY NEED TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU BOTH STAND ON BEING FRIENDS. THEN YOU CAN DECIDE ON WHETHER OR NOT TO CONTINUE ON, OR MOVE ON.
If he's always signing off when you sign on and you only chat w / him for a few minutes and he's always quick to brush you off, then he may just not be as interested in you as you are in him and he probably just does'nt want to hurt your feelings by telling you to let him be, then the best thing to do is avoid chatting with him. Don't contact him for a long while. a few weeks or so. If he is interested in you then he'll contact you. Then you can take it from there.eye color
thanks bunches!
~*laura*~What does this mean? guys i need your help.or girls advice would help.?
maybe its just because your obssesive. lmao
What does this mean? guys i need your help.or girls advice would help.?
Stop messaging him when you log on, or do it to him a few times. If he asks you what's up then just say well you have no desire to talk to me! And if he says nothing, let it go, he lost interest for some reason. Just remember he's a guy... they do dumb things
Here's what you do....
Move on, because he doesn't care...
Yes that sucks, but the sooner you realize it, the sooner you'll be able to move on...
And no matter what you think, it probably has NOTHING to do with you, its just him being an idiot
PATIENCE...RELAX, YOU REALLY NEED TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU BOTH STAND ON BEING FRIENDS. THEN YOU CAN DECIDE ON WHETHER OR NOT TO CONTINUE ON, OR MOVE ON.
If he's always signing off when you sign on and you only chat w / him for a few minutes and he's always quick to brush you off, then he may just not be as interested in you as you are in him and he probably just does'nt want to hurt your feelings by telling you to let him be, then the best thing to do is avoid chatting with him. Don't contact him for a long while. a few weeks or so. If he is interested in you then he'll contact you. Then you can take it from there.
There's these two guys, and here's the problem. any advice please?
there's this guy that i've liked since i've been in 6th grade and i'm in 10th now. if we started dating i thought it'd work out good becuase we ride the same bus to school, we can hang out alot, i get along with his friends, he gets along with mine, we get along good, and yeah. and i have a chance with this guy.
but there's this guy that's new to our school this year and i'm really liking on him too. he's really nice and respectful towards girls. he's really nice, cute, i get along with him good, even though i barely know him i can talk to him really easily. he's honest. and he thinks i'm pretty.
i kind of think i should go with the second guy 'cause i get along with him so well when we don't know eachother all too well yet. but i kind of think i should go for the first guy cause i've liked him so long.
i don't know who i like more so i dont know what to do. any help???There's these two guys, and here's the problem. any advice please?
You should date the second guy. He sounds really sweet and if it doesn't work out, you can try with the first guy.
It's more fun if you don't know much about him.There's these two guys, and here's the problem. any advice please?
Well either way your gonna cause some type of friction between these two guys. And to be honest I would suggest that you keep it on the low key for which ever you pick. But I would advise that you choose the guy that you've known since the 6th grade because at least with him you have a grasp on what his personality is like. Although in many cases you truly don't know someone unless you've A.) Lived with them or B.) date them. But I still would suggest you go with the guy you've known a little more. But that's just my suggestion with the new guy it could really just be lust.
My final suggestion is to just go with what your heart says, you've got nothing to loose but keep in mind these are people's emotions your playing with here. Not some game of (duck duck goose).
go with whichever one you see more
whichever one you pick you're going to have doubts about.
follow your heart.
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but there's this guy that's new to our school this year and i'm really liking on him too. he's really nice and respectful towards girls. he's really nice, cute, i get along with him good, even though i barely know him i can talk to him really easily. he's honest. and he thinks i'm pretty.
i kind of think i should go with the second guy 'cause i get along with him so well when we don't know eachother all too well yet. but i kind of think i should go for the first guy cause i've liked him so long.
i don't know who i like more so i dont know what to do. any help???There's these two guys, and here's the problem. any advice please?
You should date the second guy. He sounds really sweet and if it doesn't work out, you can try with the first guy.
It's more fun if you don't know much about him.There's these two guys, and here's the problem. any advice please?
Well either way your gonna cause some type of friction between these two guys. And to be honest I would suggest that you keep it on the low key for which ever you pick. But I would advise that you choose the guy that you've known since the 6th grade because at least with him you have a grasp on what his personality is like. Although in many cases you truly don't know someone unless you've A.) Lived with them or B.) date them. But I still would suggest you go with the guy you've known a little more. But that's just my suggestion with the new guy it could really just be lust.
My final suggestion is to just go with what your heart says, you've got nothing to loose but keep in mind these are people's emotions your playing with here. Not some game of (duck duck goose).
go with whichever one you see more
whichever one you pick you're going to have doubts about.
follow your heart.
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Guys please answer I need ur help!!! I have a date later and want advice on it.?
ok so I asked my bf what makes him hard... he said 'u' and thts it!! so guys please tell me what makes u hard? I know every guy is differnt but please tell me... I have a date tonight with him and for some guys just having a sexii girl sit on ur lap with a mini skirt gets u hard. please answer I appericate it!Guys please answer I need ur help!!! I have a date later and want advice on it.?
Ok, hmm what makes me hard?
A girl with a shirt that shows half her boobs(nice boobs =D)
A sexy girl with many emotions, always doing some face emotion when she talks or means something.
A girl with a skirt on with NICE legs. Or a girl with jeans on with a nice ***.
A girl who tries to put her shirt up to cover her half open boobs but it still falls (LOL)
Hmm, that's all i can think of for now and i gtg, sorry
Oh! and a girl that keeps her mouth open, not closed ( she has to have nice teeth though, and not too small =D)
Good luck =D
Ok, hmm what makes me hard?
A girl with a shirt that shows half her boobs(nice boobs =D)
A sexy girl with many emotions, always doing some face emotion when she talks or means something.
A girl with a skirt on with NICE legs. Or a girl with jeans on with a nice ***.
A girl who tries to put her shirt up to cover her half open boobs but it still falls (LOL)
Hmm, that's all i can think of for now and i gtg, sorry
Oh! and a girl that keeps her mouth open, not closed ( she has to have nice teeth though, and not too small =D)
Good luck =D
Are all Guys this Oblvious?!?! Help!! Need Lots of ADVICE?!?!?!?
Hey Im trying to make a move on this one guy who i have had feelings for, for quite some time. The feelings came and went due to circumstances (He liked my bestfriend last fall and asked her to homecoming, but now they never talk) Anyhow we have been talking/hanging out alot all summer. We were texting everday from like last march till the end of school and then just couple times a week. He is the kicker on his football team and we go to separate schools but live in the same neighborhood. These past two weeks he has been a bit more distant, due to his busy schedule of practice/games/preping for ACT/SAT but idk how to make it more obvious that i like him. he is really oblivious. So i wanted to make a move on him, but i dont know what to do?!?!?!?! Please Help, give me some advice....
Homecoming is coming up in November and i want to go with him. so I mean i have about a month and a half to change things between us.....what do you all think?
Oh last wedn, we were both at my friends volleyball game and while driving home (in separte cars. shouting outside the window..not safe btw) he asked me if i wanted to go to subway with him, i was like ya sure....his rxn..';Really?!?'; So i ended up going and we talked, it was nice (I had already eaten dinner so i didnt eat, i just went to go with him) What do you guys think of this?!?!?!? Do you think he got it??? Please need alot of advice........................
PLZ. and THANKYOU.Are all Guys this Oblvious?!?! Help!! Need Lots of ADVICE?!?!?!?
you we're pretty obvious and i'm pretty sure he got it...the only thing is like SEALING the envelope (or however the simile goes)
make sure to make the next move madd direct...like tell him im pretty into you
soon enough homecoming will pop up and he'll LOVE to take you
be strong, this kid will be to =)Are all Guys this Oblvious?!?! Help!! Need Lots of ADVICE?!?!?!?
Why dont you just make the first move. I think most guys dont mind that at all and some just plain love it. If you want something you gotta go after it and not wait for it to come to you cause it might never come.
Text him and ask him out on a date.
Can you help me?
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Homecoming is coming up in November and i want to go with him. so I mean i have about a month and a half to change things between us.....what do you all think?
Oh last wedn, we were both at my friends volleyball game and while driving home (in separte cars. shouting outside the window..not safe btw) he asked me if i wanted to go to subway with him, i was like ya sure....his rxn..';Really?!?'; So i ended up going and we talked, it was nice (I had already eaten dinner so i didnt eat, i just went to go with him) What do you guys think of this?!?!?!? Do you think he got it??? Please need alot of advice........................
PLZ. and THANKYOU.Are all Guys this Oblvious?!?! Help!! Need Lots of ADVICE?!?!?!?
you we're pretty obvious and i'm pretty sure he got it...the only thing is like SEALING the envelope (or however the simile goes)
make sure to make the next move madd direct...like tell him im pretty into you
soon enough homecoming will pop up and he'll LOVE to take you
be strong, this kid will be to =)Are all Guys this Oblvious?!?! Help!! Need Lots of ADVICE?!?!?!?
Why dont you just make the first move. I think most guys dont mind that at all and some just plain love it. If you want something you gotta go after it and not wait for it to come to you cause it might never come.
Text him and ask him out on a date.
Can you help me?
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MEN WHO CHEAT: I need some advice from you guys. How do I know when he means it?
