Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?

Okay so I'm seeing this girl and we're technically on a two week break because her parents want her to date many people in order for her not to get hurt again. I really like her and according to her she really likes me, in fact she says she's kind of scared because she likes me a lot and we seem a little too perfect for each other. Right now she suggests both of us date around and she doesn't want me to just wait for her. But when she's ready for a real relationship she'll let me know right away. This is the first week and everything has gone swimmingly well at the beginning until I decided to be romantic and hung up some paper cranes on the front tree to remind her of the pretty birds at a certain zoo from her childhood to cheer her up since she's been having a rough time recently. After that we talked a bit but she's been kind of ignoring my texts (or doesn't text me as often as she used to text me good morning before...) Well I'm not sure if I came out to strong or she doesn't like me anymore and is ignoring me on purpose but I do know that her parents set her up on two dates this week and they are really religious.. So does she still like me or is it basically over and should I move on...? If it helps its only been a two days or so since we last talked but we kind of talked almost everyday so it's a little unusual that she's taking a lot more time.Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
Its a tuff one dude. if she likes you as much as she said. dont worry about it. religeous family. hhm maybe its her way of coping not seein you coz she is pretty much forced to date other guys. how old r both u?Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
hang around there you may be suprised what happens
Sounds like you two really hit it off. Unfortunately though, her parents are putting the kabosh on that. It's good to hear she had the decency to be honest and let you know that she will be dating around. Since she has suggested that you do the same, so do I.





Putting the cranes in her tree was sweet. However, since she is not committing herself to dating you exclusively just yet, it may of come off as you not having good boundaries. If she doesn't respond to a call/text, wait at least 3 days before you try again. Any more than that will make you look very clingy and like you don't respect her boundaries. Also, her parents may be monitoring her phone and you'll make a bad impression on them if you do it much more.





I'm sure she still likes you as much as before. Just give her some space and respect that she needs to date other people. You can't force anything, so unfortunately you're going to have to sit back and wait. In the meantime, date some other girls to ty to keep your mind off of her as much as possible.





If it is meant to be it will be.
shes scared, if you really care for her be patient, she'll come around
Maybe her parents saw the gesture and are afraid that she'll get hurt, so they told her not to talk to you as often.





Maybe you should talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel when the time is right.
really there can be many reason why she's like that:





1. maybe she might be attracted to someone else and is confused if she should stay with you or not.


2. maybe she doesn't talk that much cause her parents don't want her to.


3. maybe she needs a lil space right now from whats been goin on.





all i can suggest is just to ask her whats goin on so you can get an update. :p
Do what her parents want, date around, but don't mess around. If her parents are really religious, they don't want you to worship their daughter, they want you to worship God, help others, and learn how to deal with more people than just one. One thing that dating around proves is that you're not a sleazeball looking for a night in bed, but a guy who cares about people, (unless you really are looking for a night in bed and the girls you date are the girls that would provide that) and wants to find decent girls. And who knows, you might have some fun in the process. Hope you have friends too -- group dates seem more innocent.
Wooow... her parents are frigging retarded. They're religious... so they're setting her up on all of these dates so that she WON'T get hurt?





Kay first of all, just forcing her to date around will put her under immense sexual pressure, especially when she dates non-religious people. They'll just expect her to be easy since she dates around so much.





And second of all, forcing her to date around will hurt her more! She won't feel genuinely loved by any of the men she dates, and there will be more break ups, more exes, and more heartache.





As for your end of the deal... I'd keep holding on. Although it's a struggle now, I think it will be worth it in the end. And a great story to tell your kids. But I recommend talking to her about it.
AWW!! The paper cranes sound really cute, but it might have came on too strong. Especially if you two are on a break, it could of scared her. It's a really cute idea and you sound like you might be the clingy type. Which, by the way, is nothing wrong. I don't know how long you two have known each other, but if it's been less than a year, than you are going to have to give her breathing space to make up her mind. It might hurt, but it is the right thing to do. Try dating someone else and see from there. Just give it time.
idk
do people really do this........seriously....but anyways maybe she want to date other people for a while and she wants you to do same aswell....that can be the reason why she is ignoring you.......or maybe this hole date other people thing was just an excuse to break up....i mean she didnt want to break your heart,...so she said those stuffs....... but hey idk.......you better talk to her.......ask her what she wants........because the hol thing is so confusing....... good luck