Theres this guy who I've talked to a couple times in class and I like him but he's really shy and I always have to come up to him, but when I talk to him he is really nice to me and we have a great conversation. I don't want him to think I'm weird or anything since I keep coming up to him so yesterday and today I didn't and we didn't talk at all. He told me he's really quiet so how can I find out if he likes me or not? Guy advice?...shy guy I talked to a couple times..?
I'm exactly the same, i moved last year to a new school in a different state and became more shy than i thought was humanly possible and I'm on the opposite side of your situation a girl always starts the conversation but i never do. there is a good chance that he likes you just keep your eye open for little things like where he looks or if he looks at you, although he doesn't speak alot he can be thinking alot and sometime he may be thinking about you. But coming from me, i don't show emotions really at all and if he doesn't, that means only time could tell just talk to him every once in a while and you will grow on him.
- AaronGuy advice?...shy guy I talked to a couple times..?
Dont push it. Guys know what they want, and will do anything to get it even the shy ones, so I would just settle to being his friend, maybe he hasnt matured so give him some space and some time.
if hes shy it will be quite difficult for you to find out. ask him casually ';so, do you have a girl in mind ?'; and make conversation from there, about relationships ect.
wow
I have no clue....
if hes too quiet to talk to you then why bother???
you need someone whos just as chatty as you...
but if you like him alot then just keep on talking to him..
make him open up more.
well if he's that shy just ask him since u seem to be the dominate one dont be scared shy people need a push to get them going
if he is anything like me ask him out you'll make his day.
get 1 of ur friends 2 ask him 4 u
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Guys, I'm totally confused as to what my guy is saying here. idk why he is asking my advice for this. Help!!!!?
so back in like February, this guy from my school that I never talked to before started talking to me on Facebook. Then that went on for a few weeks and we finally started talking during school and by like the end of March we both liked each other. But there was this other girl that told him that she liked him. So that kinda shook the relationship between me and him. And he asked me what he should do, either go out with me or go out with her to get to know her better. Well he chose me and we ';officially'; dated til the end of school. But during the summer we ';took a break'; and haven't really seen eachother and we are both busy with work and sport camps. We still email atleast once a day. In is last email he basically asked the same thing he did in March. Whether he should date me again or go with this other girl. He also says that he wants to date one girl, but not lose the other one. And he expects me to give him advice on this. Its pretty obvious that I want him to pick me, because I defintly still like him. But idk how I'm suppose to give him advice on this. I also know that he expects me to email him about this tonight. Please help me!Guys, I'm totally confused as to what my guy is saying here. idk why he is asking my advice for this. Help!!!!?
ok heres what i say because i am going through the same exact thing
................. just tell him the truth that you still like him and you want to go out with him but be sure to mention that its up to him because or else he might think that ur being pushy
hope it turns out the way you planGuys, I'm totally confused as to what my guy is saying here. idk why he is asking my advice for this. Help!!!!?
Let me get this straight: this guy is asking you whether or not he should date you? Is he for real? He really can't make up his mind? You don't need a flake with no backbone like him. Tell him that you need a ';Man';, not a wimp, and dump him.
Just say that the other girl is very sweet but i still like u very much. Try to convince him to go with u try not to go too hard on him
Tell him the truth, i guess.. basically, you could email him the facts you outlined in that paragraph, I dunno if he'll understand though
Well, I think the first person who answered had it right. If actually has to ask you whether to date your or the other girl, he has no backbone or a brain.
Tell him date the other girl and tell him you guys can still be friends. It sucks dating an idiot. Believe me.
if he has to ask
he's not worth being the gum
under your shoe.
dump him %26amp; move on.
how long are you gonna go on this rollercoaster ride??.. it sounds like you both took a break on his agenda;; give it up;; less drama;; you'll be happier in the future if you leave yourself open for the one who WILL stick by you...as they say, plenty of fish...
I think that he is asking (in a typical male round about way) if the relationship means enough to you to want him to continue the relationship. He did it in the beginning to see if you actually liked him. It was a way of him asking you out without you being able to directly reject him. Now, eventhough it is much later, he is again feeling insecure because you guys haven't been spending that much time together and he therefore hasn't been reassured in a while. Friends e-mail, boyfriends and girlfriends hang out, at least that's how he probably sees it. If you ';defintly still like him'; tell him of course he should pick you and then spend some time together. Remind him of what you two have together.
I hope this helps.
ok heres what i say because i am going through the same exact thing
................. just tell him the truth that you still like him and you want to go out with him but be sure to mention that its up to him because or else he might think that ur being pushy
hope it turns out the way you planGuys, I'm totally confused as to what my guy is saying here. idk why he is asking my advice for this. Help!!!!?
Let me get this straight: this guy is asking you whether or not he should date you? Is he for real? He really can't make up his mind? You don't need a flake with no backbone like him. Tell him that you need a ';Man';, not a wimp, and dump him.
Just say that the other girl is very sweet but i still like u very much. Try to convince him to go with u try not to go too hard on him
Tell him the truth, i guess.. basically, you could email him the facts you outlined in that paragraph, I dunno if he'll understand though
Well, I think the first person who answered had it right. If actually has to ask you whether to date your or the other girl, he has no backbone or a brain.
Tell him date the other girl and tell him you guys can still be friends. It sucks dating an idiot. Believe me.
if he has to ask
he's not worth being the gum
under your shoe.
dump him %26amp; move on.
how long are you gonna go on this rollercoaster ride??.. it sounds like you both took a break on his agenda;; give it up;; less drama;; you'll be happier in the future if you leave yourself open for the one who WILL stick by you...as they say, plenty of fish...
I think that he is asking (in a typical male round about way) if the relationship means enough to you to want him to continue the relationship. He did it in the beginning to see if you actually liked him. It was a way of him asking you out without you being able to directly reject him. Now, eventhough it is much later, he is again feeling insecure because you guys haven't been spending that much time together and he therefore hasn't been reassured in a while. Friends e-mail, boyfriends and girlfriends hang out, at least that's how he probably sees it. If you ';defintly still like him'; tell him of course he should pick you and then spend some time together. Remind him of what you two have together.
I hope this helps.
What's in this guys head? Why does he get jealous of other guys & kiss me? what does he want? need male advice
I used to hang out in a group with this guy on weekends. After we got very close %26amp; he told me he'd never had a proper relationship %26amp; didn't know if he wanted one. But He treated me like I was his girlfriend %26amp; eventually asked me out. We went on 1 date %26amp; held hands, no kiss..but we didn't have a relationship because he couldn't decide if he wanted one.
He never tried to use me for sex all the time I was at his house and sitting on his bed. He cooked for me once, always walked me home %26amp; he told me his parents really like me
I spoke to him on msn a while ago %26amp; he said he likes a few girls, including me. He told me he's had a relationship with a girl, but it was only sex and he didn't love her %26amp; vice versa.
But now he's kissed me after we saw eachother in the street...just came out %26amp; kissed me when we hugged to say hello. We kissed a few times after %26amp; hugged me lots %26amp; called me this nickname he's said to me before. He's also told his close friends about it.
I am so confusedWhat's in this guys head? Why does he get jealous of other guys %26amp; kiss me? what does he want? need male advice
confused about what? The guy's a player...cool! I bet his friends are gonna hit on ya soon too if he's talked about how easy it is you crush.What's in this guys head? Why does he get jealous of other guys %26amp; kiss me? what does he want? need male advice
he doesn't know what he wants but he's more interested in impressing his friends than anything else.
forget about him and find someone who does know what they want and can clearly communicate it to you.
He is absolutely petrified about rejection. Trust me.
For some guys it is devistating to think that he may not be lovable. There are enormous insecurities involved her. Thats maybe where you come in. Make it really easy for him.
Firstly Do you like him. What are your intentions?
You can make a move on him. Tell him what to do boss him around a little, Throw the Symbolic leg over!
Do you understand how much of his time he has spent building up the courage to kiss you. If you like him than you and proabably no one else right now can cure him. Make a man of him. Im not saying bonk him without thought, but be a little forward and make him make the move.
Tell him to tell you everything, not to be afraid, you want to know why he is AFRAID to have a girlfriend. (he probably had some really uncomfortable experience in the past)
Women think that Men are all about sex, which admittedly we think about often, but the real gems the great lovers and partners are much more complicated. Break down those emotional barriers he has constructed, Find his core. Tell him him you want to get as close to him as you can.
There are proabably a whole host of emotional reasons, with family, his parents relationship, that makes things difficult. IS HE the OLDest child? Get back to me on some of this stuff if you wish.
The Nickname, means he is starting to get confident, Give him a flirty smile and reward him, brush his shoulder when he does this, he'll chase you.
men need our women, to help us make sense of our feelings, it can really make or break him. Figure his puzzle out. I think he might be worth it.
I think hes actually a really nice guy. I think that maybe his friends are a bit of peer pressure to come across as a player. I think hes confused about keeping up apearance %26amp; being a nice guy. He is still young at heart. Maybe he wants to be serious but thinks hes too young or moving too fast!? I don't think he knows himself. Hes still exploring. Maybe keep him as a close friend for the time being %26amp; talk with him to find out where hes at! I think he has a soft spot deep down. But if you are still interested I'd 'keep the leash a little short'. Not too short like jealous short! Its just that if he keeps changing his mind, he may eventually hurt you if you keep letting him back into your life %26amp; letting him change his mind all the time! He either wants to be with you or he doesnt! He better be sure to make his mind up soon! Not everyone has the patience to wait arond all day!
You have run into a male defense mechcanism. It is a facade. Here is the problem. Yes, he wants a relationship. Having no experiece but not wanting to appear igornant in from of the object of his affection, he maintains the pitifull attempt at the thin veneer of the facade. If you are interested enough, you have to be the instigator but not too forward for this will scare him also. Demanding honesty and straight answers will go a long way. Listen to what he says, if it sounds lame face him with it, everytime. He has to reach the point he will be confortable in trusting you, the situation,etc. Being overly affectionate at this stage is not the ticket but helps in modicum amounts. Assurance is what this turkey really needs. He does not trust himself, is afraid of making mistakes.black lipstick
He never tried to use me for sex all the time I was at his house and sitting on his bed. He cooked for me once, always walked me home %26amp; he told me his parents really like me
I spoke to him on msn a while ago %26amp; he said he likes a few girls, including me. He told me he's had a relationship with a girl, but it was only sex and he didn't love her %26amp; vice versa.
But now he's kissed me after we saw eachother in the street...just came out %26amp; kissed me when we hugged to say hello. We kissed a few times after %26amp; hugged me lots %26amp; called me this nickname he's said to me before. He's also told his close friends about it.
I am so confusedWhat's in this guys head? Why does he get jealous of other guys %26amp; kiss me? what does he want? need male advice
confused about what? The guy's a player...cool! I bet his friends are gonna hit on ya soon too if he's talked about how easy it is you crush.What's in this guys head? Why does he get jealous of other guys %26amp; kiss me? what does he want? need male advice
he doesn't know what he wants but he's more interested in impressing his friends than anything else.
forget about him and find someone who does know what they want and can clearly communicate it to you.