My husband left me for someone else. Anyway, I have two kids. An old boyfriend contacted me and has visited town to see me three times. He says that he is separated from his wife. He lives out of town.
How can I tell whether this is true or not? I HAVE NOT slept with him and I know how men can be. What advice can you give?
I asked him why they split and he said that she wouldn't listen to him or do anything to make it better. He aked her to not let the kids sleep in the bed. He asked her to join a gym with him. He asked her to go away without the kids at least four weekends a year. He asked her to go out to dinner with him once a week. He asked her to kiss him hello and goodbye. She refused to do any of it. OK. May be true or not. That doesn't mean that he will divorce her, right?
Part of me says to just not date until someone shows me the divorce papers signed by the judge. But there are a lot of separated people out there. How do I tell when it is ringing true?MEN WHO CHEAT: I need some advice from you guys. How do I know when he means it?
go visit him in his house see if he's living there alone or if his wife is still living thereMEN WHO CHEAT: I need some advice from you guys. How do I know when he means it?
I agree wait it out, if it is meant to be then it will be. My ex husband came home on our 2 yr wedding anniversary and said my girlfriend is pregnant, do you want a divorce?
Guys are sneaky, you can never tell if it is true, they can lie and you will never know. Maybe he is playing the ';family man all american guy'; thing and making it look right and it's wrong. Who knows.
I tend not to believe him.
Has he hinted at taking you into his world? (Say, going with you to his town.
Is he honest enough to talk about his contribution to his own marriage's breakdown?
Perhaps you may want to have him as your temporal comfort. Chances are that he may be into that as well, but a long term commitment is quite questionable at the moment.
Are you asking if this is a cover story? It could be. How much do you trust this new man? Perhaps, have him talk more about his circumstances and you can get a better picture. If he is not forthcoming, you will know that he is unlikely to commit to a relationship to you.
Until the judge signs the final decree you are legally married. If your soon to be ex finds out you are sleeping with someone, he can use it against you in court. Even when he is doing the same thing. Keep your pants on until the decree is signed. You will feel better about yourself and your ex can not use it against you in court. What is good for the goose is not always good for the gander. Until after the divorce.
Ok I am not a man, but I don't buy this story of his and even if it's true, he is still married and can choose to return to his wife anytime. I would think it would be better to wait until he is divorced.
your husband left u for someone else, it must have hurt u alot, to be left for not too good of a reason, now u have a choice to go out with another man who is cheating, and u have to decide if u want to be the other woman. chances are he is wanting to have just an affair with u, his reasons are so flimsy, he sounds like a jerk who has decided to cheat because he isn't getting exactly what he wants out of the relationship exactly when he wants it, do u really want to get involved with a man just like the one who just left u brokenhearted, and leave another woman brokenhearted? not to mention the karma that comes back to one who causes another pain. why would u want to be with a cheater, he sounds like a real jerk of a guy. save yourself any more pain and rejection here, your not choosing too wisely, but going back into the same misery, but just with another man, but the same type of man. wait till u see a divorce decree, have some self respect.
you dont you just have to trust him which is no1 in a marriage
Separated is still married. Tell him to finalize the divorce and then you will consider him.eye color
How can I tell whether this is true or not? I HAVE NOT slept with him and I know how men can be. What advice can you give?
I asked him why they split and he said that she wouldn't listen to him or do anything to make it better. He aked her to not let the kids sleep in the bed. He asked her to join a gym with him. He asked her to go away without the kids at least four weekends a year. He asked her to go out to dinner with him once a week. He asked her to kiss him hello and goodbye. She refused to do any of it. OK. May be true or not. That doesn't mean that he will divorce her, right?
Part of me says to just not date until someone shows me the divorce papers signed by the judge. But there are a lot of separated people out there. How do I tell when it is ringing true?MEN WHO CHEAT: I need some advice from you guys. How do I know when he means it?
go visit him in his house see if he's living there alone or if his wife is still living thereMEN WHO CHEAT: I need some advice from you guys. How do I know when he means it?
I agree wait it out, if it is meant to be then it will be. My ex husband came home on our 2 yr wedding anniversary and said my girlfriend is pregnant, do you want a divorce?
Guys are sneaky, you can never tell if it is true, they can lie and you will never know. Maybe he is playing the ';family man all american guy'; thing and making it look right and it's wrong. Who knows.
I tend not to believe him.
Has he hinted at taking you into his world? (Say, going with you to his town.
Is he honest enough to talk about his contribution to his own marriage's breakdown?
Perhaps you may want to have him as your temporal comfort. Chances are that he may be into that as well, but a long term commitment is quite questionable at the moment.
Are you asking if this is a cover story? It could be. How much do you trust this new man? Perhaps, have him talk more about his circumstances and you can get a better picture. If he is not forthcoming, you will know that he is unlikely to commit to a relationship to you.
Until the judge signs the final decree you are legally married. If your soon to be ex finds out you are sleeping with someone, he can use it against you in court. Even when he is doing the same thing. Keep your pants on until the decree is signed. You will feel better about yourself and your ex can not use it against you in court. What is good for the goose is not always good for the gander. Until after the divorce.
Ok I am not a man, but I don't buy this story of his and even if it's true, he is still married and can choose to return to his wife anytime. I would think it would be better to wait until he is divorced.
your husband left u for someone else, it must have hurt u alot, to be left for not too good of a reason, now u have a choice to go out with another man who is cheating, and u have to decide if u want to be the other woman. chances are he is wanting to have just an affair with u, his reasons are so flimsy, he sounds like a jerk who has decided to cheat because he isn't getting exactly what he wants out of the relationship exactly when he wants it, do u really want to get involved with a man just like the one who just left u brokenhearted, and leave another woman brokenhearted? not to mention the karma that comes back to one who causes another pain. why would u want to be with a cheater, he sounds like a real jerk of a guy. save yourself any more pain and rejection here, your not choosing too wisely, but going back into the same misery, but just with another man, but the same type of man. wait till u see a divorce decree, have some self respect.
you dont you just have to trust him which is no1 in a marriage
Separated is still married. Tell him to finalize the divorce and then you will consider him.
GUYS!!!!!! need yur advice?!?!?
hey so i was wondering do guys like to be kissed on the neck by a girl?GUYS!!!!!! need yur advice?!?!?
good question! i honestly have no idea but im pretty sure they like your mouth anywhere but prefer to be the one kissing YOUR neck...GUYS!!!!!! need yur advice?!?!?
GOOSEBUMPS
no it is the other way around
it's nice to be kissed anywhere but
I like to kiss on the neck more so than getting kissed..
I like to be kissed anywhere and everywhere.
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good question! i honestly have no idea but im pretty sure they like your mouth anywhere but prefer to be the one kissing YOUR neck...GUYS!!!!!! need yur advice?!?!?
GOOSEBUMPS
no it is the other way around
it's nice to be kissed anywhere but
I like to kiss on the neck more so than getting kissed..
I like to be kissed anywhere and everywhere.
YES
Guys, I need advice.?
Well, class just ended. There was a guy in it who was trying to get to know me. He asked me to study with him and his friend, I would have said yes except his friend was going to be there (whom I do not know at all). After that he really didn't talk to me. I found his phone number he gave me at the beginning of class because the teacher made us exchange numbers. Should I use it to call or text him? or is that too weird? Thanks for the advice.Guys, I need advice.?
call him see if he wants to hang out. its worth a try, and whats the worst that can happen? he if doesn't want to hang out who cares, there are lots of guys of thereGuys, I need advice.?
Call him !! nothing ventured, nothing gained.
you have his number so call or text him. tell him you are interested in him and would like to get to know him. bd
Kimmie, Follow your heart ! The phone is more personal I think.
It seems to me that you're quite interested in this guy. It shows 'cause you're having second thoughts about what happen. You should definitely reach out to this guy just to say hi and at lease explain the reason you couldn't make it. Only then you will know what to make of the situation between you and this guy, then you could put the matter behind you or possibly start a new friendship. Good luck!!!
yea you cant text him dont call him but you could wait for him to text you first if he actually liked you
You should definitely call the guy up. My best friend made the mistake of not calling a girl that he liked after they swapped phone numbers. He still regrets not calling her.... after 3 years. Don't make the same mistake my friend made.
If he gave you his phone number, you're fine. Although, I probably wouldn't call him. Text him first, cause calling would be a little awkward.
Put it to use
sure go ahead and call him! he gave you his number for a reason.
call him see if he wants to hang out. its worth a try, and whats the worst that can happen? he if doesn't want to hang out who cares, there are lots of guys of thereGuys, I need advice.?
Call him !! nothing ventured, nothing gained.
you have his number so call or text him. tell him you are interested in him and would like to get to know him. bd
Kimmie, Follow your heart ! The phone is more personal I think.
It seems to me that you're quite interested in this guy. It shows 'cause you're having second thoughts about what happen. You should definitely reach out to this guy just to say hi and at lease explain the reason you couldn't make it. Only then you will know what to make of the situation between you and this guy, then you could put the matter behind you or possibly start a new friendship. Good luck!!!
yea you cant text him dont call him but you could wait for him to text you first if he actually liked you
You should definitely call the guy up. My best friend made the mistake of not calling a girl that he liked after they swapped phone numbers. He still regrets not calling her.... after 3 years. Don't make the same mistake my friend made.
