Guys need your input girls tooo any advice PLEASE im going nuts?

sooo i met my boyfriend (now currently ex boyfriend) after christmas and we hit it off right away and we were together for about 7 and a half months or so and he is a year older and was going off to college and we, more like he, decided to break up so he can focus on school and stuff. we loved eachother soo much and we still do. so we broke up and it was like nothing ever changed. He told me that he didnt want to go to parties get drunk and hook up with a girl when we were still together and then he told me he wanted to marry me. i asked him about the party thing and he said he wasnt going to because he was going to wait for me.


He left and i got a letter in the mail from him. A really sweet letter that made me cry and at the end he told me he was going to wait for me because im going to college next year about an hour away from him. then last night he told me that these girls were flirting with im and h was flirting back and he told me ';i jut cant get over you :/'; then later on he said lets focus on being friends and todayyyy he told me he didnt want me to miss out on life and date around but i dont date half heartedly ya kno? and i know we;re young but it really is love and im so confused because i dont know what he wants'


what do you guys think? please dont be mean im jsut very confused :[Guys need your input girls tooo any advice PLEASE im going nuts?
well i can't even imagine what you must be going through. you are in love and when the person you love cant be with you, it's terrible. i think that he seems to love you just as much as you love him. you guys really need to have a heart to heart. him writing you that letter was a good step (guys dont write letters like that unless they reallly mean it) you need to figure out where you stand, and make sure he knows that if you want to wait for him, that he better be into it 100%. you dont want to waste your time if he is going to change his mind and start dating other girls. by the way, by him saying he is flirting, he is just trying to see if you are still all about him.but he shouldnt send mixed messages like that.however,if he is truthful about not wanting to hook up with random girls, he sounds like a great guy who must really feel something special for you. talk it out and let him know you are confused and want to do what's right. he will understand and hopefully be upfront with what he wantsGuys need your input girls tooo any advice PLEASE im going nuts?
He's all over the place with the messages he's sending you. Tell him to cut the bullshit and if he can't be faithful, he doesn't deserve you.
watch out. i know wen he said he wuz florting bac which means he kissed them an may have already hooked up, if he as EVER lied 2 u then he is goin 2 do it again. just in this case u need to be nosey.. but if u trust him then he probably is telling u that u need 2 come an be 2gether. just call. an if he doesnt answer dont leave a message but get on his case ive seen this happen mny times
Wow. Sounds to me like this guy is doing everything right.





He probably does love you, but he's smart enough to supply his sweet little drama queen with all of the love and angst and emotional highs and lows you so desire. Throws out enough mixed messages to keep you off balance, keep you interested while he's away, and prevent you from getting bored and cheating on him with some other guy. He gives you plenty of things to dish about with you're girlfriends-- guaranteed attention for you. He gives you exactly what you need.





Thumbs up to this smart man. He knows what he's doing.





Don't sweat it. It's all good. Just kick back and dig those addictive emotions you're feeling.