He is absolutely petrified about rejection. Trust me.
For some guys it is devistating to think that he may not be lovable. There are enormous insecurities involved her. Thats maybe where you come in. Make it really easy for him.
Firstly Do you like him. What are your intentions?
You can make a move on him. Tell him what to do boss him around a little, Throw the Symbolic leg over!
Do you understand how much of his time he has spent building up the courage to kiss you. If you like him than you and proabably no one else right now can cure him. Make a man of him. Im not saying bonk him without thought, but be a little forward and make him make the move.
Tell him to tell you everything, not to be afraid, you want to know why he is AFRAID to have a girlfriend. (he probably had some really uncomfortable experience in the past)
Women think that Men are all about sex, which admittedly we think about often, but the real gems the great lovers and partners are much more complicated. Break down those emotional barriers he has constructed, Find his core. Tell him him you want to get as close to him as you can.
There are proabably a whole host of emotional reasons, with family, his parents relationship, that makes things difficult. IS HE the OLDest child? Get back to me on some of this stuff if you wish.
The Nickname, means he is starting to get confident, Give him a flirty smile and reward him, brush his shoulder when he does this, he'll chase you.
men need our women, to help us make sense of our feelings, it can really make or break him. Figure his puzzle out. I think he might be worth it.
I think hes actually a really nice guy. I think that maybe his friends are a bit of peer pressure to come across as a player. I think hes confused about keeping up apearance %26amp; being a nice guy. He is still young at heart. Maybe he wants to be serious but thinks hes too young or moving too fast!? I don't think he knows himself. Hes still exploring. Maybe keep him as a close friend for the time being %26amp; talk with him to find out where hes at! I think he has a soft spot deep down. But if you are still interested I'd 'keep the leash a little short'. Not too short like jealous short! Its just that if he keeps changing his mind, he may eventually hurt you if you keep letting him back into your life %26amp; letting him change his mind all the time! He either wants to be with you or he doesnt! He better be sure to make his mind up soon! Not everyone has the patience to wait arond all day!
You have run into a male defense mechcanism. It is a facade. Here is the problem. Yes, he wants a relationship. Having no experiece but not wanting to appear igornant in from of the object of his affection, he maintains the pitifull attempt at the thin veneer of the facade. If you are interested enough, you have to be the instigator but not too forward for this will scare him also. Demanding honesty and straight answers will go a long way. Listen to what he says, if it sounds lame face him with it, everytime. He has to reach the point he will be confortable in trusting you, the situation,etc. Being overly affectionate at this stage is not the ticket but helps in modicum amounts. Assurance is what this turkey really needs. He does not trust himself, is afraid of making mistakes.
Hey guys this is a question about stomach ulcer's! Need advice...?
Hey guys and girls...i need a little advice, ok my girlfriend has been having really bad stomach pains over the last month and a half...and it's usually only after she eats...and i was thinking it was stomach ulcer's but im really not sure. But anyway the pain is usually above her belly button, and on her upper left side. It's really starting to worry me...because her parents don't have the money to get it checked and she doesn't have insureance...so she's just been dealing with and i can't stand to see her in pain...so if anybody has any advice or know what the symptoms are please let me know. Thanks alot!Hey guys this is a question about stomach ulcer's! Need advice...?
could be her bowel that's acting up or an ulcer could be lots of things that's why she has to go see a doctor for ulcer's there are lots of good medications now Nexium is great cost a lot though get her to a clinic for test!
could be her bowel that's acting up or an ulcer could be lots of things that's why she has to go see a doctor for ulcer's there are lots of good medications now Nexium is great cost a lot though get her to a clinic for test!
I need some advice on what i should do about liking two guys at the same time?
Ok. there's this guy at school, and he really like me, he's even told me that, and i kinda like him. but there's this other guy that i have been friends with for a while, and i also like him. i don't know what to do. the guy from school is sweet, and nice, but my friend doesn't really take much notice, only sometimes when we talk, he might flirt around a little bit. thats about it, but yet i still like him.and i am too scared to ask my friend if he likes meI need some advice on what i should do about liking two guys at the same time?
if your friend just flirts around with you and that's it, he doesn't really seem your type. (unless you're into the flirty business) i would give the other guy who's sweet a chance.
if your friend just flirts around with you and that's it, he doesn't really seem your type. (unless you're into the flirty business) i would give the other guy who's sweet a chance.
Do guys really like big boobs? Do I have to watch out?advice..?
I'm going into high school this Monday, and just went to orientation on Thursday. I went with my older sister (22). She was telling me to watch out in high school because I don't look like a freshmen( because most have flatter chest and smaller hips/butt) So like older guys might come onto me because I have a ';senior'; body( I just turned 15). I wear like a 36C bra and I kind of have a little more junk than most :SIf I don't watch out they'll use me. Just as we were walking down the hall as she was telling me, two REALLY tall guys turned their heads and stared at us(me? idk) Then she was like ';see what I'm talking about?) I guess I dress like a senior too because I also have a senior sister and we shop at the same stores...
I really have a hard time believing her lol because I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed or anything like that. But all my soon to be teachers kept asking me what grade I was in(I'm taking sophomore classes) when I said 9th they look kind of surprised :(.My gym teacher told me my shorts were too short (wth they covered my *** cheeks...)
What I wanted to know if she was really serious? Because I'm super short. I'm 5'3 but I'm the same height as my sister(senior) My older sister said I could just be a short senior or something. Would anybody really be that shallow? I just want some opinions.
Thanks for reading/answering.Do guys really like big boobs? Do I have to watch out?advice..?
Yes, guys are really that shallow. Just be careful, i believe your sister is doing the right thing by giving you advice.. listen to her %26amp; go to her with all your problems. She sounds smart.
P.S
Get longer shorts.. you don't want your gym teacher harrassin you about your shorts all day, trust me -_- i know.
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do guys really like big boobs? Do I have to watch out?advice..?
Ima freshman too, and I think boobs are awesome.Hahaa, but dont worry about your teachers.Go to school being yourself and get educated, dont worry bout what the teachers think about you. And about the guys, be proud of yourself, your beautiful and you are attractive. So good luck.:)
I had the same problem. Us well endowed girls tend to look older than we are because all they see is chest. But its not true. Senior guys don't like freshmen girls. They might when they see you but when you tell them how old you are they'll leave you alone.
unfortunatly hate to say it but guys are gonna love you BUT don't bother with them b/c they are shallow you don't want a guy who only wants you for your body-sweetie good luck oh and get longer gym shorts
Yes! upper classmen probably will hit on you alot, you just have to be smart and handle it well
its a personal preference. I LOVE MY GF's 32C's. they are just the PERFECT size, not too little not too much.
yea guys r really like that it doesnt matter how u look to them all they want is ur body
High school guy like girls, any kind of girl. High school guys also like sex. So all they are going to see is boobs and butts, and think sex. The older guys are going to see that you are young and stupid and they will take advantage of you. I not calling you stupid stupid, but stupid in the way of love, and smooth talking guys. I keep saying guys but they are boys. Guys don't care about boob size. Boys are going to flock to the girls that are blessed.
I really have a hard time believing her lol because I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed or anything like that. But all my soon to be teachers kept asking me what grade I was in(I'm taking sophomore classes) when I said 9th they look kind of surprised :(.My gym teacher told me my shorts were too short (wth they covered my *** cheeks...)
What I wanted to know if she was really serious? Because I'm super short. I'm 5'3 but I'm the same height as my sister(senior) My older sister said I could just be a short senior or something. Would anybody really be that shallow? I just want some opinions.
Thanks for reading/answering.Do guys really like big boobs? Do I have to watch out?advice..?
Yes, guys are really that shallow. Just be careful, i believe your sister is doing the right thing by giving you advice.. listen to her %26amp; go to her with all your problems. She sounds smart.
P.S
Get longer shorts.. you don't want your gym teacher harrassin you about your shorts all day, trust me -_- i know.
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do guys really like big boobs? Do I have to watch out?advice..?
Ima freshman too, and I think boobs are awesome.Hahaa, but dont worry about your teachers.Go to school being yourself and get educated, dont worry bout what the teachers think about you. And about the guys, be proud of yourself, your beautiful and you are attractive. So good luck.:)
I had the same problem. Us well endowed girls tend to look older than we are because all they see is chest. But its not true. Senior guys don't like freshmen girls. They might when they see you but when you tell them how old you are they'll leave you alone.
unfortunatly hate to say it but guys are gonna love you BUT don't bother with them b/c they are shallow you don't want a guy who only wants you for your body-sweetie good luck oh and get longer gym shorts
Yes! upper classmen probably will hit on you alot, you just have to be smart and handle it well
its a personal preference. I LOVE MY GF's 32C's. they are just the PERFECT size, not too little not too much.
yea guys r really like that it doesnt matter how u look to them all they want is ur body
High school guy like girls, any kind of girl. High school guys also like sex. So all they are going to see is boobs and butts, and think sex. The older guys are going to see that you are young and stupid and they will take advantage of you. I not calling you stupid stupid, but stupid in the way of love, and smooth talking guys. I keep saying guys but they are boys. Guys don't care about boob size. Boys are going to flock to the girls that are blessed.
Guy help!! Guy advice preferred, girls can answer too?
So i like this guy but i want to find out if he likes me too, his friends say he does but im not sure if i can trust them...so how can i ask him without being to straight forward or what ever???
Guys...opinion please!Guy help!! Guy advice preferred, girls can answer too?
I think he would want you to be straight forward, if you see something you like, Go for it!!!
Guys...opinion please!Guy help!! Guy advice preferred, girls can answer too?
I think he would want you to be straight forward, if you see something you like, Go for it!!!
OK guys, I know this has gone around a lot before. Basically I just want some advice. I need to get away fro
m my boyfriend. He has cheated on me, has a kid, stole my credit card numbers and lies to me constantly. I'm ready to walk away but every time I try it hurts sooooo bad. I just want someone to know what I am going through and just give me some support or something. What should I do because I seriously feel like I can't live without him but I know I have to walk away.(This has bee going on for two years)ANything will help pleaseOK guys, I know this has gone around a lot before. Basically I just want some advice. I need to get away fro
call and cancel your credit card.
hum-----this sort of I can't live without you sort of love REALLY isn't LOVE. It is obcession and control. Many or most of u s have someone we passionatly love but can't be with. You can't be with him.
It will hurt./ but it will hurt more if you stay. This is a maturity thing.
Learn to walk away no matter how you feel.
I know exactually what you are going through. And you gotta do what you gotta do!! Be strong and firm.
If you stay with him you will regret it. He will hurt you over and over again. You will feel used and betrayed.
He chooses girls he can control and demean. And he just hopes that he finds a girl tha will put up with him.
Don't be that girl. You are worth more!OK guys, I know this has gone around a lot before. Basically I just want some advice. I need to get away fro
You have my complete support.
I hate to say it but it fits...You have to break the egg to make an omelette.
It's gonna hurt and hurt for a while. Nobody likes to break off a relationship. He is totally taking advantage of you.