If he gave you his phone number, you're fine. Although, I probably wouldn't call him. Text him first, cause calling would be a little awkward.
Put it to use
sure go ahead and call him! he gave you his number for a reason.
Guys???? I need advice on them...?
So I like this guy and hes really cool. I practically love him. But he acts stoopid. He told my friend that he likes me but whenever other people ask him hes like ';Hell No'' and whenever my close friends ask him he just smiles. Its been 2yrs (almost 3) and Its getting ridiculous.But I dont want to give up on him. What should I do?What am I doing wrong?Guys???? I need advice on them...?
almost 3 years of him smiling like an idiot? find a guy who can pick up on the hint...seriously.Guys???? I need advice on them...?
just ask him out!!!
it might be hard, but approach him and bring up the subject. say, if you have feelings for me, then say it now. if you dont, forget it. if he says bad stuff about you, hes not worth it. but if hes so perfect for you, then keep up the fight and make this worth while. you dont want to regret this and you only live once. take a chance and bring it up to him. youll be happy you did.
If I were in this situation, I would move on (or pretend to) and see how he responds. If he doesn't really care and still acts like an idiot, I would seriously move on because he is probably a loser. If he cares and then he wants to give you a chance, then you should give him a chance also. But you should be cautious incase he turns out to be a heartbreaker.
It seems he doesn't know what he wants. I would move on and see what happenes. If he cares and loves you he will only have ONE answer when asked. Maybe he doesn't like being asked ....maybe that is why he answers differently. If he loves and cares about you.....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.... remember that
First dont let him know that you like him, i mean dress up, and ask questions but circle around it, get the best answer last, play games with his mind, sometimes guys act a little slow to things. They like a girl thats smart, health, pretty, and hard to get and if he still does'nt want you then you dont need him and he does'nt deserve you.
okay i have this problem a lot.
do NOT give up on him.
he can turn out to be the best thingg ever.
thats how it was for me.
but,
talk to him!!
lay down the rules.
tell him that if he doesnt start acting like he cares,
or start telling the truth,
your just going to stop trying.
if he reallyy likes you,
then he'll givee in .
the kids playin hardd to get.
andd now its your turn to get him . =]
almost 3 years of him smiling like an idiot? find a guy who can pick up on the hint...seriously.Guys???? I need advice on them...?
just ask him out!!!
it might be hard, but approach him and bring up the subject. say, if you have feelings for me, then say it now. if you dont, forget it. if he says bad stuff about you, hes not worth it. but if hes so perfect for you, then keep up the fight and make this worth while. you dont want to regret this and you only live once. take a chance and bring it up to him. youll be happy you did.
If I were in this situation, I would move on (or pretend to) and see how he responds. If he doesn't really care and still acts like an idiot, I would seriously move on because he is probably a loser. If he cares and then he wants to give you a chance, then you should give him a chance also. But you should be cautious incase he turns out to be a heartbreaker.
It seems he doesn't know what he wants. I would move on and see what happenes. If he cares and loves you he will only have ONE answer when asked. Maybe he doesn't like being asked ....maybe that is why he answers differently. If he loves and cares about you.....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.... remember that
First dont let him know that you like him, i mean dress up, and ask questions but circle around it, get the best answer last, play games with his mind, sometimes guys act a little slow to things. They like a girl thats smart, health, pretty, and hard to get and if he still does'nt want you then you dont need him and he does'nt deserve you.
okay i have this problem a lot.
do NOT give up on him.
he can turn out to be the best thingg ever.
thats how it was for me.
but,
talk to him!!
lay down the rules.
tell him that if he doesnt start acting like he cares,
or start telling the truth,
your just going to stop trying.
if he reallyy likes you,
then he'll givee in .
the kids playin hardd to get.
andd now its your turn to get him . =]
I have a good idea and I need advice (seriously guys) :D?
I have a semi-big backyard and I want to use the stuff we have in the backyard to create a nice cool shaded area for the family dogs. We have a patio that has a caged area (a place where we sit outside and watch TV[the cage is so the dogs dont get in the house]) and the other half of the patio has 2 couches that the dogs lay on (they are old and torn up), so I was thinking I could make an area there. We have an old lounge chair that I could use as a decorative gate, but it wont black anything, it will just look nice, I have a bar that used to be part of a swing chair that we put a blanket on to block shade, and 2 dog houses (well, 3 considering it has a cage opening, the other 2 have open openings)
so my question is, how can I use those items to create a cool and shaded environment for the dogs?
thx :D
and I posted this in the V%26amp;V section bc you people are nice and answer almost every question that pops up here :D
and you care about animals :DI have a good idea and I need advice (seriously guys) :D?
You need a big umbrella on a stand. If you don't want to buy one, as they can be quite expensive, use the blanket to create a shade. You could also invest in a small paddling pool, and fill it with water, so the dogs can cool off when they get hot. And obviously make sure young children cannot gain access to it if it is unattended.I have a good idea and I need advice (seriously guys) :D?
nice attempt at buttering us up.
your best bet is to just keep experimenting and moving bits around.
MEAT IS MURDER. O:%26lt;
so my question is, how can I use those items to create a cool and shaded environment for the dogs?
thx :D
and I posted this in the V%26amp;V section bc you people are nice and answer almost every question that pops up here :D
and you care about animals :DI have a good idea and I need advice (seriously guys) :D?
You need a big umbrella on a stand. If you don't want to buy one, as they can be quite expensive, use the blanket to create a shade. You could also invest in a small paddling pool, and fill it with water, so the dogs can cool off when they get hot. And obviously make sure young children cannot gain access to it if it is unattended.I have a good idea and I need advice (seriously guys) :D?
nice attempt at buttering us up.
your best bet is to just keep experimenting and moving bits around.
MEAT IS MURDER. O:%26lt;
Please Help Me! I'm In Need Of A Lot of Advice for guys!?
Look, this guy is my best friend. He made a move on me... He asks me ';you like my perfume?'; so i lean in to smell it, and he kisses me. No one was there except for me and him. So he says ';do you wanna go all the way';... And I just ran and left because he's my best friend... Now what do I say to him tomorrow? I don't wanna go with him all the way... I'm only 16... Please Hel im in deep dodo!!
So this is what i asked earlier. NOw I texted him, and told him we have to meet. We met, and it happened... I kissed HIM!! I don't know what got over me... Then you know where kisses lead to... so now what should i do.. I didn't let him take my virginity though. He touched me and kissed me and everything but i didnt let him do that.. So now what should I do???? Tell my parents? my friends? Siblings? or just shut up?? Should I break up with him. NOt be friends with him anyomore? Or should I let him do what hi wants to me? (with my control of course)Please Help Me! I'm In Need Of A Lot of Advice for guys!?
Hey girl never move on with him, you are only a girl of sixteen years of age. If you are friends then be like friends don't exeed your limit. It will spoil your life, concentrate on your studies and enjoy your life. You are not matured enough to move on do not break your virginity. Think about yourself, who are you? think about your parents what will they think about? What if he betrays you and runs away from you? now what will happen to you? you will be nowhere. So make your life enjoy it. Consult with your most trustworthy friends. What else I should say, its up to you its your life, you have to live your life and how much you can make your life more enjoyable and beautiful?Please Help Me! I'm In Need Of A Lot of Advice for guys!?
You stopped and that's good. You need to tell him you're not ready and if he's your friend he'll respect your decision. If he can't respect your decision then stay away from him. As long as you feel comfortable with your decision and yourself then you don't have to tell anyone unless you want to or need to. If you think you need to talk to someone then you'll have to decide who will listen and understand the best. Stick by your decision not to have sex for now. One day the right person and the right time will come. You're in no hurry. Just one sexual encounter can mess up your whole life.
do what you feel is right for you --- if you want to date him go for it --- if not then dont --- as for sex it does not sound like you are ready to go that far so dont --- see if he wants you for YOU and not the sex --- it may be the beginning of something special
lol... screw him and come back with another question.
don;t forget the details.
Chick, I'm seventeen %26amp; I am still a virgin. I am in the process of deciding whether my BESTFRIEND, takes my virginity also. So, maybe we can both be of some help. It's cute that you showed him some interest after you ran away, so I'm here to tell you, DON'T RUN AWAY EVER AGAIN. This may turn him off. I laughed in my bestfriend's face, and he said it hurt his feelings. So, he started talking to this other girl. By the time I got my head together,and answered him, this chick he was ';talking'; to started CLAIMING HIM! So she got mad @ us because we are bestfriends and he dumpded her for trying to start confrontation with me.
With all that said, this is what I mean. It is obvious that he cares about you. Here are some rules, if he pushes sex on you, he doesn't want a relationship just sex. If he say to you ';You need to wait,'; he cares about your friendship so much and doesn't want to hurt you. Take this into consideration. STAY ABSTINATE UNTIL YOU ';KNOW'; HE'S THE ONE=) AND PLEASE...USE PROTECTION!!!!! BUT FOR SAFETY, JUST DON'T HAVE SEX. IT'S BAAAADDD FOR YOU. Emotions come into play, and could seriously hurt you. Trust me, a simple kiss can hurt also.
