Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Guys and girls please help me. serious advice needed?

My girlfriend's brother has a girlfriend which i recently get close to, we used to talk alot over the phone for hours, but what are we talking about is that, i was trying to asked her some advice what surprise gift i should give to my girlfriend for they were close to each other, and we exchange stories, i gave her advices and vice versa, my gf knows it all cos i am very open about the ';talk';, and she's cool with it. it was plain friendship thing, but she spread rumors that i was courting her, now my gf's brother is crazy mad at me, he believed her. and this girl also talked to my gf's parents that i was courting her. what's her problem? hellpppp..Guys and girls please help me. serious advice needed?
you probably made her uncomfortable. she might of thought that you wanted to ';do it'; . sorry. GOOD LUCK!Guys and girls please help me. serious advice needed?
Your ';friend'; probably has a crush on you, but you shouldn't let that go to your head. Just try to clear your name with your girlfriend first, just meet her somewhere and tell her the truth. Last but not least, clear your name with your friend's boyfriend. Oh and don't talk to your friend so much, in fact don't talk at all.





Happy Ending: Your gf belives you and so does your friends bf and you life happily-ever-after.





Bad Ending: The EXACT opposite of the good ending, and your screwed for life :]





Hope that helps
prove them wrong by not dealing with the other girl any more and take time to explain to your girl friend after she understood she will talk with her family for you just give it time and some work to clear yourself.
Well, if your gf drops you, move on. If she is still seeing you, just explain to her and with the brother in the room at the same time that you meant no disrespect to anyone but you weren't courting her because you are happy with your gf. Explain that there must have been some misunderstanding, and stay away from his gf forever. She must be a kook or maybe she thought since you were on the phone with her so long you were trying something. (although no offense here bro, but you shouldn't spend hours on the phone with another girl if you are seeing someone else)


More than likely, this will not go away and you will end up having to move on. This is one of those life lessons we have to deal with.
I know this is going to be hard to hear but maybe you need to lean back for a while just until the smoke clears. Next time accept advice form someone who is probably older. It is safe to say that this girl you confide into has a secret crush on you.
If it is meant for you and your gf to be together and she truly loves she will know that what her brothers gf dais is not true and that is really all that matters is what she thinks
wow that is really sad! just tell everyone the true story and say that is just a friendship thing only and get her to tell the story also. good luck!
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