GUYS - please help me I need your advice?

My boyfriend has a much lower sex drive than me. We had a talk about it and he says he just doesn't see sex as being that important. But he acted really offended when I told him I masturbate! he practically lives with me so I know he isn't cheating he doesn't masturbate or watch porn and he is so frustrating because it doesn't matter what I do he just doesn't want to know unless HE wants sex. I am happy he isn't badgering me for sex all the time but I am not getting what I want out of this relationship and HE IS...what can I do?GUYS - please help me I need your advice?
What are you doing tonight? I'm free, and would be happy to scratch your itch... Seriously though, if it bother you that much then maybe the two of you just aren't compatible. Look for other options, explore.GUYS - please help me I need your advice?
You have three alternatives:


leave him. This will depend on your emotional relationship. I don't recommend it if you love each other. But if options 2 or 3 don't work, go for that for sure.





change his habits. Be more open about your feelings, how important the physical is for you. Masturbating in front of him might turn him on? Whys is he so selfish? He obviously wants sex on HIS terms. That's not equality or acceptable.








buy a toy, do it in secret. (yes I know I didn't mention a lover, but that's not a good option)
he might just have a low sex drive, but i'm suprised he got offended though when you said you masturbate. i mean what does he expect you to do if he hardly wants sex! next time he wants sex tell him no unless you can have sex when you want it also! fairs fair right? sounds like he has some issues though and you need to talk about this. i mean what turns him on?
MAKE FUN OF HIM FOR BEING GAY PRICELESS LMAO yeah but seriously thats kinda weird try BJ's that always gets me in the mood every time, after the gym I'm so sore dont wanna do nada she always get me wit the BJ. catch him off guard with it trick him if you have to
WHAT? what guy has a lower sex drive than his girl, in my relationship it is completely opposite of what you have! he should be lucky you want it that much. I would just tackle him with your cloths off and start undressing him
girl yo got yourself a handfull you probably made him feel bad but he is right sex aint everything have a little romantic nite with him get lingeire (sp) get sexy for him try and seduce him girl yu need to work it
Yeah, wow, talk about turning the tables. Let me guess he likes video games doesn't he? Time for him to find a new place to live.
Cheat on him you eventually will sooner or later if you want to be satisfied
haha seduce him, make fun of him for being gay, or break up with this wierdo
you need to sit down and talk to him and if its honestly getting that bad then itr might be best to break up