There is someone out there that will treat you like you deserve, you just have to step away. Maybe there's another guy nearby that is just waiting for you to resolve this so he can make a move.
Dang, you must like him, but he's not gonna change, so try to find so one else t be around and just change your number and make it clear you don't want to be around him.
He sounds like a user and he has had 2 years of using you. Dump him girl there are better guys out there
yes, you make the most sense of many women here, because you know that you need to walk away. do just that. if he makes an issue, 2 words...
Restraining Order
Everytime he does something unbefitting of a 'loving partner' write it down in your journal. Be raw, be real and leave out nothing as to how you feel in your soul. Gradually, (or maybe not so gradually) you will get a collection. Then when you have yourself set up (new credit cards, new apartment, strength) make your move. When ever you need reassurance as to what he is really like, or the reasons you left, read that journal. If you really need visuals, the next time you are crying your eyes out over something he has said or done, take a photo of yourself on your cell phone. Then, when you want to go back to that ***, look at the photo and remember how it really feels to be 'loved' by him.
You are love sick for the wrong person. Believe me I know how this feels. You simply need the tools to free yourself. I suggest among other things practicing the art of being present. You feel you need him because you are addicted to love. Love fills a void in your life. If you can master the art of being present you will be filled with a spiritual knowing that will release you from all this pain.
If I may suggest a book go buy a book called the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. He to knew what extreme pain felt like. If you take his words seriously and practice every day I would be willing to bet dollars to donuts that you will find solace...
For now, especially when you are in pain draw your attention back to your breath. By doing so it helps you to get out of your head and back down through your body to connect to the earth. Keep practicing no matter what and you will find the strength to leave this jerk.
You are among friends and if you every need extra love and support feel free to e-mail me and I will give you whatever strength I have learned in this life.
May the long time sun shine upon you, all love surround you, and the pure light within you, guide your way on.
Basically, any person with an ounce of self respect and dignity can only be taken advantage of and made to look the fool for so long. My advise to you is to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. There are a lot of opportunities out there for someone if they have the strength to close door #1 and opt to open door #2
i feel so bad for you. i hope my advice helps. i know it hurts to just walk away from something after you've had it for so long. you will eventually get over him and find someone new. ask your friends if they know anybody good who's single. maybe even go to an internet dating service. to help feel better, go on an out of town shopping trip with your best friends and eat a lot of junk food. good luck!!!
What your in is a sick relationship. He has shot you ego so far down that you believe you deserve someone like him. Trust me cause Ive been there. I stayed in my relationship for 6 years before I got the nerve to walk away for good. But once you do it , and please believe me when I say this, that time will heal your heart. You need supportive people around you that can keep you busy so you won't dwell on thinking about him. I know what your going through. Please take my advice and get away from him you deserve so much better. Good Luck
It's going to hurt, thats enevitable. All relationships hurt at the end. Just stop putting it off and start living your life without this dead weight. Life will go on without him. It may not seem so at the beginning, but give it time, it's gets easier. There is a whole world of guys (and girls... whatever floats your boat) out there willing to treat you with the respect, love and attention you deserve. You'll find happiness I promise.
Have u talked too him
Just dump him. What is so difficult about dumping a guy who has no respect for you?
Why are you making it so difficult.?
He doesn't deserve you, just dump him, forget him!!!!!
I know it hurts bad, but speaking from experience, the only thing that will help you get stronger is time away from him. You have to be the strong one here and walk away. When he calls, don't answer...when he comes over, send him away. He has done you very wrong and you don't deserve this. I know it is hard to see right now, but I promise you...as time passes you will get stronger mentally each day, and one day, sooner than you think, you will wake up and think ';I can't believe I didn't leave him sooner';. Everything will be fine, just leave him. Good luck.
Sounds like you are glutting for punishment He is a loser and he is bring you down with him. Girl they are many many out there that don't and wont do that I know they are far and few between but patience ,PATIENCE,Would you still love him if he got your check book? and sold everything you own?You are on the right track NOW RUN ..... RUN FAT DONT LOOK BACK YEA!!!!!Keep going the longer you take the harder it is, been there done that!!!!!
call and cancel your credit card.
hum-----this sort of I can't live without you sort of love REALLY isn't LOVE. It is obcession and control. Many or most of u s have someone we passionatly love but can't be with. You can't be with him.
It will hurt./ but it will hurt more if you stay. This is a maturity thing.
Learn to walk away no matter how you feel.
I know exactually what you are going through. And you gotta do what you gotta do!! Be strong and firm.
If you stay with him you will regret it. He will hurt you over and over again. You will feel used and betrayed.
He chooses girls he can control and demean. And he just hopes that he finds a girl tha will put up with him.
Don't be that girl. You are worth more!OK guys, I know this has gone around a lot before. Basically I just want some advice. I need to get away fro
You have my complete support.
I hate to say it but it fits...You have to break the egg to make an omelette.
It's gonna hurt and hurt for a while. Nobody likes to break off a relationship. He is totally taking advantage of you.
There is someone out there that will treat you like you deserve, you just have to step away. Maybe there's another guy nearby that is just waiting for you to resolve this so he can make a move.
Dang, you must like him, but he's not gonna change, so try to find so one else t be around and just change your number and make it clear you don't want to be around him.
He sounds like a user and he has had 2 years of using you. Dump him girl there are better guys out there
yes, you make the most sense of many women here, because you know that you need to walk away. do just that. if he makes an issue, 2 words...
Restraining Order
Everytime he does something unbefitting of a 'loving partner' write it down in your journal. Be raw, be real and leave out nothing as to how you feel in your soul. Gradually, (or maybe not so gradually) you will get a collection. Then when you have yourself set up (new credit cards, new apartment, strength) make your move. When ever you need reassurance as to what he is really like, or the reasons you left, read that journal. If you really need visuals, the next time you are crying your eyes out over something he has said or done, take a photo of yourself on your cell phone. Then, when you want to go back to that ***, look at the photo and remember how it really feels to be 'loved' by him.
You are love sick for the wrong person. Believe me I know how this feels. You simply need the tools to free yourself. I suggest among other things practicing the art of being present. You feel you need him because you are addicted to love. Love fills a void in your life. If you can master the art of being present you will be filled with a spiritual knowing that will release you from all this pain.
If I may suggest a book go buy a book called the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. He to knew what extreme pain felt like. If you take his words seriously and practice every day I would be willing to bet dollars to donuts that you will find solace...
For now, especially when you are in pain draw your attention back to your breath. By doing so it helps you to get out of your head and back down through your body to connect to the earth. Keep practicing no matter what and you will find the strength to leave this jerk.
You are among friends and if you every need extra love and support feel free to e-mail me and I will give you whatever strength I have learned in this life.
May the long time sun shine upon you, all love surround you, and the pure light within you, guide your way on.
Basically, any person with an ounce of self respect and dignity can only be taken advantage of and made to look the fool for so long. My advise to you is to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. There are a lot of opportunities out there for someone if they have the strength to close door #1 and opt to open door #2
i feel so bad for you. i hope my advice helps. i know it hurts to just walk away from something after you've had it for so long. you will eventually get over him and find someone new. ask your friends if they know anybody good who's single. maybe even go to an internet dating service. to help feel better, go on an out of town shopping trip with your best friends and eat a lot of junk food. good luck!!!
What your in is a sick relationship. He has shot you ego so far down that you believe you deserve someone like him. Trust me cause Ive been there. I stayed in my relationship for 6 years before I got the nerve to walk away for good. But once you do it , and please believe me when I say this, that time will heal your heart. You need supportive people around you that can keep you busy so you won't dwell on thinking about him. I know what your going through. Please take my advice and get away from him you deserve so much better. Good Luck
It's going to hurt, thats enevitable. All relationships hurt at the end. Just stop putting it off and start living your life without this dead weight. Life will go on without him. It may not seem so at the beginning, but give it time, it's gets easier. There is a whole world of guys (and girls... whatever floats your boat) out there willing to treat you with the respect, love and attention you deserve. You'll find happiness I promise.
Have u talked too him
Just dump him. What is so difficult about dumping a guy who has no respect for you?
Why are you making it so difficult.?
He doesn't deserve you, just dump him, forget him!!!!!
I know it hurts bad, but speaking from experience, the only thing that will help you get stronger is time away from him. You have to be the strong one here and walk away. When he calls, don't answer...when he comes over, send him away. He has done you very wrong and you don't deserve this. I know it is hard to see right now, but I promise you...as time passes you will get stronger mentally each day, and one day, sooner than you think, you will wake up and think ';I can't believe I didn't leave him sooner';. Everything will be fine, just leave him. Good luck.
Sounds like you are glutting for punishment He is a loser and he is bring you down with him. Girl they are many many out there that don't and wont do that I know they are far and few between but patience ,PATIENCE,Would you still love him if he got your check book? and sold everything you own?You are on the right track NOW RUN ..... RUN FAT DONT LOOK BACK YEA!!!!!Keep going the longer you take the harder it is, been there done that!!!!!
I beg you guys please help me. I beg uu. Please..Please...Please .. I am desperate for some help and advice?
I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help meI beg you guys please help me. I beg uu. Please..Please...Please .. I am desperate for some help and advice?
Admitting that you are hurt is the first step in moving on. You have every reason to feel hurt, she dumped you, and led you on. You must also accept that you made assumptions, like she had moved on if she told you he wants to get back together with her, but that also appears to mean that she was also thinking about getting back with him.
The relationship was short between the two of you, and in that sense it was a good thing... imagine if she had told you this a year from now, and that she had been cheating on you during that time? That doen't minimize your feelings.
The pain will pass, you have to give credit to your feelings, accept them, and then put them aside and move on. Another rule of thumb that has been effective for me, is no dating for 6 months after a break up, from either side... that way it lowers the chances of a bounce back realtionship.
When you see her, don't give into your negative feelings, accept that things didn't work out, that you are better off, and don't give her any more power over you by letting her hurt you more... for example if she starts playing games about wanting to be friends with you or hang out, or start dating you again... she had she chance, she made her decision and she blew it. There will be more women in your life, more love and pain, and unfortunately, you can't experience one without the other.
Good luck, and try to just pass by or not look at her too much when you notice her... and that will also empower you and let her know that you are doing just fine without someone who can't make a commitment and stick with it.I beg you guys please help me. I beg uu. Please..Please...Please .. I am desperate for some help and advice?
Wow, that really sucks. I would just tell her something like this:
I don't want you to go because I think there is something special between us and I really enjoy being with you. However, I know you can make your own decisions, so if you want to do something else, then I'll just have to accept it. I probaby won't like it or agree with it, but you are in charge of your own life and decisions.
That's it. I wouldn't add anything else. If she wants to go, let her go. There is nothing you can do to stop her if she really wants to leave. Constantly trying to maker her stay will probalby just push her away more anyways.
So I'm sorry to hear about the situation. My advice is to move on and don't look back.
Well..most of us have been through the same kind of pain. It will take time, but it WILL go away. I know that it seems like it won't, but it will. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy. Don't dwell on it. When you see her you need to ignore her. Don't be rude, just act like she doesn't exist.