Hope I was of some help=)
stop freaking out!
relax
Hii!! keep it for yourself. But talk to him, tell him were just friends. Nothing more, and its no right for us to do what we did or even more. If he reacts in a negative way, you should tell him that if u really are my bestfriend, u would understand. if he did not accept this, then he does not care about you and just wants to take advantage of u...Good luck!
if your asking if you should go all the way or not than the answer is no if you were ready than you wouldn't have to ask. Ask yourself this question are you ready for a baby? vernarial diseases?
Just don't do it stop kissing him because it's only making you question yourself. Tell him you just want to be friends and don't be alone with him anymore. If he can't handle that than he was never your friend in the first place
Just tell him that you don't want to go all the way. You should always have complete control over your life. Don't let anyone take y our power away from you....No means NO!
Maybe you should start dating him! You sound like you have decent control over him, and can say no and keep to it. This is a good thing, and the two of you can only have fun while exploring these new found boundries, yes? If not dating, you two can at least fool around a bit and have fun, but use protection!
Do what people in high school relationships do. Spend time together and enjoy each other's company!
But sex?? Are you kidding? You just kissed him for the first time! Don't give yourself up so easily!
Personally, I think you should make him wait a long time for it! Then if he still hangs around, you know he REALLY likes you A LOT! :)
So this is what i asked earlier. NOw I texted him, and told him we have to meet. We met, and it happened... I kissed HIM!! I don't know what got over me... Then you know where kisses lead to... so now what should i do.. I didn't let him take my virginity though. He touched me and kissed me and everything but i didnt let him do that.. So now what should I do???? Tell my parents? my friends? Siblings? or just shut up?? Should I break up with him. NOt be friends with him anyomore? Or should I let him do what hi wants to me? (with my control of course)Please Help Me! I'm In Need Of A Lot of Advice for guys!?
Hey girl never move on with him, you are only a girl of sixteen years of age. If you are friends then be like friends don't exeed your limit. It will spoil your life, concentrate on your studies and enjoy your life. You are not matured enough to move on do not break your virginity. Think about yourself, who are you? think about your parents what will they think about? What if he betrays you and runs away from you? now what will happen to you? you will be nowhere. So make your life enjoy it. Consult with your most trustworthy friends. What else I should say, its up to you its your life, you have to live your life and how much you can make your life more enjoyable and beautiful?Please Help Me! I'm In Need Of A Lot of Advice for guys!?
You stopped and that's good. You need to tell him you're not ready and if he's your friend he'll respect your decision. If he can't respect your decision then stay away from him. As long as you feel comfortable with your decision and yourself then you don't have to tell anyone unless you want to or need to. If you think you need to talk to someone then you'll have to decide who will listen and understand the best. Stick by your decision not to have sex for now. One day the right person and the right time will come. You're in no hurry. Just one sexual encounter can mess up your whole life.
do what you feel is right for you --- if you want to date him go for it --- if not then dont --- as for sex it does not sound like you are ready to go that far so dont --- see if he wants you for YOU and not the sex --- it may be the beginning of something special
lol... screw him and come back with another question.
don;t forget the details.
Chick, I'm seventeen %26amp; I am still a virgin. I am in the process of deciding whether my BESTFRIEND, takes my virginity also. So, maybe we can both be of some help. It's cute that you showed him some interest after you ran away, so I'm here to tell you, DON'T RUN AWAY EVER AGAIN. This may turn him off. I laughed in my bestfriend's face, and he said it hurt his feelings. So, he started talking to this other girl. By the time I got my head together,and answered him, this chick he was ';talking'; to started CLAIMING HIM! So she got mad @ us because we are bestfriends and he dumpded her for trying to start confrontation with me.
With all that said, this is what I mean. It is obvious that he cares about you. Here are some rules, if he pushes sex on you, he doesn't want a relationship just sex. If he say to you ';You need to wait,'; he cares about your friendship so much and doesn't want to hurt you. Take this into consideration. STAY ABSTINATE UNTIL YOU ';KNOW'; HE'S THE ONE=) AND PLEASE...USE PROTECTION!!!!! BUT FOR SAFETY, JUST DON'T HAVE SEX. IT'S BAAAADDD FOR YOU. Emotions come into play, and could seriously hurt you. Trust me, a simple kiss can hurt also.
Hope I was of some help=)
stop freaking out!
relax
Hii!! keep it for yourself. But talk to him, tell him were just friends. Nothing more, and its no right for us to do what we did or even more. If he reacts in a negative way, you should tell him that if u really are my bestfriend, u would understand. if he did not accept this, then he does not care about you and just wants to take advantage of u...Good luck!
if your asking if you should go all the way or not than the answer is no if you were ready than you wouldn't have to ask. Ask yourself this question are you ready for a baby? vernarial diseases?
Just don't do it stop kissing him because it's only making you question yourself. Tell him you just want to be friends and don't be alone with him anymore. If he can't handle that than he was never your friend in the first place
Just tell him that you don't want to go all the way. You should always have complete control over your life. Don't let anyone take y our power away from you....No means NO!
Maybe you should start dating him! You sound like you have decent control over him, and can say no and keep to it. This is a good thing, and the two of you can only have fun while exploring these new found boundries, yes? If not dating, you two can at least fool around a bit and have fun, but use protection!
Do what people in high school relationships do. Spend time together and enjoy each other's company!
But sex?? Are you kidding? You just kissed him for the first time! Don't give yourself up so easily!
Personally, I think you should make him wait a long time for it! Then if he still hangs around, you know he REALLY likes you A LOT! :)
Can you guys give me advice? please..?
So i like this guys but we got in a fight and we dont talk anymore, i really dont want to lose his friendship, when i look at him in the hallways i try to smile but i just cant, how can i fix the problem with him during school cause i deleted his number. Help please on how to talk to him again?Can you guys give me advice? please..?
i dont know how to help but i wish you luck.eye color
i dont know how to help but i wish you luck.
Jerk off land lord! I need some advice here guys Please help!?
Well..... I lived in this place for 6 years - finally got the money and moved out. I did NOT give my land lord a 30 day notice - which i know NOW by law i should have. HOWEVER the day after I moved out - someone who lives in the apts moved in. She painted the apt, and cleaned. I left and i owed him $640.oo, NOW he is charging me 1994.45 - garnishing my wages! Thing is i had court to contest this May 1st, 2008 BUT did not receive the paperwork for the court until May 3rd. He is garnishing 20% of my wages until this is paid and I DON';T EVEN know what its for! If someone moved in the day after i moved out He can't charge BOTH of us for that month right? Also any damages that he would try to say i made - the girl that moved in fixed up and cleaned. She was never paid so........ NOW WHAT DO I DO? I am a single mom with 3 kids and way below the exemption for this, i only make 10 an hour, but since i was not at court i guess i can do nothing i did write the judge, what now?Jerk off land lord! I need some advice here guys Please help!?
You have to file an appeal, right now, claiming tnat you were not served in a timely manner. Ask for a new trial.
How is it that you did not get the summons from the court?
Easy, it's called Sewer Service. The process server couldn't find you or missed you so he threw the summons in the sewer and then filed a proof of service. It happens frequently.
Can you prove when you get the summons?
Very, very important.Jerk off land lord! I need some advice here guys Please help!?
If he is garnishing your wages, that means he already went to court and obtained a judgment against you. Where were you during all that? Too late now.
Murder!! Duh!!
You have to file an appeal, right now, claiming tnat you were not served in a timely manner. Ask for a new trial.
How is it that you did not get the summons from the court?
Easy, it's called Sewer Service. The process server couldn't find you or missed you so he threw the summons in the sewer and then filed a proof of service. It happens frequently.
Can you prove when you get the summons?
Very, very important.Jerk off land lord! I need some advice here guys Please help!?
If he is garnishing your wages, that means he already went to court and obtained a judgment against you. Where were you during all that? Too late now.
Murder!! Duh!!
Hey guys!!?i need advice!!?how do I make friends with him?
ok so my parents go to this house sorta far from where we live to pick up stuff alot! and yesterday i brought my skates cuz its boring without them! so I was just skating and this boy about my age (about 12 years old)rode his bike right on the pavement i was skating on (he was lined up with it,so half way on the road) and he was going slow just staring right at me! at the same time i was talking to my friend on my cell and i told her about him! she dared me to look at him when he was looking over and make my eyes really big and stare at him like that! so I did. it was funny cuz when i did that his eyes got a big and then looked away real quick cuz he was shocked i did that!! the rest of the time i was there he stayed away from me lol but i feel bad cuz I could tell by his face he just wanted to be friends!! but i am going again today and this time I am taking my friend so if he comes back how do I become friends with him?i know he wont even look at me again?i wanna be friends? but how?Hey guys!!?i need advice!!?how do I make friends with him?
You scared that boy. Now he thinks youre an alien whith those big eyes.Hey guys!!?i need advice!!?how do I make friends with him?
The only advice I can give is the next time dont do such stupid things to anyone.
well sounds to me like he's a bit shy. If you take your friend then you'll have to make the first move cuz he won't especially if you have your friend with you.. when you see him don't make it awkward, right away say hi and introduce yourself. nice ice breaker would be to say sorry for starring at him like that, let him know your friend dared you.
in so many words just be yourself and take it easy and express how you feel
Leave your friend home and go alone. If you bring a friend, he'll think you're bringing protection from him or someone else to help you diss him. You're only 12, just keep skating and don't worry about it. If he wants to get to know you, he'll come over...providing you don't act all weird again.
ok heree. im 12 ok? so yeaaa.lol
well im kinda in the same situation but i got some friends advice its not hard just got up to the boy and ask him his name tell him yours get the e-mail address get phone number after time over email if he has one.
dont like go so clos to him that you two touch though that would scare me then again i havent even seen you...lol
but and do you like him as in like like or friend or think he looks good or...what?
