heres things baout him
-shy
- cute
-chill
-kinda stupid
- so i think we are playing games.
- one day he will come up to me and start the conversation
- ill text him and hell text back but then wont to something i say
-the next day he acts not interested and doesnt really look like he wants to talk
- i see him at a party saturday and hes a little tipsy and he is kinda all over me and giving me drinks and stuff. and then he calls me when i left to see if i was ok after the party and if i had left. it made me think he was thinking about me
-yesterday i see him at the meeting thing and he comes up and says hi and gives me a hug and ask me how im feling after saturdqay night and we both laugh.then he goes away and i went up and talked to him some more and he was into the conversation kinda answered with long answers and all
- during the meeting he would sometimes look at me but then i would look at certain times and he wouldnt be at all
- i would go and stand by he and his friend (im closer to his friend) and they wouldnt even talk to me or really even try to make an effort to
-then when i was leaving he kept looking at me till i really was leaving i gave his friend a hug and he didnt even notice i was leaving....
i keep getting mixed signals. sometimes he starts it. and at the party he was really flirting.
is he shy, just being nice,not interested, or his he interested??
should i not go up to them anymore??is he playing hard to get??
also. should i not go up and talk to him anymore.
he didnt make that much effort last night but he did the night before.
and i didnt catch him looking at me that that much but sometimesGuys answer...mixed signals. ive tried to get peoples advice but no one will answer.?
I think he is probably playing hard to get a little bit..Considering he is older he can probably get a few more ladies then just 1 and he is playing the field to make sure he gets the one he likes best..If he sometimes doesnt answer a text then you should do the same thing...I do that all the time to make a girl want to talk to me more..It works well.. It's also possible that he already has another girl in mind but still kinda likes you..Try playing the game and see if you can't make him play a little harder to get you...Guys answer...mixed signals. ive tried to get peoples advice but no one will answer.?
ok..i didnt know what to say until you added the details. ur 15 and he's 18. some peple rather not run the risk of getting in trouble. just be friendly w/ him and flirt a lil. IDK..sometimes some guys dont know what they want, just like most women.
He is playing games with you. You should ignore him and see what he does. It time you play hard to get.
Oh Assassin that is really cool.
Who gives a dam - how boring - no wonder nobody gives you an answer.
1- This is why children shouldn't date. You would have no such questions if you were ready for dating.
2- He's just not that into you.
Ignore him. Dont let him see that you care if he's looking your way.
If he doesnt pick up the chase after two days of being ignored...let it go...or he's gay.
Im pretty sure that he does like you but he may be scared to approach you in that way because he doesnt know how you feel. Ask him about it it cant hurt .
i do that 2 girls sumtimes.......especally when there a lot yonger........it makes them want u more thats prob what hes doin
k i figured he was just kinda confused til i saw the 15/18 thing
He just wants to be friends.
no 1 is right .
you sound to good for him.
He wants to hit it, but he doesn't know how willing you are...or aren't.
hes going to jail
mmm the age kinda is a problem but you sound like u 2 are good:)
laugh my ******* *** off the first reply
I think he likes you. He is scare, shy and not knowing what to do next. Also, he don't seems experience and old enough to play games.
You are very young. It is normal to fantasize about boys and girls relationship. But since he is quite indecisive, you should move on with you life - study hard, play hard, date hard (with other boys who is interested) and leave him alone, and let him do what is needed to do to get you. =)
Enjoy the process, sweet.
Hi Kallie
You think too much!
Sorry but I know its hard when you are 15 but the best thing to do is to find other interests and get your mind off of him.
You can never read another person's mind. Just be yourself and don't try too hard.
There are plenty of other guys out there and you have all the time in the world to meet them.
Go out with your friends and enjoy yourself.
Either it is just game playing, or he's just as confused as you are. If you ask me, the best thing you can do is stop obssessing about it so much and maybe pay less attention to him. If you start playing a little more ';hard to get'; and act less interested, he's more likely to turn around and start paying more attention to you.
Well, sometimes when guys are around there friends, they tend to not want there friends to know, especially if they are shy. I think you need to talk to him, just be friends and get to know each other, then you see if it works out. There might be an explanation for his weird behavior and if you get to know him better, you might find out and learn how to act around him.
maybe he likes you, but because of the age gap (in my opinion it aint big but boys can be weird bout age gaps :s ) wont admit to it, in fear of getting taken the piss out of by his mates or your friend who he is also friends with
just remember, drunken minds usually speak sober hearts. i know thats really cheesy but in all the times i've been drunk %26amp; the same for most people i imagine, i've let out lots of secrets %26amp; how i really feel about people haha
Ok first of all bare in mind the golden rule , '; DESPERATE IS NEVER SEXY '; a man may like you more as a girl if you do not show as an easy target . I would say keep your distance and let him do the man's job '; chasing '; not you and by so doing you may stand a chance of getting him
sounds to me you need to stop plating the games with him stop going out of your way to talk to him make him talk to you first mystery in a girl drives guys wild for them don't act overly eager to talk to him or texting him make him chase you don't act like you care either way if he talks to you then talk back if he flirts with you flirt back if you want if you don't then don't if you catch him looking at you don't let him catch you looking back at him if he is really interested in you this will draw him in but if he is not and just using you for a buffer then he will rethink your standing with him or leave you alone.
either way don't give him what he wants and be very careful with the drinking and flirting can lead to trouble for you
best of luck
id say a player or playin hard to get
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