Call her cuss her out. Change your number and ignore her. If she tries to talk to you tell her to **** off. Don't talk to her. Pretend she is dead to you. Don't forgive her. The pain will go away it just takes time.
listen do this see if it work for u tell her that u understand that she have move on let her no your feeling tell her you respect her chose in respect it but you wish that she would had let u no before your your feeling got involve with her then leave this statement with them her heart i thought u was different from all women i guess i was wrong them walk away
girls sometimes do that, you know. they become so indecisive about a lot of things. but don't let it get to you that much. you just have to move on. you can try not talking to her or steering clear from her in the first few weeks just to get it off your chest. but eventually, everything will be OK. i assure you. then when everything's ok, you can start talking to her.
you can also try going out with other girls, too. but make sure the dates stay friendly at best. that way, you do not get totally poisoned girls. they can be really nice, too.
Getting over a relationship breakup is like losing a drug addiction. You need to have absolutely no contact (try not even thinking about her) for 3 weeks. After you have proved to yourself that you can still live without her, you pain will gradually subside.
It is clear that she has established a longer relationship with this other individual. 2 months investment will not cut it for her, but I guess it did for you. I suggest that you move on. It looks like the older relationship has a advantage...As the saying goes: ';There are more bigger fish in the sea';. Good luck...
#1 She used you.
#2 Get rid of her NOW.
That's putting it simply,
Now for the explanation:
She still has strong feelings for her ex, and never really had closure even though she told you she did. She went with you on the rebound. .
The handwriting is on the wall, her ex wants her back and she has feelings for him. They will definitely reconcile, and go back to each other.
For your own sake, you should tell her that you can't continue with her anymore because she still has feelings for her ex., and her ex still want to get back with her.
Just be glad that your relationship(which never really was) was only 2 months. Look at it this way what if she led you on for 6 or 7 months. You were used, and that is disgusting of her. Why would you want a girl that used you just to make her ex jealous. Your not thinking with your head, your thinking with your emotions.
She is going to break up with you anyway very soon. If you don't break up with her you will have double trouble. The pain that you feel because you are so obsessed and care for her. And the pain of your ego being hurt. That pain is much worse, because you lost your pride.
So behave like a man, and just do it. Move on. Your relationship is over already and you know it also, but you are in denial. She is just going through the motions with you. So when you get dumped the pain you feel will devistating.
Time heals all wounds, and eventually you will look back at it as a really bad bout with the flu.
it's hard but doable u need to put one thing in your mind that she used u as a tool to get her boyfreind back and after that she threw u out keep that in mind each time u see here think about here or any thing from here side and you will be fine
i understand wot u feeling...me and my bf of over a year broke up yesterday...it really broke my heart...i think u should just try to get over her coz it seemed like u were the rebound 4 her like a comfort when she needed one and now she doesnt...u should try to find some one who will love u exactly how u love them so its equal...i found out the hard way :(...
Think of it this way, you only knew her for 2 months and she was doing stuff behind your back, telling you one thing and doing another. Now imagine being with her for many years of marriage and she went back to her ex. At least you two didn't accumulate a lot of things, except for your emotional scars. Now be happy that you will no longer have to deal with her and her hurting you. You, my friend, should count your blessings that that's all she did.
You can't force anybody to love you or meet you. When she doesn't care for you then why do you care for her. Life is long. Keep on going. You will find millions of girls ahead. Don't let her cover your heart. If she loves you she will come back to you.
Last week my girl friend married a rich man and yesterday I got a new one. Don't get hurt for any girl man. Life is once. Live it in enjoyment ................
-----forget her----time will be the only thing to ease the pain---don;t let her use you again------
That would hurt, but you should move on. If she tries to come back to you, tell her that she was right about the conflicts, but those conflicts also incluce her going back to her ex, and not being honest with you about any issues you both had together.
Time.
Dump her and forget about her. She might just be using you to get at her ex. Better quality stuff out there.
it's hard but if i were you i will make her jealous by dating another girl..hehe,,
Put a period. Move on.
i know its hard buddy girls can be cruel too...u have to realize that she never stoped caring about him. Truth hurts. But let me tell u something, a man will never lose in these types of situations.. You have to have to remember that u are the man and no female is gonna bring u down... she played u . And she lied to u but, she is just another female so it doesnt matter..they are a lot of them out there ...trust me .. just remember no female can bring u down ...EVER!
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. I would lay it out for her, everything you want in a relationship. She can take it or leave it. Which in turn means she either settles with being exclusively with you or she's out of the picture.
If you stay with her, trust is going to be a major issue.
If you dont, good for you! Be strong.
BTW, why did someone give a lot of good answers thumbs down?
Dude, I feel sorry for you, but you gotta look at it this way. You only dated her for 2 months! Just be glad you found this out now rather than 20 years later! You will be able to move on with time. In the meantime, go out with your friends, find a new hobby, take a vacation far away, and start dating someone else. Whatever you do, don't take her back. She will just do the same thing to you again, and it will be a vicious cycle with you getting hurt again and again. Good luck!
I know how you feel. Dont give her the satisfaction of knowing that your hurt. She should of been honest from the start. When you feel that way let that person go if they come back fine, if not then thats because something better is in store for you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder :)black lipstick
Admitting that you are hurt is the first step in moving on. You have every reason to feel hurt, she dumped you, and led you on. You must also accept that you made assumptions, like she had moved on if she told you he wants to get back together with her, but that also appears to mean that she was also thinking about getting back with him.
The relationship was short between the two of you, and in that sense it was a good thing... imagine if she had told you this a year from now, and that she had been cheating on you during that time? That doen't minimize your feelings.
The pain will pass, you have to give credit to your feelings, accept them, and then put them aside and move on. Another rule of thumb that has been effective for me, is no dating for 6 months after a break up, from either side... that way it lowers the chances of a bounce back realtionship.
When you see her, don't give into your negative feelings, accept that things didn't work out, that you are better off, and don't give her any more power over you by letting her hurt you more... for example if she starts playing games about wanting to be friends with you or hang out, or start dating you again... she had she chance, she made her decision and she blew it. There will be more women in your life, more love and pain, and unfortunately, you can't experience one without the other.
Good luck, and try to just pass by or not look at her too much when you notice her... and that will also empower you and let her know that you are doing just fine without someone who can't make a commitment and stick with it.I beg you guys please help me. I beg uu. Please..Please...Please .. I am desperate for some help and advice?
Wow, that really sucks. I would just tell her something like this:
I don't want you to go because I think there is something special between us and I really enjoy being with you. However, I know you can make your own decisions, so if you want to do something else, then I'll just have to accept it. I probaby won't like it or agree with it, but you are in charge of your own life and decisions.
That's it. I wouldn't add anything else. If she wants to go, let her go. There is nothing you can do to stop her if she really wants to leave. Constantly trying to maker her stay will probalby just push her away more anyways.
So I'm sorry to hear about the situation. My advice is to move on and don't look back.
Well..most of us have been through the same kind of pain. It will take time, but it WILL go away. I know that it seems like it won't, but it will. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy. Don't dwell on it. When you see her you need to ignore her. Don't be rude, just act like she doesn't exist.
Call her cuss her out. Change your number and ignore her. If she tries to talk to you tell her to **** off. Don't talk to her. Pretend she is dead to you. Don't forgive her. The pain will go away it just takes time.
listen do this see if it work for u tell her that u understand that she have move on let her no your feeling tell her you respect her chose in respect it but you wish that she would had let u no before your your feeling got involve with her then leave this statement with them her heart i thought u was different from all women i guess i was wrong them walk away
girls sometimes do that, you know. they become so indecisive about a lot of things. but don't let it get to you that much. you just have to move on. you can try not talking to her or steering clear from her in the first few weeks just to get it off your chest. but eventually, everything will be OK. i assure you. then when everything's ok, you can start talking to her.
you can also try going out with other girls, too. but make sure the dates stay friendly at best. that way, you do not get totally poisoned girls. they can be really nice, too.
Getting over a relationship breakup is like losing a drug addiction. You need to have absolutely no contact (try not even thinking about her) for 3 weeks. After you have proved to yourself that you can still live without her, you pain will gradually subside.
It is clear that she has established a longer relationship with this other individual. 2 months investment will not cut it for her, but I guess it did for you. I suggest that you move on. It looks like the older relationship has a advantage...As the saying goes: ';There are more bigger fish in the sea';. Good luck...
#1 She used you.
#2 Get rid of her NOW.
That's putting it simply,
Now for the explanation:
She still has strong feelings for her ex, and never really had closure even though she told you she did. She went with you on the rebound. .
The handwriting is on the wall, her ex wants her back and she has feelings for him. They will definitely reconcile, and go back to each other.
For your own sake, you should tell her that you can't continue with her anymore because she still has feelings for her ex., and her ex still want to get back with her.
Just be glad that your relationship(which never really was) was only 2 months. Look at it this way what if she led you on for 6 or 7 months. You were used, and that is disgusting of her. Why would you want a girl that used you just to make her ex jealous. Your not thinking with your head, your thinking with your emotions.
She is going to break up with you anyway very soon. If you don't break up with her you will have double trouble. The pain that you feel because you are so obsessed and care for her. And the pain of your ego being hurt. That pain is much worse, because you lost your pride.
So behave like a man, and just do it. Move on. Your relationship is over already and you know it also, but you are in denial. She is just going through the motions with you. So when you get dumped the pain you feel will devistating.
Time heals all wounds, and eventually you will look back at it as a really bad bout with the flu.
it's hard but doable u need to put one thing in your mind that she used u as a tool to get her boyfreind back and after that she threw u out keep that in mind each time u see here think about here or any thing from here side and you will be fine
i understand wot u feeling...me and my bf of over a year broke up yesterday...it really broke my heart...i think u should just try to get over her coz it seemed like u were the rebound 4 her like a comfort when she needed one and now she doesnt...u should try to find some one who will love u exactly how u love them so its equal...i found out the hard way :(...
Think of it this way, you only knew her for 2 months and she was doing stuff behind your back, telling you one thing and doing another. Now imagine being with her for many years of marriage and she went back to her ex. At least you two didn't accumulate a lot of things, except for your emotional scars. Now be happy that you will no longer have to deal with her and her hurting you. You, my friend, should count your blessings that that's all she did.
You can't force anybody to love you or meet you. When she doesn't care for you then why do you care for her. Life is long. Keep on going. You will find millions of girls ahead. Don't let her cover your heart. If she loves you she will come back to you.
Last week my girl friend married a rich man and yesterday I got a new one. Don't get hurt for any girl man. Life is once. Live it in enjoyment ................
-----forget her----time will be the only thing to ease the pain---don;t let her use you again------
That would hurt, but you should move on. If she tries to come back to you, tell her that she was right about the conflicts, but those conflicts also incluce her going back to her ex, and not being honest with you about any issues you both had together.
Time.