You need to speak to him!
I'm sorry but with that little stunt you pulled you probably blew it. I mean why would you do such a stupid thing like that?
Just say, ';hi, so you live around here huh?'; Its a really good base to start talking on, he cant bike away like a complete idiot, and he will probably say, ';um, yah....'; and make it really akward, then you just shrug your shoulders and say, ';cool'; and try to avoid the silence if he isnt a big talker..... good luck, he seems...... interesting!
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CALL OR TEXT HIM AND MAKE SMALL TALK AND IF THAT DON'T WORK I CAN BE UR BEST FRIEND!! LOL BY THE WAY UR HOT
asking wats his name is then start talking about where they they come from and u noe get into conversation he will like it trus me that happends to me a lot..
just talk to him....its as simple as that and tell him you didnt mean to stare at him....your friend told you to.....always blame it on the friend =)
I agree with sickerz
WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD JUS BE BRAVE AND GO OVER TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM AND YOU WHERE SORRY ABOUT YESTERDAY ITS JUST THAT YOU WANTED TO KNOW WHY HE WAS STARING AT YOU LIKE THAT.
You scared that boy. Now he thinks youre an alien whith those big eyes.Hey guys!!?i need advice!!?how do I make friends with him?
The only advice I can give is the next time dont do such stupid things to anyone.
well sounds to me like he's a bit shy. If you take your friend then you'll have to make the first move cuz he won't especially if you have your friend with you.. when you see him don't make it awkward, right away say hi and introduce yourself. nice ice breaker would be to say sorry for starring at him like that, let him know your friend dared you.
in so many words just be yourself and take it easy and express how you feel
Leave your friend home and go alone. If you bring a friend, he'll think you're bringing protection from him or someone else to help you diss him. You're only 12, just keep skating and don't worry about it. If he wants to get to know you, he'll come over...providing you don't act all weird again.
ok heree. im 12 ok? so yeaaa.lol
well im kinda in the same situation but i got some friends advice its not hard just got up to the boy and ask him his name tell him yours get the e-mail address get phone number after time over email if he has one.
dont like go so clos to him that you two touch though that would scare me then again i havent even seen you...lol
but and do you like him as in like like or friend or think he looks good or...what?
You need to speak to him!
I'm sorry but with that little stunt you pulled you probably blew it. I mean why would you do such a stupid thing like that?
Just say, ';hi, so you live around here huh?'; Its a really good base to start talking on, he cant bike away like a complete idiot, and he will probably say, ';um, yah....'; and make it really akward, then you just shrug your shoulders and say, ';cool'; and try to avoid the silence if he isnt a big talker..... good luck, he seems...... interesting!
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CALL OR TEXT HIM AND MAKE SMALL TALK AND IF THAT DON'T WORK I CAN BE UR BEST FRIEND!! LOL BY THE WAY UR HOT
asking wats his name is then start talking about where they they come from and u noe get into conversation he will like it trus me that happends to me a lot..
just talk to him....its as simple as that and tell him you didnt mean to stare at him....your friend told you to.....always blame it on the friend =)
I agree with sickerz
WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD JUS BE BRAVE AND GO OVER TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM AND YOU WHERE SORRY ABOUT YESTERDAY ITS JUST THAT YOU WANTED TO KNOW WHY HE WAS STARING AT YOU LIKE THAT.
Do guys enjoy...... i need guys over 18 advice please?
do guys enjoy giving girls h*nd j*bs? does it turn u on? or do u just do it in the hope we will return the favor???? id realy like to know it would help me with this tricky situation im in..... help!!! and any tips on giving guys h*nd j*bs would be soooo helpfull too!!! xxxDo guys enjoy...... i need guys over 18 advice please?
yes, it is a fun to give her a hand job. Sexy to watch her as she gets more and more and turned on and watching her orgasm. For a guy, get some K-Y Jelly in your palm, sit next to him, pop in a porno or open a porn magazine in front of him and reach over and start stroking it, asking him what he likes about what he's looking at...Do guys enjoy...... i need guys over 18 advice please?
I myself love it. There is really no wrong way. Just the touch itself is good.
Yeah, it's a big turn-on for me....................... not in the hope the favor will be returned, but either that it's part of foreplay and will lead to more, or if we are more in public, just a little excitement doing something we shouldn't
To make my women wet it is required. To help you with your technique make sure your hand is warm. Use saliva as lubricant and start off slow moving your hand up and down the shaft to tip tip of the penis in an almost turning motion. Start to slowly pick up speed and get up to an almost frenzied pace once you see your guy is turned by this you slow down again
Yes! We get as much out of it as you do. If you do different styles and at the most oddest of times %26amp; places, you would not beleve the ';Wildness'; that you/hem can make.
I guess that most guys do enjoy it as it is satisfying to give the girl pleasure, same goes for guys giving oral. If I knew there was going to be know return from you but it would satisfy you I would do it. Most men would probably prefer recieving oral to a hand job but if you had to do a hand job my advice would be to use a bit of lube or spit and communicate with him, different guys like diferrent things fast, slow tight grip, long strokes etc. If you can get two hands on him that is good as it would make him feel big, guys love feeling big, saying things about how big he is while doing it will turn him on (even if you dont think he is). Hope this helps
hi there,
My man enjoys doing it.. I enjoy receiving it, its called ';foreplay';. As for men, they would prefer a H**d Job. It can turn a man on though
Its ok but a ******** is much better, You can try this get your thumb wet and rub on the head my ex use to do this and it felt great.
yes, it is a fun to give her a hand job. Sexy to watch her as she gets more and more and turned on and watching her orgasm. For a guy, get some K-Y Jelly in your palm, sit next to him, pop in a porno or open a porn magazine in front of him and reach over and start stroking it, asking him what he likes about what he's looking at...Do guys enjoy...... i need guys over 18 advice please?
I myself love it. There is really no wrong way. Just the touch itself is good.
Yeah, it's a big turn-on for me....................... not in the hope the favor will be returned, but either that it's part of foreplay and will lead to more, or if we are more in public, just a little excitement doing something we shouldn't
To make my women wet it is required. To help you with your technique make sure your hand is warm. Use saliva as lubricant and start off slow moving your hand up and down the shaft to tip tip of the penis in an almost turning motion. Start to slowly pick up speed and get up to an almost frenzied pace once you see your guy is turned by this you slow down again
Yes! We get as much out of it as you do. If you do different styles and at the most oddest of times %26amp; places, you would not beleve the ';Wildness'; that you/hem can make.
I guess that most guys do enjoy it as it is satisfying to give the girl pleasure, same goes for guys giving oral. If I knew there was going to be know return from you but it would satisfy you I would do it. Most men would probably prefer recieving oral to a hand job but if you had to do a hand job my advice would be to use a bit of lube or spit and communicate with him, different guys like diferrent things fast, slow tight grip, long strokes etc. If you can get two hands on him that is good as it would make him feel big, guys love feeling big, saying things about how big he is while doing it will turn him on (even if you dont think he is). Hope this helps
hi there,
My man enjoys doing it.. I enjoy receiving it, its called ';foreplay';. As for men, they would prefer a H**d Job. It can turn a man on though
Its ok but a ******** is much better, You can try this get your thumb wet and rub on the head my ex use to do this and it felt great.
I'm a girl who needs advice from guys! 10 points!?
okay so when i moved to this school i started to like this guy named kyle!
Kyle used to be my friend but after he found out i liked him he totally stopped talking to me!
and then like a bunch of people started telling him that i was an obsessive crazy stalker!
And i realized i didn't like him but instead i like his brother tyler!
ANd tyler is also one of my really good friends or was at least until yesterday!
Because me and tyler were both online and i told him i like him and he told me he was sorry but he didn't like me!
And i cried for like ever!
But then the next day he acted as if nothing happened!
(Someone said it was his brother online not him)
And he still keeps flirting with me!
And then today during luanch he never sits at the same table as me, he was at my table across from were i sit every day!
He was only talking to me!
And he kept asking me wh i wasn't eating!
(I felt really sick)
So he started eating my food!I'm a girl who needs advice from guys! 10 points!?
tyler is a nice guy..speak to him but dont tell him anything regarding love or anything else..try to move close with him..dont miss this guy because finding a good guy is very rare nowadays..try to make a soft impression in his heart...and try to love him if he responds or gives any signal to your feelings otherwise keep him as your best friend ...have a nice day cutie...bye...take care...I'm a girl who needs advice from guys! 10 points!?
