I'm a junior in high school and I kind of have this dilemma with guys. For some reason, I tend to pick up and attract older guys way more than boys my own age and I don't understand why. I would say that I'm good looking (not to sound conceited.) I'm very petite (5'2'; and 100 pounds) but with a C cup. All these people older than me in their 20's and older are always trying to get with me, I get stopped on the street quite often, and I constantly hear from people that I'm beautiful and hot. However, I strongly disagree with this because if I'm so ';beautiful'; or whatever then why do guys my age never really try to get with me as much as older guys? It's frusterating because I'll go to a party with all of these older people and have people staring and everything and feel really good about myself but then the next day I'll be with kids my age and feel really ugly and gross because they don't ever seem attracted to me. Does anybody have any idea why it's like this?Question regarding guys. I feel kind of lame asking this but any advice would help....?
OK from an older guys point of view.
Older guys love developed younger girls. Thats just a fact. Partly cause you mature earlier than us and partly for the excitement of having someone who may be inexperienced sexually than us and we think we can have things just the way WE like it.
You are probably asked out more from older guys as it is easier for them to do so than it is for your own age group.
Is there no one YOU like close to your age at school?
Once you start dating guys much older than you the guys your age just think they have'nt a chance so don't bother. They think they will just get rejected. What chance have they got against a guy who can drive and go to cool parties etc.
Is it against your rules to ask a guy out? Once you do this you become available to all guys your age.
Please remember to most older guys they may make you feel important but they are hunting for conquests, and younger girls are easy prey.
Sorry but it is true!Question regarding guys. I feel kind of lame asking this but any advice would help....?
C cup.....that is the reason. Get a breast reduction, and things will become normal for you.
yes, they are afraid of your beauty because they are young and have no experience or confidence
no it is intimidation, they think your out of their league so to speak. They're immature and they dont know how to approach a girl, they probablly still asks their friends to go with them to talk to a girl like a wing man lol.... And the older guys are of course attracted to you because you have physically matured and of course they think your older. Like I once started talking to this girl that I didnt know was 17 (im 24 now, I was 22 when it happened) and when I found out I was like F#%26lt;K!!!!!, I dont want to go to jail! So I stopped lol
It sounds like guys your age may be too intimidated to ask you out! Try going after them yourself! Once you get a little older, and the boys get older, they will start talking to you more!
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