Dump her and forget about her. She might just be using you to get at her ex. Better quality stuff out there.
it's hard but if i were you i will make her jealous by dating another girl..hehe,,
Put a period. Move on.
i know its hard buddy girls can be cruel too...u have to realize that she never stoped caring about him. Truth hurts. But let me tell u something, a man will never lose in these types of situations.. You have to have to remember that u are the man and no female is gonna bring u down... she played u . And she lied to u but, she is just another female so it doesnt matter..they are a lot of them out there ...trust me .. just remember no female can bring u down ...EVER!
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. I would lay it out for her, everything you want in a relationship. She can take it or leave it. Which in turn means she either settles with being exclusively with you or she's out of the picture.
If you stay with her, trust is going to be a major issue.
If you dont, good for you! Be strong.
BTW, why did someone give a lot of good answers thumbs down?
Dude, I feel sorry for you, but you gotta look at it this way. You only dated her for 2 months! Just be glad you found this out now rather than 20 years later! You will be able to move on with time. In the meantime, go out with your friends, find a new hobby, take a vacation far away, and start dating someone else. Whatever you do, don't take her back. She will just do the same thing to you again, and it will be a vicious cycle with you getting hurt again and again. Good luck!
I know how you feel. Dont give her the satisfaction of knowing that your hurt. She should of been honest from the start. When you feel that way let that person go if they come back fine, if not then thats because something better is in store for you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder :)
Guys wen u meet a girl for the first time, wut attracts? her touching ur arm, her eyes? her boobs? any advice?
what attracts me first is if she smiles which lets me know shes abit intrested atleastGuys wen u meet a girl for the first time, wut attracts? her touching ur arm, her eyes? her boobs? any advice?
her heart
her heart
Guys: DO U THINK THIS IS NORMAL?10 POINTS FOR BEST ADVICE!THANKS!!!?
I went out with this guy for our first date on Tuesday. he hasn't called until now. do u guys prefer to wait a few days like 3 days before u call the girl?
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I think the date went pretty well.He asked me out 3 days after he got my number. Does he probably follow the 3 days rule?
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank uGuys: DO U THINK THIS IS NORMAL?10 POINTS FOR BEST ADVICE!THANKS!!!?
I'm a girl so I can't tell you from a guys perspective but most of the time it just depends. Probably not what you want to hear but it honestly just depends on the guy and how close, or how much he likes you. Sometimes its the same night, sometimes guys follow the three day rule. If you are comfortable enough why don't you just ask him. Honestly I think the three day rule isn't the big of a deal. It gives time for things to sink in and be thought out. Plans can be made, or not made.
So to thoroughly answer your question it's pretty normal but it depends on the guy. Good luck.Guys: DO U THINK THIS IS NORMAL?10 POINTS FOR BEST ADVICE!THANKS!!!?
totally thats ok if he called l8r than expected
dont worry it is totally normal :)
It's the 3 day rule. But then again there is a song, '; Yes'; a country n western, Fantastic listen to it, you will enjoy it.
He probably doesn't want to screw it up by sounding desperate. I prefer to wait a little bit.
I am a girl but have dated enough. Flat answer... if a man wants you or is interested, he will call the next day. There is no 3-day thingy... My honest answer... if he wants to see you again, schedule it 5 days out and see if by then, he is still interested. If the date doesnt happen for whatever reason then he isnt that into you. If he digs you; he wont go without calling you.
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I think the date went pretty well.He asked me out 3 days after he got my number. Does he probably follow the 3 days rule?
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank uGuys: DO U THINK THIS IS NORMAL?10 POINTS FOR BEST ADVICE!THANKS!!!?
I'm a girl so I can't tell you from a guys perspective but most of the time it just depends. Probably not what you want to hear but it honestly just depends on the guy and how close, or how much he likes you. Sometimes its the same night, sometimes guys follow the three day rule. If you are comfortable enough why don't you just ask him. Honestly I think the three day rule isn't the big of a deal. It gives time for things to sink in and be thought out. Plans can be made, or not made.
So to thoroughly answer your question it's pretty normal but it depends on the guy. Good luck.Guys: DO U THINK THIS IS NORMAL?10 POINTS FOR BEST ADVICE!THANKS!!!?
totally thats ok if he called l8r than expected
dont worry it is totally normal :)
It's the 3 day rule. But then again there is a song, '; Yes'; a country n western, Fantastic listen to it, you will enjoy it.
He probably doesn't want to screw it up by sounding desperate. I prefer to wait a little bit.
I am a girl but have dated enough. Flat answer... if a man wants you or is interested, he will call the next day. There is no 3-day thingy... My honest answer... if he wants to see you again, schedule it 5 days out and see if by then, he is still interested. If the date doesnt happen for whatever reason then he isnt that into you. If he digs you; he wont go without calling you.
Guys who have lost a wife and learned to love again advice?
Im in love with someone who lost their wife to a tragic car accident 3 years ago, he had married once and it ended in a bitter divorce and then he met his second wife who was tragically taken away from him, he has dated several women since and almost married the last woman he was with. He said he is in love with me but he can only put his heart through so much. all i want is advice for loving someone who has gone through so much heartache, even if i don't end up being more to him i want to fill his life with happiness while im a part of it.Guys who have lost a wife and learned to love again advice?
Then stay true to him and love him...
Be compassionate and understanding and never ask him to forget about those he has lost...
My mother passed away suddenly at the age of 44. My father was heartbroken and refused to love again... Until his first Valentine's Day without Mom...
He went to visit her at the cemetary, and remembered that they had both told the other that should something happen to them that they wanted the other to move on with life and find happiness...
My father wasn't sure what was ahead of him after 26 years of marriage. He joined Match.com to find out what the dating pool would look like... He didn't intend to meet anyone or even want to right away...
This one profile popped out at him because she was ';him with t*its'; as I said...
They dated for just over a year... She was more perfect for him than even my mother, and we all still miss her... This woman was a friend, and confidant. I respected her and refer to her as my step mother... Unfortunately she was killed in a motor cycle accident 2 weeks after my daughter was born and just before my father could propose...
My father is now dating once more... This woman is nice, not like my mother, and definitely not as perfect as my step mother, but she makes him happy. Their biggest issues surround her insecurity about my mother and step mother... They are ALL pretty women but his current girlfriend doesn't think she holds a candle to them... This upsets my father...
She also feels like his mourning of those two women means he doesn't care for her as much, and this is wrong... He cares for her a great deal and may want to marry her... But he still holds the love in his heart for his wife and ';fiance'; that are calling from the heavens now...
So again, be patient, and compassionate... Remain true and loving...
What happens down the line will be what he can handle and what his heart is willing to take...
Good Luck and God Bless...Guys who have lost a wife and learned to love again advice?
Wow! Very good question. I like the serious marriage and divorce questions, as in true life and love questions like this one!
I lost a great chunk of my family, brothers, sisters, mom, grandma, nephew......I cannot take any more loses, because it hurts so bad...to see them all gone from this earth and you know your the next one to die.
I think if I would lose my wife, I wouldn't be able to sleep anymore...my whole perspective about living on this earth would change differently. Some people out there cannot handle tough situations like this and eventually commit suicide. Sad but true stories out there.
In my late night dreams, I sometimes dream of my lost brothers or sisters or mom and I don't want to ever wake up again, because I know if I wake up, I quickly lose my dreams of them. When I dream of my lost brother or sister or mom, its a very beautiful dream to see them once more alive again.
I channel away from these depressing thoughts and focus to the future with other people, as friends, as strangers........some people don't understand this!!! This lost of love ones, because they still have their parents, brothers and sisters and so on to cling on. Sucks! When you don't have your relatives around to cling on anymore! Everything changes, your whole world changes.
Then stay true to him and love him...
Be compassionate and understanding and never ask him to forget about those he has lost...
My mother passed away suddenly at the age of 44. My father was heartbroken and refused to love again... Until his first Valentine's Day without Mom...
He went to visit her at the cemetary, and remembered that they had both told the other that should something happen to them that they wanted the other to move on with life and find happiness...
My father wasn't sure what was ahead of him after 26 years of marriage. He joined Match.com to find out what the dating pool would look like... He didn't intend to meet anyone or even want to right away...
This one profile popped out at him because she was ';him with t*its'; as I said...
They dated for just over a year... She was more perfect for him than even my mother, and we all still miss her... This woman was a friend, and confidant. I respected her and refer to her as my step mother... Unfortunately she was killed in a motor cycle accident 2 weeks after my daughter was born and just before my father could propose...
My father is now dating once more... This woman is nice, not like my mother, and definitely not as perfect as my step mother, but she makes him happy. Their biggest issues surround her insecurity about my mother and step mother... They are ALL pretty women but his current girlfriend doesn't think she holds a candle to them... This upsets my father...
She also feels like his mourning of those two women means he doesn't care for her as much, and this is wrong... He cares for her a great deal and may want to marry her... But he still holds the love in his heart for his wife and ';fiance'; that are calling from the heavens now...
So again, be patient, and compassionate... Remain true and loving...
What happens down the line will be what he can handle and what his heart is willing to take...
Good Luck and God Bless...Guys who have lost a wife and learned to love again advice?
Wow! Very good question. I like the serious marriage and divorce questions, as in true life and love questions like this one!
I lost a great chunk of my family, brothers, sisters, mom, grandma, nephew......I cannot take any more loses, because it hurts so bad...to see them all gone from this earth and you know your the next one to die.
I think if I would lose my wife, I wouldn't be able to sleep anymore...my whole perspective about living on this earth would change differently. Some people out there cannot handle tough situations like this and eventually commit suicide. Sad but true stories out there.
In my late night dreams, I sometimes dream of my lost brothers or sisters or mom and I don't want to ever wake up again, because I know if I wake up, I quickly lose my dreams of them. When I dream of my lost brother or sister or mom, its a very beautiful dream to see them once more alive again.
I channel away from these depressing thoughts and focus to the future with other people, as friends, as strangers........some people don't understand this!!! This lost of love ones, because they still have their parents, brothers and sisters and so on to cling on. Sucks! When you don't have your relatives around to cling on anymore! Everything changes, your whole world changes.
Guys, can you help me w. this? I need your blunt advice and encouragement PLEASE?
I'm a good girl - not easy but easygoing and can get along w. everyone. I'm old fashioned in love. I'm going through this phase where i'm ';jaded'; right now (went through a situation a few months back and I feel as if all my sincerity is gone. guys who i've crushed on or were interested in before, i feel nothing, i'm numb)...i'm not biter, I've moved on, i'm happy to be single, and have had this epiphany w. everything that has happened in my love life and I just want to take time for myself to be my self and it will be awhile 'til i become ';close'; and care for someone again. No relationships anytime soon.