You didn't really ask a question here lol. The only advice I can give you is to NEVER have feelings for brothers and find some new guys to like. First off, figure out if that was Tyler online. Just go up to him and ask him because you're hearing rumors that it was his brother. Once he says yes, then you can proceed to stop talking to both of them and start finding someone new.
this totally happened to me one time too!
i was talking to this girl and like it was her mom on AIM and i told her all this funny/dirty stuff...
anyway the next day in school she like got real close at free period and like totally touched me weird!
we got in trouble by the school and stuff bcuz her mom told on us but also cuz we got caught chinging in the band room.
umm, wait, what was the question?
why do you keep using exclamation marks!
it's kinda odd!
i think you should call him!
you should confront him!
wow this is fun!
i'm a girl but that's my opinion!
did you want an opinion?!
because you didn't really ask anything!
can i have the 10 points?!
OK
The moral of your story is:
If you're interested in a guy, it's OK,......... but talk in person about important and potentially intimate details, because online, you have no idea who you're really talking to.
Got it?
Luck
Girls can be confusing and guys can be stupid. I'd say your best bet is to actually talk about face to face. Online just makes things more confusing. The internet is great, but sometimes you have to suck it up and do things the hard way (in person).
Well you have no question and I don't know what kind of advice you're seeking. Your question is basically a story of your life.
ask them out in person and try not to act to sluty or clingy. You'll get more respect that way. get to know them begore you tell them you like them(and make sure they know you).
Dude, Kyle is so much hotter than tyler. Why doesn't Kyle like you? It may be your weight, you should try to shed a few pounds.... then try kyle again. Tyler is ugly.
dunno about the stalker part, but you definitely come across as a bit... unglued.
You better wise up or you will wind up being the girl that all the guys pass around in high school for a quickie.
I understand some young girls talk and say ';like'; every so often..........but do you have to type ';like'; as well????? Come on please write properly..........like..........OMG!!!
DS!
ask tyler again
Try and bring it up to see if he responds.. If he doesn't then tell him again but in person..
you should buy a jonas brothers poster for your bedroom.
Too much drama
What is your question?
you have addd
kyle might like you but doest want to tell you
he talked to you. so why aren't you friends. friends thats it,he's not into you
it seems like both of the guys like you as a friend and think your pretty cool but dont really think of you as a possible gf, so to them you are sort of like another guy friend so they are not going to be as sensitive to and arent goiing to realize that they hurt your feelings and about the flirting it is either that he likes you but doesnt want to date you or its that you are mistaking flirting as just kidding around with friends,
Kyle used to be my friend but after he found out i liked him he totally stopped talking to me!
and then like a bunch of people started telling him that i was an obsessive crazy stalker!
And i realized i didn't like him but instead i like his brother tyler!
ANd tyler is also one of my really good friends or was at least until yesterday!
Because me and tyler were both online and i told him i like him and he told me he was sorry but he didn't like me!
And i cried for like ever!
But then the next day he acted as if nothing happened!
(Someone said it was his brother online not him)
And he still keeps flirting with me!
And then today during luanch he never sits at the same table as me, he was at my table across from were i sit every day!
He was only talking to me!
And he kept asking me wh i wasn't eating!
(I felt really sick)
So he started eating my food!I'm a girl who needs advice from guys! 10 points!?
tyler is a nice guy..speak to him but dont tell him anything regarding love or anything else..try to move close with him..dont miss this guy because finding a good guy is very rare nowadays..try to make a soft impression in his heart...and try to love him if he responds or gives any signal to your feelings otherwise keep him as your best friend ...have a nice day cutie...bye...take care...I'm a girl who needs advice from guys! 10 points!?
You didn't really ask a question here lol. The only advice I can give you is to NEVER have feelings for brothers and find some new guys to like. First off, figure out if that was Tyler online. Just go up to him and ask him because you're hearing rumors that it was his brother. Once he says yes, then you can proceed to stop talking to both of them and start finding someone new.
this totally happened to me one time too!
i was talking to this girl and like it was her mom on AIM and i told her all this funny/dirty stuff...
anyway the next day in school she like got real close at free period and like totally touched me weird!
we got in trouble by the school and stuff bcuz her mom told on us but also cuz we got caught chinging in the band room.
umm, wait, what was the question?
why do you keep using exclamation marks!
it's kinda odd!
i think you should call him!
you should confront him!
wow this is fun!
i'm a girl but that's my opinion!
did you want an opinion?!
because you didn't really ask anything!
can i have the 10 points?!
OK
The moral of your story is:
If you're interested in a guy, it's OK,......... but talk in person about important and potentially intimate details, because online, you have no idea who you're really talking to.
Got it?
Luck
Girls can be confusing and guys can be stupid. I'd say your best bet is to actually talk about face to face. Online just makes things more confusing. The internet is great, but sometimes you have to suck it up and do things the hard way (in person).
Well you have no question and I don't know what kind of advice you're seeking. Your question is basically a story of your life.
ask them out in person and try not to act to sluty or clingy. You'll get more respect that way. get to know them begore you tell them you like them(and make sure they know you).
Dude, Kyle is so much hotter than tyler. Why doesn't Kyle like you? It may be your weight, you should try to shed a few pounds.... then try kyle again. Tyler is ugly.
dunno about the stalker part, but you definitely come across as a bit... unglued.
You better wise up or you will wind up being the girl that all the guys pass around in high school for a quickie.
I understand some young girls talk and say ';like'; every so often..........but do you have to type ';like'; as well????? Come on please write properly..........like..........OMG!!!
DS!
ask tyler again
Try and bring it up to see if he responds.. If he doesn't then tell him again but in person..
you should buy a jonas brothers poster for your bedroom.
Too much drama
What is your question?
you have addd
kyle might like you but doest want to tell you
he talked to you. so why aren't you friends. friends thats it,he's not into you
it seems like both of the guys like you as a friend and think your pretty cool but dont really think of you as a possible gf, so to them you are sort of like another guy friend so they are not going to be as sensitive to and arent goiing to realize that they hurt your feelings and about the flirting it is either that he likes you but doesnt want to date you or its that you are mistaking flirting as just kidding around with friends,
I really need some good advice [[girls &guys]]!?
Ok. my boyfriend works everyday, except for the weekends. and I understand that he's busy during the day and he's probably tired when he gets home. But sometimes I always end up being the one to call/text him first. He always says that I can call him anytime. and when i tell him that I'd like him to put forward a little effort too, he's always so apologetic %26amp; claims when he gets home he has projects %26amp; studying to do. I do see him quite a few times in the week and on the weekends(when he's off), but when i see him on weekdays it's always late. I don't know what to do!!?? I really like him, so what can I do/say to him that doesn't sound bitchy--cause i'm not--and i'm not attention hungry, I just want to feel wanted too.I really need some good advice [[girls %26amp;guys]]!?
you shud jus tell him all this the next time u see him. be like baby i need to tell u something, i wud appreciate it if u took 5 mins out and did this for me. Because i feel like i am only one who is putting into this... this shud help u both.I really need some good advice [[girls %26amp;guys]]!?
no i mean i dont like guys attention i like going by unnoticed
not much you can do if hes busy. maybe be around less to make him want to see u more (this may not be the best idea idkk)
girls please answer
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you shud jus tell him all this the next time u see him. be like baby i need to tell u something, i wud appreciate it if u took 5 mins out and did this for me. Because i feel like i am only one who is putting into this... this shud help u both.I really need some good advice [[girls %26amp;guys]]!?
no i mean i dont like guys attention i like going by unnoticed
not much you can do if hes busy. maybe be around less to make him want to see u more (this may not be the best idea idkk)
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Ok i plan on seducing my guy later need some advice off guys what drives u crazy?
well this is my plan. once i get him in my room im going to take his tshirt off, and apply a blind fold while he is standing ill slowly take his trousers off followed by his underwear, lie him on my bed then handcuff him (tried this a while ago for his bday, drove him wild) then i was just going to work my way from his feet upwards slowly kissing his thighs, around his groin up his chest, neck, ears and back down to his manhood, and work my magic from there, once really excited im going to jump on top. thats it..... is there anything else i could do, or shouldnt do. want to make it a memorable night for him.Ok i plan on seducing my guy later need some advice off guys what drives u crazy?
try maybe some whipped cream? or body chocolate? I know that drives guys crazy when you lick it off (;Ok i plan on seducing my guy later need some advice off guys what drives u crazy?
Honey that's already an excellent night
sexy lingerie
Put a cucumber up his ***. Wont forget
i can differently help you with this! okay well
when you make out with him where ever you
two are, kiss him like you usually would and
after about 3 minutes, start slowly licking his
bottom lip in a sexy manner. Do that for about
twenty seconds then stick your tongue in his
mouth. Message his tounge with yours if his
isn't shoved in your mouth ha! You may want to
do all of this while sitting on his lap. This will
drive him wild! If none of this works, then take
it to do next level by wearing something hot and
sexy that you know he would like. Good luck
to you! :)eye color
try maybe some whipped cream? or body chocolate? I know that drives guys crazy when you lick it off (;Ok i plan on seducing my guy later need some advice off guys what drives u crazy?
Honey that's already an excellent night
sexy lingerie
Put a cucumber up his ***. Wont forget
i can differently help you with this! okay well
when you make out with him where ever you
two are, kiss him like you usually would and
after about 3 minutes, start slowly licking his
bottom lip in a sexy manner. Do that for about
twenty seconds then stick your tongue in his
mouth. Message his tounge with yours if his
isn't shoved in your mouth ha! You may want to
do all of this while sitting on his lap. This will
drive him wild! If none of this works, then take
it to do next level by wearing something hot and
sexy that you know he would like. Good luck
to you! :)
Guys, I need advice.?
well, yesterday, I asked a question in women's health, and this time, Im going to ask it in mens because I need your advice.
my boyfriend always tells me to call him, but he never calls me. like we talk on yahoo Instant Messenger a lot, and sometimes we go to the park, but he never says he'll call me, and he always tells me to call him. do you think something is wrong or is he just being weird...Guys, I need advice.?
