Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Guys and Girls, Please give me your input and Advice.?

Ok,





I'll try to keep this brief. Basically I've known this girl for about 3 years or so on a friend type level, nothing personal. (college). Now, we are starting to hang out more often. I am definitely attracted to her and I feel like she is too. Last Friday we went out to a bar that she likes a lot and had a great time. We even danced a little even though im pretty horrible at it. lol. We had a great time and the whole time she was smiling and giving me the signs of interest and what not. After that night, she was like she wants to hang out more often because she had a great time with me.


So tonight, we met up for coffee and we talked for a couple of hours. shes an EXTREMELY busy person but she said she definitely wanted to see me. Anyway, we sort of talked about our interests, plans, and little bit about our past relationships and all that great stuff. just learning more about one another. overall, another great night.


So here is my issue, where so I go from here? She texted me back and said she had a great time and was glad to see me and that she wanted to meet more like this for talks. This weekend, she is planning on going out with a couple of her friends and she has invited me to come out again. I feel i need to show her that i am indeed interested in her at this point. how do i do this? do I do this through texting with little hints here and there? Or is it still too early?? I think its definitely gonna have to be me making a move some time or another so i can find out for sure where this is headed. What do you guys think? Please be specific.


When we talked tonight, she even said that sometimes its hard cuz she does get kinda lonely even though she is so crazy busy, and i pretty much told her the same and that im looking for someone that best suits my interest and i am really liking her.





Anyway, please give me any thoughts, ideas, advice. I really appreciate it and I am sorry about the long details.





Thanks again! Guys and Girls, Please give me your input and Advice.?
it appears that she's already made the next move by inviting you out this weekend with her friends. i think she'll realize you're interested if you take her up on this offer. after that just be sure to let her know you had fun and would love to get together again soon. it seems like you're texting back and forth already so whats the issue? just keep doing what you're doing.Guys and Girls, Please give me your input and Advice.?
Since she asked you out to meet her friends let her take the lead. She is obviously interested and she sounds like a fine person. You will be on her turf and she is including you in her world. I think you will be pleased with what she comes up with
Keep up what you're doing. That way, you can keep going out and who knows what will happen.
So far it sounds like you guys have a good thing going. It seems like she may like you, but unless she says so theres no way of knowing 100%. Just stay on the path you're on and look for a few more signs that she is definitely into you. If you can't wait too long then just go for it and let her know how you feel.
Your going out with her and her friends, so as the day goes by stay attentive to her and pull her away from her friends and if things seem right, kiss her. Guess that will be a tell all.
Just go with the flow. Why rush a good thing. Good Luck!

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