My friend asked me to go on this date w. her co-worker. First off, ';who is this? what's his name? what's he like?'; I'm not a fan of ';blind dating'; and why would I go out w. someone I know nothing about. All she said was he was ';nice';. I'm sorry but ';nice'; isn't going to cut it anymore b/c everyone is nice. I told her to jsut bring him to our get togethers and i'll meet him there. I got there and this was this same guy, she tried to set me up w. a few months back. She knew he wasn't my type and right away, I knew still wasn't. He's a cool guy but I wouldn't date him. Now he's texting me and I was cautious of that too b/c he seems more into me than I am of him and I don't want to lead him on. He wants to take me to go to dinner ';as friends'; but we all know that that's just an excuse to get closer until he gets what he wants...me lol And a guy won't work that hard to be ';friends'; w. a girl. Now he's all ';bobby brown'; on me w. texting (like raunchy) and it's gross. My friend said he thinks ';i'm hot'; and tht I should go out w. him to get free dinner. NO WAY. I'd rather take MYSELF out to dinner and pay. I MAY BE SINGLE AND LONELY SOMETIMES BUT I'M NOT DESPERATE. Even guys scan out other girls REALLY well to see if she's good enough for their friends, why can't girls be the same? I know she means well but it's an insult to me bc he's not even my type and she keeps throwin the ';friends'; excuse and now i gotta deal w. this horny dude on my own. And it's different between me and her b/c he WORKS w. her so of course, they're gonna be friends.
Do you think I'm being a *****? What should I do and how do I handle this dude?Guys, can you help me w. this? I need your blunt advice and encouragement PLEASE?
Not at all. You don't feel like dating right now, no matter who it is. Tell this guy and your friend thanks, but you just want to stay away from the dating thing right now. If he or she doesn't accept this, you may have to get firmer with them. No one should make you feel guilty for doing something you believe in. stick to your guns, You have every right to say no to someone who you know will not make you happy. And you have every right to be happy, and be single for a while without getting pressure from your friend.Guys, can you help me w. this? I need your blunt advice and encouragement PLEASE?
Honestlydont be afraid to just say that you need time to yourself, and stop looking for ';love'; i mean you have to figure the more your looking for that perfect someone the more you are analyzing every little thing that person does that makes you mad. Just straight up tell them what you feel.
You have already made the choice, what good is the back and forth in your mind really doing? Sometimes friends have delusional ideas of what we really need in our lives, other times they have very accurate ideas. Your friend may have some agenda here that may be delusional or accurate and you will not know until you bring it up in direct conversation.
With regards to the guy, you should simply and directly explain to him that you do not believe that he only wants to be friends and that you are not interested in dating.
All this being said, you should examine what it is you are holding on to by avoiding having these two very honest conversations. If these two are your friends then they will struggle to understand, if not then your open dialogue with them may be an opportunity for them to examine their own motives and behaviors.
Remember that suffering comes from clinging too tightly.
My friend asked me to go on this date w. her co-worker. First off, ';who is this? what's his name? what's he like?'; I'm not a fan of ';blind dating'; and why would I go out w. someone I know nothing about. All she said was he was ';nice';. I'm sorry but ';nice'; isn't going to cut it anymore b/c everyone is nice. I told her to jsut bring him to our get togethers and i'll meet him there. I got there and this was this same guy, she tried to set me up w. a few months back. She knew he wasn't my type and right away, I knew still wasn't. He's a cool guy but I wouldn't date him. Now he's texting me and I was cautious of that too b/c he seems more into me than I am of him and I don't want to lead him on. He wants to take me to go to dinner ';as friends'; but we all know that that's just an excuse to get closer until he gets what he wants...me lol And a guy won't work that hard to be ';friends'; w. a girl. Now he's all ';bobby brown'; on me w. texting (like raunchy) and it's gross. My friend said he thinks ';i'm hot'; and tht I should go out w. him to get free dinner. NO WAY. I'd rather take MYSELF out to dinner and pay. I MAY BE SINGLE AND LONELY SOMETIMES BUT I'M NOT DESPERATE. Even guys scan out other girls REALLY well to see if she's good enough for their friends, why can't girls be the same? I know she means well but it's an insult to me bc he's not even my type and she keeps throwin the ';friends'; excuse and now i gotta deal w. this horny dude on my own. And it's different between me and her b/c he WORKS w. her so of course, they're gonna be friends.
Do you think I'm being a *****? What should I do and how do I handle this dude?Guys, can you help me w. this? I need your blunt advice and encouragement PLEASE?
Not at all. You don't feel like dating right now, no matter who it is. Tell this guy and your friend thanks, but you just want to stay away from the dating thing right now. If he or she doesn't accept this, you may have to get firmer with them. No one should make you feel guilty for doing something you believe in. stick to your guns, You have every right to say no to someone who you know will not make you happy. And you have every right to be happy, and be single for a while without getting pressure from your friend.Guys, can you help me w. this? I need your blunt advice and encouragement PLEASE?
Honestlydont be afraid to just say that you need time to yourself, and stop looking for ';love'; i mean you have to figure the more your looking for that perfect someone the more you are analyzing every little thing that person does that makes you mad. Just straight up tell them what you feel.
You have already made the choice, what good is the back and forth in your mind really doing? Sometimes friends have delusional ideas of what we really need in our lives, other times they have very accurate ideas. Your friend may have some agenda here that may be delusional or accurate and you will not know until you bring it up in direct conversation.
With regards to the guy, you should simply and directly explain to him that you do not believe that he only wants to be friends and that you are not interested in dating.
All this being said, you should examine what it is you are holding on to by avoiding having these two very honest conversations. If these two are your friends then they will struggle to understand, if not then your open dialogue with them may be an opportunity for them to examine their own motives and behaviors.
Remember that suffering comes from clinging too tightly.
Could i get some guy advice?
i always like the wrong guys. but sumtimes i see cute ones in public but im with my parents...akward much?? so wat do u say i should do?Could i get some guy advice?
Picking guys on looks alone will usually get you a bum.Could i get some guy advice?
Guys like gals who can spell. Work on that.
Picking guys on looks alone will usually get you a bum.Could i get some guy advice?
Guys like gals who can spell. Work on that.
HELP my friend needs guy advice quick?? (girls only) Good souls out there PLEEZ ANSWER??!!!
My friend likes this guy but she doesn't know if he likes her. He used to like this other girl who turned him down so now she doesn't know who he likes. She tried to call him but chickened out cuz he would tell his friends. Any advice on how 2 get the guy?HELP my friend needs guy advice quick?? (girls only) Good souls out there PLEEZ ANSWER??!!!
OMJ!! I know what she is going through. Well the worst that could happen in this situation is he tells his friends, and to be honest that doesnt seem bad. When this happened to me, I just called him and said what I felt. Even though I made the move, he ended up asking me to be his girlfriend and we have been dating for 5 months :) My advice is, If she is friends with him she can just ask if he wants to hang out with her later or something, If she doesnt know him, she should get to know him a little better, there for CALL HIM!!!
Hope my very long advice helps :)HELP my friend needs guy advice quick?? (girls only) Good souls out there PLEEZ ANSWER??!!!
well find out what he like to do, like if he plays sports or likes music or something, thats how i got him to like me is cuz i luvvv sports and so does he, and just joke around or try flirting and see what happens and if he doesn't like u then u are to good for him, or u can make him jealous by flirting with every cute guy u see lol
good luck
xoxoxoxo
id give him a little time...he just got turned down...and if he really liked that girl it will take some time for him to know if he really wants to be with another girl...and she wouldnt want the guy to use her to make the other girl jealous...he might do that...just a thought...hope this helps
Well, you need to give him the slip off first. You know, stare at him, and look away 2 seconds too late, so he knows you were looking at him. Then, you need to talk to him, and like be a little obvious. But not too obvious. Just be a girl!
That worked for me last time :D
i have two words for your friend...playful flirting! like if he catches her staring she can blow him a kiss then laugh. or she could walk past him and say ';you look pretty today!'; it's flirty but still friendly and not too over the top. and it shows confidence which guys love
flirt with him, if he seems like he like you then wait a little bit to let him make his move. but don't wait too long because i waited 10 months for my crush to make his move to find out had liked me the whole time. i regret that.
get her to talk to him.
make him want to be in her company.
get her to tease him.
then she can ask him.
do it on msn or something.
it alwaays seems easier.
good luck!
answer my q please?
xox
Just write him a lil' cute note asking him if he likes you and then put ur name on it and then say somethin like ';meet me at ';';someplace';'; or ';write me bak a lil' note';'; if u like me bak.......... sometimes it works...!!!
Hope It helps.
XoXo %26lt;3
that happen to me once but what I did was ask people around him then I got the courage to ask the guy I was kind of disappointed but still it's better to speak up cause life's too short to worry.
dont be chicken. LIFE TO TOO SHORT! just do it. I hoped i helped! Now can you take the time and help me??http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080731170711AA6Yxwc%26amp;r=w
Walk up to him and say hello how have you been doing....nothing fancy just simple conversation...you don't want to be to strong or too weak...be a friend first and let him know that your interested
She should slow down and let him make the moves. What's the rush? Being desperate is NOT sexy!
i agree with jell life is too short take risks live like theres no tomorrow
[i should take my own advice]
Just tell her to call. You never know...
what do you have to lose?
live it up!
:]black lipstick
OMJ!! I know what she is going through. Well the worst that could happen in this situation is he tells his friends, and to be honest that doesnt seem bad. When this happened to me, I just called him and said what I felt. Even though I made the move, he ended up asking me to be his girlfriend and we have been dating for 5 months :) My advice is, If she is friends with him she can just ask if he wants to hang out with her later or something, If she doesnt know him, she should get to know him a little better, there for CALL HIM!!!
Hope my very long advice helps :)HELP my friend needs guy advice quick?? (girls only) Good souls out there PLEEZ ANSWER??!!!
well find out what he like to do, like if he plays sports or likes music or something, thats how i got him to like me is cuz i luvvv sports and so does he, and just joke around or try flirting and see what happens and if he doesn't like u then u are to good for him, or u can make him jealous by flirting with every cute guy u see lol
good luck
xoxoxoxo
id give him a little time...he just got turned down...and if he really liked that girl it will take some time for him to know if he really wants to be with another girl...and she wouldnt want the guy to use her to make the other girl jealous...he might do that...just a thought...hope this helps
Well, you need to give him the slip off first. You know, stare at him, and look away 2 seconds too late, so he knows you were looking at him. Then, you need to talk to him, and like be a little obvious. But not too obvious. Just be a girl!
That worked for me last time :D
i have two words for your friend...playful flirting! like if he catches her staring she can blow him a kiss then laugh. or she could walk past him and say ';you look pretty today!'; it's flirty but still friendly and not too over the top. and it shows confidence which guys love
flirt with him, if he seems like he like you then wait a little bit to let him make his move. but don't wait too long because i waited 10 months for my crush to make his move to find out had liked me the whole time. i regret that.
get her to talk to him.
make him want to be in her company.
get her to tease him.
then she can ask him.
do it on msn or something.
it alwaays seems easier.
good luck!
answer my q please?
xox
Just write him a lil' cute note asking him if he likes you and then put ur name on it and then say somethin like ';meet me at ';';someplace';'; or ';write me bak a lil' note';'; if u like me bak.......... sometimes it works...!!!
Hope It helps.