A lot of guys aren't good at calling....like mentioned before. They feel embarassed and put on the spot, and don't think they have much to say...or that they sound like idiots. Mack's crazy, your b/g just has trouble on the phoneGuys, I need advice.?
He is trying to dominate you, first its phone calls etc. then your on all fours..........dump him, find someone who respects YOU
Shouldn't this question belong in ';relationships and dating'; or something? I don't see what this has to do with anyone's health.
he could have a phobia of calling ppl
Maybe he's just to lazy to call you but if you call him he is ok with answering a phone call.
Sounds like the begining of control issues. Why not try not calling him and see how long it takes for him to call you. If you are willing to play this game with him, then you are heading toward a path of disappointment and heartache.
alot of guys arent good at being the caller, especially when they dont think they got much to say, and girls have no prob calling alot cuz theyre perfectly content with talkin about nothin at all
ask him straight, what is going on?
my boyfriend always tells me to call him, but he never calls me. like we talk on yahoo Instant Messenger a lot, and sometimes we go to the park, but he never says he'll call me, and he always tells me to call him. do you think something is wrong or is he just being weird...Guys, I need advice.?
A lot of guys aren't good at calling....like mentioned before. They feel embarassed and put on the spot, and don't think they have much to say...or that they sound like idiots. Mack's crazy, your b/g just has trouble on the phoneGuys, I need advice.?
He is trying to dominate you, first its phone calls etc. then your on all fours..........dump him, find someone who respects YOU
Shouldn't this question belong in ';relationships and dating'; or something? I don't see what this has to do with anyone's health.
he could have a phobia of calling ppl
Maybe he's just to lazy to call you but if you call him he is ok with answering a phone call.
Sounds like the begining of control issues. Why not try not calling him and see how long it takes for him to call you. If you are willing to play this game with him, then you are heading toward a path of disappointment and heartache.
alot of guys arent good at being the caller, especially when they dont think they got much to say, and girls have no prob calling alot cuz theyre perfectly content with talkin about nothin at all
ask him straight, what is going on?
Boys/Guys do you want some life/girls advice?
Never Make A Girl Fall For You With No Intentions Of Catching Her
P.S. Boys don't say it can go both ways because it never does. And it is guys responsibility to catch someone they made fall.Boys/Guys do you want some life/girls advice?
This happened to me two years ago!
I went out with this girl at school %26amp; she really liked me, but I wasn't interested. I dumped her one day after we got together and she was devastated. It hurt her so much that she left school and i haven't heard from her since.Boys/Guys do you want some life/girls advice?
Guys have to use dirty tactics. Being a girl, even if your ugly, eventually some guy will come along who wants to have sex with you. Girls can just do nothing and still get laid. We have to play games and twist hearts.
aww agreed.
i agree what the hell is wrong with them and yes i used them because there aren't words to describe ';GUY';
that how it is we gotta work for are prey so what if a few get hurt
P.S. Boys don't say it can go both ways because it never does. And it is guys responsibility to catch someone they made fall.Boys/Guys do you want some life/girls advice?
This happened to me two years ago!
I went out with this girl at school %26amp; she really liked me, but I wasn't interested. I dumped her one day after we got together and she was devastated. It hurt her so much that she left school and i haven't heard from her since.Boys/Guys do you want some life/girls advice?
Guys have to use dirty tactics. Being a girl, even if your ugly, eventually some guy will come along who wants to have sex with you. Girls can just do nothing and still get laid. We have to play games and twist hearts.
aww agreed.
i agree what the hell is wrong with them and yes i used them because there aren't words to describe ';GUY';
that how it is we gotta work for are prey so what if a few get hurt
Please help ! i need advice from guys and girls. best answer gets 10 points!?
Okay, so heres the problem:
I have seriously liked this guy since fourth grade, I'm now in 10th. We talk for about 2 minutes everyday, but I really really like him, its hard to describe but the feelings are real.
He has problems though, he does drugs, and don't say anything about this because i don't care if he does drugs or not.
but theres a girl who all over him, but idk if hes interested....
hes really laid back, and i don't know how i can start a convo and get to know him...any advice or ideas?
and since he's reall chill and relaxed, how would i be able to tell if he's interested ??
I'm nervous to start a convorsation with him..
like when we talk he has to start the convo.
I just dont know what to talk about with him..I neeeeed help please!Please help ! i need advice from guys and girls. best answer gets 10 points!?
I would not try saying anything if your nervious. I would suggest you wait until you feel heroic:). I say wait because you dont want to sound like a bumbbling idiot. I have myself many times sounded like a moron when trying to talk to girls and nothing came out right lol. I would just walk up to him say hey, whats up:) and if he continues the conversation forward, or if you have a way to do so then keep him talking, etc.Please help ! i need advice from guys and girls. best answer gets 10 points!?
you mite not like to here this love,but drugs are for mugs!Why you want to be involved with anyone with anyone that does this kina thing is beyond me!people who take drugs are usually selfish ad he will hurt you love,he mite even break your heart,my advice cos you seem like a nice girl,move on and i bet you';ll find someone even nicer!Goodluck
hi, well let me start out that i can relate. I like this boy and i kept debating whether or not to ask him out. a few days ago i actually asked him out! he said no! mainly because he started dating the girl ONE day before i asked him. SO about that girl that is ALL OVER HIM you need to take control just ask him if he likes you. just be like hey do you like that girl that is all over you and see his answer. if he says NO then you are good! then you should tell him that you like him. i know i might sound confusing but in basic words ask him out. be upright truthful with him. do it before it is tooooo late :D hope i helped
I have seriously liked this guy since fourth grade, I'm now in 10th. We talk for about 2 minutes everyday, but I really really like him, its hard to describe but the feelings are real.
He has problems though, he does drugs, and don't say anything about this because i don't care if he does drugs or not.
but theres a girl who all over him, but idk if hes interested....
hes really laid back, and i don't know how i can start a convo and get to know him...any advice or ideas?
and since he's reall chill and relaxed, how would i be able to tell if he's interested ??
I'm nervous to start a convorsation with him..
like when we talk he has to start the convo.
I just dont know what to talk about with him..I neeeeed help please!Please help ! i need advice from guys and girls. best answer gets 10 points!?
I would not try saying anything if your nervious. I would suggest you wait until you feel heroic:). I say wait because you dont want to sound like a bumbbling idiot. I have myself many times sounded like a moron when trying to talk to girls and nothing came out right lol. I would just walk up to him say hey, whats up:) and if he continues the conversation forward, or if you have a way to do so then keep him talking, etc.Please help ! i need advice from guys and girls. best answer gets 10 points!?
you mite not like to here this love,but drugs are for mugs!Why you want to be involved with anyone with anyone that does this kina thing is beyond me!people who take drugs are usually selfish ad he will hurt you love,he mite even break your heart,my advice cos you seem like a nice girl,move on and i bet you';ll find someone even nicer!Goodluck
hi, well let me start out that i can relate. I like this boy and i kept debating whether or not to ask him out. a few days ago i actually asked him out! he said no! mainly because he started dating the girl ONE day before i asked him. SO about that girl that is ALL OVER HIM you need to take control just ask him if he likes you. just be like hey do you like that girl that is all over you and see his answer. if he says NO then you are good! then you should tell him that you like him. i know i might sound confusing but in basic words ask him out. be upright truthful with him. do it before it is tooooo late :D hope i helped
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Is this guy just harmlessly flirting with me? or playing with my head? advice form guys mainly please?
We went out for a few weeks but it didn't get anywhere because he just didn't want to be in a relationship.
the other night he was getting quite jealous over his friend who was bothering me because he was drunk and eventually he got my friend to talk to his drunk friend so that he would stop bothering me %26amp; so we could have time together.
He complimented me %26amp;hugged me a few times, smelling my hair %26amp;put his arm around my waist when we walked home. While we were wlaking he said I deserve such a great guy because I have a good heart. Also when his friend was talking about me he said 'yeah she's my (nickname he has for me).
Yesterday he said I looked beautiful when I said I hated a photo we took. He sort of tickled/played with my hair%26amp; kissed my forehead when I said something he thought was cute.
However he doesn't ask to meet up but he texts my friend who he's good friends with to ask if she wants to hang with his friends. He doesn't seem to want to see me alone anymore.Is this guy just harmlessly flirting with me? or playing with my head? advice form guys mainly please?
well I'm a girl, but it sounds liek you are confused.
You need to work out your feelings. If he didn't invite you then it's his loss, not oyurs. Don't dwell on this too much, because if he likes you then he will make a move. maybe he is trying ot play with your feelings, maybe he likes you. But we think too much so just forget baout him for a while.
Good Luck~!:)Is this guy just harmlessly flirting with me? or playing with my head? advice form guys mainly please?
forget it love,dont give yourself an unnecessary headache,its one of those things
the other night he was getting quite jealous over his friend who was bothering me because he was drunk and eventually he got my friend to talk to his drunk friend so that he would stop bothering me %26amp; so we could have time together.