XoXo %26lt;3
that happen to me once but what I did was ask people around him then I got the courage to ask the guy I was kind of disappointed but still it's better to speak up cause life's too short to worry.
dont be chicken. LIFE TO TOO SHORT! just do it. I hoped i helped! Now can you take the time and help me??http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080731170711AA6Yxwc%26amp;r=w
Walk up to him and say hello how have you been doing....nothing fancy just simple conversation...you don't want to be to strong or too weak...be a friend first and let him know that your interested
She should slow down and let him make the moves. What's the rush? Being desperate is NOT sexy!
i agree with jell life is too short take risks live like theres no tomorrow
[i should take my own advice]
Just tell her to call. You never know...
what do you have to lose?
live it up!
:]
Guys???? Advice please????
always seem to end up being just a friend when it comes to guys I like... I need to figure out how to get around that.
I mean, I don't dress or act like 'one of the guys' it's nothing like that... I'm 'just' a friend...Guys???? Advice please????
Its hard to say. Are you attractive? If not that may have something to do with it.Guys???? Advice please????
When the right guy comes along you be friend,lover and a whole lot more. Just relax.
Start flirting!
Or just wait for YOUR guy!
same here, friends,
but i see it this way, dont rush anything. just let it flow. if the guy isn't feelin you, then dont let it get you down. dont mind him. he's missed out on the most wonderful girl.
open up more to the lucky guy u like. if he acts weird or turns u down, get another. its simple. guys r like buses. u miss one, catch the next one.
Hahahahahaha! Same! Except with girls.
It's soooo frustrating!
its a point of no return, when you start being friends and dont drop any hints of love then ur going to get stuck as just a friend
I mean, I don't dress or act like 'one of the guys' it's nothing like that... I'm 'just' a friend...Guys???? Advice please????
Its hard to say. Are you attractive? If not that may have something to do with it.Guys???? Advice please????
When the right guy comes along you be friend,lover and a whole lot more. Just relax.
Start flirting!
Or just wait for YOUR guy!
same here, friends,
but i see it this way, dont rush anything. just let it flow. if the guy isn't feelin you, then dont let it get you down. dont mind him. he's missed out on the most wonderful girl.
open up more to the lucky guy u like. if he acts weird or turns u down, get another. its simple. guys r like buses. u miss one, catch the next one.
Hahahahahaha! Same! Except with girls.
It's soooo frustrating!
its a point of no return, when you start being friends and dont drop any hints of love then ur going to get stuck as just a friend
Guys advice...?
what does it mean when a guy hangs up on a women(his feance) and makes her feel stupid after she has been takeing care of the house,food and baby, He gets mad at me and yells sometimes...he said he loves me but, he has changed.Guys advice...?
he's bored or not in love. ask him to go to counseling or lose him.Guys advice...?
fiance, taking.
He's just mad or frustrated. It sounds as though he's very immature. Hanging up should end by 10 or 12 years old. Yelling should stop when he starts school. He's just a little baby. Are you sure you want to marry him? You're going to end up raising him!
he's bored or not in love. ask him to go to counseling or lose him.Guys advice...?
fiance, taking.
He's just mad or frustrated. It sounds as though he's very immature. Hanging up should end by 10 or 12 years old. Yelling should stop when he starts school. He's just a little baby. Are you sure you want to marry him? You're going to end up raising him!
IM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!!! (GUYS & GURLS) anyone plzzzz help me, i dont no what to do???!!!!?????!!!!?
theres this guy at my school and i really think im in love with him but what i dont understand is, is that i dont even no him, ive never spoken to him before and when i think about him or see him i have such a wonderful feeling inside like he's the one for me. i find it so hard for me to find a guy that i really like, the thing is hes younger than me hes in year 9 and im in year 11, my friends and that have said age doesnt matter if its true love who cares about age. i think i could get away with going out with someone younger than me because i look younger than what i am.
Ive never asked i guy out before either, all my past bfs have all asked me. i realli need help on this, he walks home the same way as me and we both walk home alone, i was thinking if i should walk home with him and get to no him that way, do you think that would be ok or is it too random????
I would like it if he asked me but he doesnt realli no that i like him, so is there anything i can do for him to ask me out????
i am frends with people in his year, and they said hes quiet and hes the type that keeps hiself to hiself, which i find cute, i would like to bring out his wild side, i always feel like we could have such a great time together but i dont no why i think this ive never felt like this before about a boy????
plz plz help me every answer will be so much appreciated
no silly answers tho,
i will also answer yours too.
thanks = )IM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!!! (GUYS %26amp; GURLS) anyone plzzzz help me, i dont no what to do???!!!!?????!!!!?
Hey there!
What you should do is get to know him at school. You are right, just randomly walking home with him is too random. First, I would listen to him talk to his friends a lot. Not like... stalking, but just be observant and keep an eye out for him. When they talk, make sure you know what they are talking about, and... yeah. Note what he likes.
Second, once you know his personality well, flirt. There really is no need to introduce yourself first, because that would just be, well, just plain weird. I'm a guy in middle school, and I love it when girls flirt with me. I have a huge crush on this girl, too that I'm dealing with, and I think that a couple of shy girls like me. Of course, boys are very bad at predicting this stuff. Examples of flirting would be winking when he's looking at you (if you can wink, of course -- I can't personally), smile and bring your shoulder up to your neck like a cute little girl, and eventually he'll begin to realize that you are in this world. Don't be shy when you flirt, although you may turn red (this is normal).
Eventually, when he realizes you are there, you should walk home with him, greeting him with a casual ';hey.'; Now, it shouldn't be as weird to him. Talk to him about stuff that you like, and let him talk. Be nice to him.
If you really want to ask him out, make sure you don't rush. He will find it odd, but when you get to know him well, you could ask him out.
Btw, smell nice. The girl I'm in love with smells better than the sweetest roses, although I guess you don't have to do Brad Pitt. I met this cute girl in elementary school, but she smelled filthy. I quickly let go of my crush.
Make sure your breath smells good, too. Brush twice a day, floss before school, and use a bit of mouthwash all after eating breakfast. This should work just fine for breath, or at least it'll last you until lunch. After lunch, make sure to gurgle a nice cold mouthful of drinking water to neutralize the filthy smell of bits of food between your teeth (eww, gross!)
Lastly, always be yourself and act confident, but since you're a girl, don't try to be tough.
I really hope I helped! You can talk to me about more stuff regarding this guy if you need help!IM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!!! (GUYS %26amp; GURLS) anyone plzzzz help me, i dont no what to do???!!!!?????!!!!?
just walk up him one day, say ';hey, i notice that we walk home the same way and i also noticed that you walk alone. wanna walk together? it could be cool';. worst he can say is no, right?
you're kind of in the same situation i am. i'm planning on just doing what you said was talk to him while walking home. it'll suck at first but, you have to start somewhere.
walk with him he's a freshman
Ive never asked i guy out before either, all my past bfs have all asked me. i realli need help on this, he walks home the same way as me and we both walk home alone, i was thinking if i should walk home with him and get to no him that way, do you think that would be ok or is it too random????
I would like it if he asked me but he doesnt realli no that i like him, so is there anything i can do for him to ask me out????
i am frends with people in his year, and they said hes quiet and hes the type that keeps hiself to hiself, which i find cute, i would like to bring out his wild side, i always feel like we could have such a great time together but i dont no why i think this ive never felt like this before about a boy????
plz plz help me every answer will be so much appreciated
no silly answers tho,
i will also answer yours too.
thanks = )IM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!!! (GUYS %26amp; GURLS) anyone plzzzz help me, i dont no what to do???!!!!?????!!!!?
Hey there!
What you should do is get to know him at school. You are right, just randomly walking home with him is too random. First, I would listen to him talk to his friends a lot. Not like... stalking, but just be observant and keep an eye out for him. When they talk, make sure you know what they are talking about, and... yeah. Note what he likes.
Second, once you know his personality well, flirt. There really is no need to introduce yourself first, because that would just be, well, just plain weird. I'm a guy in middle school, and I love it when girls flirt with me. I have a huge crush on this girl, too that I'm dealing with, and I think that a couple of shy girls like me. Of course, boys are very bad at predicting this stuff. Examples of flirting would be winking when he's looking at you (if you can wink, of course -- I can't personally), smile and bring your shoulder up to your neck like a cute little girl, and eventually he'll begin to realize that you are in this world. Don't be shy when you flirt, although you may turn red (this is normal).
Eventually, when he realizes you are there, you should walk home with him, greeting him with a casual ';hey.'; Now, it shouldn't be as weird to him. Talk to him about stuff that you like, and let him talk. Be nice to him.
If you really want to ask him out, make sure you don't rush. He will find it odd, but when you get to know him well, you could ask him out.
Btw, smell nice. The girl I'm in love with smells better than the sweetest roses, although I guess you don't have to do Brad Pitt. I met this cute girl in elementary school, but she smelled filthy. I quickly let go of my crush.
Make sure your breath smells good, too. Brush twice a day, floss before school, and use a bit of mouthwash all after eating breakfast. This should work just fine for breath, or at least it'll last you until lunch. After lunch, make sure to gurgle a nice cold mouthful of drinking water to neutralize the filthy smell of bits of food between your teeth (eww, gross!)
Lastly, always be yourself and act confident, but since you're a girl, don't try to be tough.
I really hope I helped! You can talk to me about more stuff regarding this guy if you need help!IM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!!! (GUYS %26amp; GURLS) anyone plzzzz help me, i dont no what to do???!!!!?????!!!!?
just walk up him one day, say ';hey, i notice that we walk home the same way and i also noticed that you walk alone. wanna walk together? it could be cool';. worst he can say is no, right?
you're kind of in the same situation i am. i'm planning on just doing what you said was talk to him while walking home. it'll suck at first but, you have to start somewhere.
walk with him he's a freshman
I need advice...Guys please help me on this...Girls can to...anyone...please?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months. We got into an argument last night. We are both going through SO much. Last night he told me some things that was going on and I listened and when he asked for my advice I gave it. When I started talking about my issues he said ';Get over it!'; Why is it guys can't show true emotions. The only emotion I have ever seen a guy show is anger. I know he is going through a lot. So am I. So is everyone else. Right now every human being needs someone to lean on. I am here for him...but I am starting to wonder if he is there for me. I sit here and open my self up. Making my self vulnerable and all I get is ';Get over it.'; Could he show some compassion? Can he at least pretend to care? What should I do? What should I say to him? I am completely confused on the subject.I need advice...Guys please help me on this...Girls can to...anyone...please?
Tell him how you feel... ask him to listen to you and be there for him because YOU have been there for him... make him understand that once you're together you should both respect eachother equally...
answer mine :) ??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice...Guys please help me on this...Girls can to...anyone...please?
I understand you dear. My boyfriend thinks I'm dramatic and that I always cry for everything. This has happened many times and I'm tired of his BS. I'm thinking about breaking up, I don't want a guy who doesn't care about a my feelings. It's not worth it.
try saying the same to him and see how he likes it. He asked you for advice, so you gave him some. Tell him that the world isn't all about him and that there are other people that need help and advice and someone to lean on. Tell him to straighten out or get lost.
So you know. Talking to you that way in general in unacceptable. When you open up to your boyfriend he should be there just as much as you for him.
Talk to him about it and see why he was angered about it.
Don't worry as well. Not all boys are egotistical pigs only showing anger. You will find alot of men that care just as much as you do.