He complimented me %26amp;hugged me a few times, smelling my hair %26amp;put his arm around my waist when we walked home. While we were wlaking he said I deserve such a great guy because I have a good heart. Also when his friend was talking about me he said 'yeah she's my (nickname he has for me).
Yesterday he said I looked beautiful when I said I hated a photo we took. He sort of tickled/played with my hair%26amp; kissed my forehead when I said something he thought was cute.
However he doesn't ask to meet up but he texts my friend who he's good friends with to ask if she wants to hang with his friends. He doesn't seem to want to see me alone anymore.Is this guy just harmlessly flirting with me? or playing with my head? advice form guys mainly please?
well I'm a girl, but it sounds liek you are confused.
You need to work out your feelings. If he didn't invite you then it's his loss, not oyurs. Don't dwell on this too much, because if he likes you then he will make a move. maybe he is trying ot play with your feelings, maybe he likes you. But we think too much so just forget baout him for a while.
Good Luck~!:)Is this guy just harmlessly flirting with me? or playing with my head? advice form guys mainly please?
forget it love,dont give yourself an unnecessary headache,its one of those things
Okay so relationship/courtship advice needed, guys and girls.?
Okay so Im about to ask this girl out. I have how Im going to do it planned for the most part and came up with something different.
I put the song ';go with me'; by josh turner on a mp3 player by itself and changed its name to will you be my girlfriend. Then I set the back light color to her favorite color. I wrote a letter and at the end it tells her to read the mp3's screen but I don't know if I want to do it like that or maybe more playful like put it on and ask something like, ';can you guess the name of the song'; and even tho she knows it I can say thats not it and hand it to her. I mean ladies and guys which do you think will work better for me. Sorry for the major run-on sentence.Okay so relationship/courtship advice needed, guys and girls.?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA you asked it twice
I put the song ';go with me'; by josh turner on a mp3 player by itself and changed its name to will you be my girlfriend. Then I set the back light color to her favorite color. I wrote a letter and at the end it tells her to read the mp3's screen but I don't know if I want to do it like that or maybe more playful like put it on and ask something like, ';can you guess the name of the song'; and even tho she knows it I can say thats not it and hand it to her. I mean ladies and guys which do you think will work better for me. Sorry for the major run-on sentence.Okay so relationship/courtship advice needed, guys and girls.?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA you asked it twice
Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
We have been together for two years. He is 40, I am 42. I know men look at other women but for two years now when we go out, he ignores me, and watches other women. Last friday night we went to a family resturant, a sixteen year old girl was behind us with a short skirt on, she was heavy set, anyway he watched her the whole time we were there. He used to view porn on line but we got in fights over it, so now every morning before work he looks at Lingerie, this is every single morning, the man wont pack his lunch but he will get up early to view them. Like I said I know men look, but most dont do it in front of their g/fs or wives. Ive tried for two years to tell him how I feel, he still continues to do this in public. When we go out he acts like hes looking for something, he wont even hold a conversation with me. He said hes just looking, no big deal!!!! What do you think. Should I give up and move on??Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
Well, being in his 40's, its possible that he's just set in his ways. He's always looked at other women, and now that he is in a relationship, he can't bring himself to stop.
Or he is stubborn, believes it is no big deal (like you said), and continues to do it in front of you knowing that it bothers you, ';proving'; that it isn't a big deal - that is, he wins the ';argument'; every time he does it anyway.
Personally, based solely on what you've told me about you two, I would leave. I don't know how serious you two are, though, or how other aspects of your relationship are going.Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
sorry but if he's looking he's thinking about cheating. some men can look and not touch ,others you never know, if he's looking at porn he's not happy in your relationship,and he's shopping for a new girl if he looks when your with him. One more thing,if your catching this and not doing anything about it your in for trouble down the road.
He is looking, because he is missing what you can't offer him anymore. Is not stable relationship if he find what he is looking for you are history.
It sounds a little over the top, but i would think their is a deeper insecurity on your side you are redirecting at him either that or you don't trust the man... and i don't know maybe there is reason for that, if not remember you are what you think of others... deal with it or leave him..
Get rid of the perv. No offense, but you're not going to get any BETTER looking with time.....none of us will. There will always be porn and hot chicks. If that's how he chooses to use his eyes instead of for you, then get rid of him.
If you're ready to pack it in, move on.
Sounds like maybe you are not satisfying him. Maybe you should try some new things in bed. Get his mind back on you. He's probably bored of the same old routine.
First, you need to let that man look at pron, unless your going to give him some action 2-3 times a day. Second, every guy looks on occasion, he just doesn't sound very discreet. If he's dumb enough to get caught, then you have a right to get mad. However, I would suggest letting him look at the pron and maybe even have a little alone time for yourself. If you catch him looking, then he deserves a kick to the junk.
It sounds like he has a problem. He needs to seek counseling, or you move on ~ especially if you only see things getting worse.
Looking at porn and beating off is one thing, but to ignore you to stare at other girls or women is not cool. I'd dump him and move on to a real man who can treat you like a lady. What a jerk.
hell yeah, move on! unless you want to put up with it forever. Duh. Empower yourself. Why would you want to put up with that crap?
i hate to say it; but he is an inconsiderate jerk with no respect for you, women in general, or your relationship. RESPECT yourself and move on.... good luckeye color
Well, being in his 40's, its possible that he's just set in his ways. He's always looked at other women, and now that he is in a relationship, he can't bring himself to stop.
Or he is stubborn, believes it is no big deal (like you said), and continues to do it in front of you knowing that it bothers you, ';proving'; that it isn't a big deal - that is, he wins the ';argument'; every time he does it anyway.
Personally, based solely on what you've told me about you two, I would leave. I don't know how serious you two are, though, or how other aspects of your relationship are going.Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
sorry but if he's looking he's thinking about cheating. some men can look and not touch ,others you never know, if he's looking at porn he's not happy in your relationship,and he's shopping for a new girl if he looks when your with him. One more thing,if your catching this and not doing anything about it your in for trouble down the road.
He is looking, because he is missing what you can't offer him anymore. Is not stable relationship if he find what he is looking for you are history.
It sounds a little over the top, but i would think their is a deeper insecurity on your side you are redirecting at him either that or you don't trust the man... and i don't know maybe there is reason for that, if not remember you are what you think of others... deal with it or leave him..
Get rid of the perv. No offense, but you're not going to get any BETTER looking with time.....none of us will. There will always be porn and hot chicks. If that's how he chooses to use his eyes instead of for you, then get rid of him.
If you're ready to pack it in, move on.
Sounds like maybe you are not satisfying him. Maybe you should try some new things in bed. Get his mind back on you. He's probably bored of the same old routine.
First, you need to let that man look at pron, unless your going to give him some action 2-3 times a day. Second, every guy looks on occasion, he just doesn't sound very discreet. If he's dumb enough to get caught, then you have a right to get mad. However, I would suggest letting him look at the pron and maybe even have a little alone time for yourself. If you catch him looking, then he deserves a kick to the junk.
It sounds like he has a problem. He needs to seek counseling, or you move on ~ especially if you only see things getting worse.
Looking at porn and beating off is one thing, but to ignore you to stare at other girls or women is not cool. I'd dump him and move on to a real man who can treat you like a lady. What a jerk.
hell yeah, move on! unless you want to put up with it forever. Duh. Empower yourself. Why would you want to put up with that crap?
i hate to say it; but he is an inconsiderate jerk with no respect for you, women in general, or your relationship. RESPECT yourself and move on.... good luck
Need MAJORLY important advice on guys?
I met this guy who I think it really cute tonight..
We were in a group of friends,
but then at one point we were by ourselves and I'm afraid it was REALLY awkward..
He acted like he liked me, and I think he even tried to get me alone.
But I don't know!
What should I do?
Like, other than that awkward moment the night was really cool, but after the event was over I just bolted out of there because anytime I tried to talk to him I would get all choked up and not be able to say what I wanted. But it was ONLY when we were alone..
Help?
Any advice on not getting so NERVOUS?Need MAJORLY important advice on guys?
aww...you have a crush. Just...well don't run away. He'll think your not interested. Just try to relax and know that it doesn't really matter in the end of things...if you act like someone other than yourself he'll end up interested in something you aren't and then you'll end up breaking up anyway. Just be yourself and it's okay to admit to being nervous. Reach your hand out and just touch the back of his hand if you're talking, relax yourself to instincts.
We were in a group of friends,
but then at one point we were by ourselves and I'm afraid it was REALLY awkward..
He acted like he liked me, and I think he even tried to get me alone.
But I don't know!
What should I do?
Like, other than that awkward moment the night was really cool, but after the event was over I just bolted out of there because anytime I tried to talk to him I would get all choked up and not be able to say what I wanted. But it was ONLY when we were alone..
Help?
Any advice on not getting so NERVOUS?Need MAJORLY important advice on guys?
aww...you have a crush. Just...well don't run away. He'll think your not interested. Just try to relax and know that it doesn't really matter in the end of things...if you act like someone other than yourself he'll end up interested in something you aren't and then you'll end up breaking up anyway. Just be yourself and it's okay to admit to being nervous. Reach your hand out and just touch the back of his hand if you're talking, relax yourself to instincts.
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