Sorry i couldn't help more
Well, here is it, I'm going to sound like a Bible thumper...
I think God is the only one we can truly lean on, people disappoint. God can handle our problems!
Good luck!
p.s. I catch myself being in the ';get over it'; catagory sometimes, as females we just want support, but guys want to help us and fix things. Maybe what you shared was something he didn't feel he could fix, so he didn't know how to listen and give support. You could talk to him about it, and tell him what you were really hoping for - support and love.
Tell him how you feel... ask him to listen to you and be there for him because YOU have been there for him... make him understand that once you're together you should both respect eachother equally...
answer mine :) ??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice...Guys please help me on this...Girls can to...anyone...please?
I understand you dear. My boyfriend thinks I'm dramatic and that I always cry for everything. This has happened many times and I'm tired of his BS. I'm thinking about breaking up, I don't want a guy who doesn't care about a my feelings. It's not worth it.
try saying the same to him and see how he likes it. He asked you for advice, so you gave him some. Tell him that the world isn't all about him and that there are other people that need help and advice and someone to lean on. Tell him to straighten out or get lost.
So you know. Talking to you that way in general in unacceptable. When you open up to your boyfriend he should be there just as much as you for him.
Talk to him about it and see why he was angered about it.
Don't worry as well. Not all boys are egotistical pigs only showing anger. You will find alot of men that care just as much as you do.
Sorry i couldn't help more
Well, here is it, I'm going to sound like a Bible thumper...
I think God is the only one we can truly lean on, people disappoint. God can handle our problems!
Good luck!
p.s. I catch myself being in the ';get over it'; catagory sometimes, as females we just want support, but guys want to help us and fix things. Maybe what you shared was something he didn't feel he could fix, so he didn't know how to listen and give support. You could talk to him about it, and tell him what you were really hoping for - support and love.
GIRL PROBLEMS- ADVICE; GUYS & GIRLS?
Okay, I have a lot on my mind. I am no where near a **** %26amp; all the guys in my school are looking for sex. I am not prude, I just have to have feelings for them to do that stuff. I haven't done anything with a guy except making out.. %26amp; i dont want to get used. So, should I just waite for the right guy? Also, when i like a guy im not the type to go crazy to get his attention.. im not like that. What should I do? All the guys go after the sluts, what do I do?
Also, GUYS LIKE HOT BODIES!!!!!!!! i have small boobs and i dont have an ***. i just feel like im not good enough for anyone.
any advice?GIRL PROBLEMS- ADVICE; GUYS %26amp; GIRLS?
Well, look at the maturity of the men you're dealing with. Personally I like a girl who is a tomboy type. Who is fun to be with not a drama queen. You might have to put yourself out there a little to find the guy you like, not sexually, I mean talk to him. If he blows you off for the other girl (slutty type) you're better off. The smartest choice is finding the right person.
You've heard of breast men (guys who like girls boobs). There are leg men out there (guys who like girls legs). Besides give yourself sometime to develop. You sound young, everyone develops at different rates.
If you want someone to value you. You have to learn to value yourself. You're smart enough to look for help and resist the temptation of getting used for attention. Sounds like you are good enough. Start believing in yourself.GIRL PROBLEMS- ADVICE; GUYS %26amp; GIRLS?
Like you said, they're just looking for sex. You don't want to attract a guy like that because you're not into that sort of thing. Chances are if you were to have feelings for them and then have sex, you'll end up being or feeling as if you were used. Not to mention, if the guy just likes you because you have a hot body, he's probably just in it for what he can get. Don't change who you are to be in a temporary relationship with some superficial guy.
Not all guys go after sex so you shouldn't make that generalization and im sure you dont personally know every guy in your school inside out. Just be your self and the right guy will like you. If you dont be yourself and a guy likes you then he isn't in love with the real you. He only likes the fake you. So what good is that? As for the body type issue i know plenty of guys who dont really care for big boobs or curvy bodies it really varies so don't worry.
first please understand you need to either have t*its or a**ss. one or the other. if you don't have **** go to the gym and get a Fantasic A**ss for guy to Pump. And second if you want to land yourself a Man you need to suck and to F**uck. that's just the way it is in 2009. if you don't believe me read Vogue Magazine or Cosmopolitan, or turn on the TV, or radio, or a music-video. We are Sex Objects plain and simple.
Don't ever think you're not good enough, and those guys at your school are nothing if they're only into hot bodies, and a girl they can score easily with.
You should keep being yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. Don't change either because eventually, someone will fall for [YOU].
Your choice.
%26gt;Be yourself; that's genuine%26lt;
Don't change ur self in order to let guys attracted to you , you must be yourself not anyone else and then later on you'll find the right guy :D:D
And as u said they are looking for sex so they dnt look for the personality then they won't last in any relationship just wait and u'll find the right guy !!
Just wait for the right guy. Any guy now who says he loves you and then tried to play you, he doesn't really love you. Just be yourself and a wonderful guy will come along who will love you for who you are and he won't care what your body looks like in terms of 'hotness'.
Have a wonderful day.
~Love is kind, and love is patient~
I'd say that you can wait for the right guy for sex, and that's respectable, but at least go to second with a guy to reel him in, then you can wait it out.
And to be honest, you probably won't find the ';right'; guy this early, so just have fun.
Hey, stop berating your self. There are guys out there, though they may be rare, who can be good friends without leching after you for sex. Stay strong, be the friend that you want from a friend. After you become friends, and can trust each other, that guy may be the one.
You should just wait for the right guy, there's no sense selling yourself out like a prostitute. Also, be yourself. If a guy only looks at you physically and doesn't pay attention to how great your personality is, it's his loss.
Good girls always get to met mama and the loose ones will always want what you have.. stay patient and he will loves all those qualities about you and he will know that you can be trusted.
Your losing self confidence over something stupid your perfectly fine the way you are dont change your look or your personality for any guy trust me im sure you will find your perfect match some day just be more outgong and talk active but dont be a show off .
hey people help me with my question below
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuoTL77yum0dfhgZnJWgbDjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090214135955AAb5Vvv
Be happy for your identity. Not all guys go for sex. I know that there will be a perfect guy along in your life who would treat you with respect inside and outside. Just keep your chin up.
Well sweet heart best thing is to not worry I bet your a nice girl but if you think somethings wrong do something about it . I guess you could try the rock band people they are cool :) (Dont worry about it :))
I would wait. If you start dressing like a **** too, you'll become one. That's not good. Please wait. Your better then all of those girls!
just wait for the right guy, and in the mean time dont let any other guy use you or fool u.
wait...they're not worth losing it
Also, GUYS LIKE HOT BODIES!!!!!!!! i have small boobs and i dont have an ***. i just feel like im not good enough for anyone.
any advice?GIRL PROBLEMS- ADVICE; GUYS %26amp; GIRLS?
Well, look at the maturity of the men you're dealing with. Personally I like a girl who is a tomboy type. Who is fun to be with not a drama queen. You might have to put yourself out there a little to find the guy you like, not sexually, I mean talk to him. If he blows you off for the other girl (slutty type) you're better off. The smartest choice is finding the right person.
You've heard of breast men (guys who like girls boobs). There are leg men out there (guys who like girls legs). Besides give yourself sometime to develop. You sound young, everyone develops at different rates.
If you want someone to value you. You have to learn to value yourself. You're smart enough to look for help and resist the temptation of getting used for attention. Sounds like you are good enough. Start believing in yourself.GIRL PROBLEMS- ADVICE; GUYS %26amp; GIRLS?
Like you said, they're just looking for sex. You don't want to attract a guy like that because you're not into that sort of thing. Chances are if you were to have feelings for them and then have sex, you'll end up being or feeling as if you were used. Not to mention, if the guy just likes you because you have a hot body, he's probably just in it for what he can get. Don't change who you are to be in a temporary relationship with some superficial guy.
Not all guys go after sex so you shouldn't make that generalization and im sure you dont personally know every guy in your school inside out. Just be your self and the right guy will like you. If you dont be yourself and a guy likes you then he isn't in love with the real you. He only likes the fake you. So what good is that? As for the body type issue i know plenty of guys who dont really care for big boobs or curvy bodies it really varies so don't worry.
first please understand you need to either have t*its or a**ss. one or the other. if you don't have **** go to the gym and get a Fantasic A**ss for guy to Pump. And second if you want to land yourself a Man you need to suck and to F**uck. that's just the way it is in 2009. if you don't believe me read Vogue Magazine or Cosmopolitan, or turn on the TV, or radio, or a music-video. We are Sex Objects plain and simple.
Don't ever think you're not good enough, and those guys at your school are nothing if they're only into hot bodies, and a girl they can score easily with.
You should keep being yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. Don't change either because eventually, someone will fall for [YOU].
Your choice.
%26gt;Be yourself; that's genuine%26lt;
Don't change ur self in order to let guys attracted to you , you must be yourself not anyone else and then later on you'll find the right guy :D:D
And as u said they are looking for sex so they dnt look for the personality then they won't last in any relationship just wait and u'll find the right guy !!
Just wait for the right guy. Any guy now who says he loves you and then tried to play you, he doesn't really love you. Just be yourself and a wonderful guy will come along who will love you for who you are and he won't care what your body looks like in terms of 'hotness'.
Have a wonderful day.
~Love is kind, and love is patient~
I'd say that you can wait for the right guy for sex, and that's respectable, but at least go to second with a guy to reel him in, then you can wait it out.
And to be honest, you probably won't find the ';right'; guy this early, so just have fun.
Hey, stop berating your self. There are guys out there, though they may be rare, who can be good friends without leching after you for sex. Stay strong, be the friend that you want from a friend. After you become friends, and can trust each other, that guy may be the one.
You should just wait for the right guy, there's no sense selling yourself out like a prostitute. Also, be yourself. If a guy only looks at you physically and doesn't pay attention to how great your personality is, it's his loss.
Good girls always get to met mama and the loose ones will always want what you have.. stay patient and he will loves all those qualities about you and he will know that you can be trusted.
Your losing self confidence over something stupid your perfectly fine the way you are dont change your look or your personality for any guy trust me im sure you will find your perfect match some day just be more outgong and talk active but dont be a show off .
hey people help me with my question below
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuoTL77yum0dfhgZnJWgbDjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090214135955AAb5Vvv
Be happy for your identity. Not all guys go for sex. I know that there will be a perfect guy along in your life who would treat you with respect inside and outside. Just keep your chin up.
Well sweet heart best thing is to not worry I bet your a nice girl but if you think somethings wrong do something about it . I guess you could try the rock band people they are cool :) (Dont worry about it :))
I would wait. If you start dressing like a **** too, you'll become one. That's not good. Please wait. Your better then all of those girls!
just wait for the right guy, and in the mean time dont let any other guy use you or fool u.
wait...they're not worth losing it
I need guys ADVICE!!?
okay, there is this guy. We were talking about a movie i didnt like. I said i didnt like it, he said he did. He said that its probably just that the movie didnt like me. i said thats fine because i didnt like it. Then he said wanna know what does like you? i of course said ';what?'; and he said ';i do';. okay, so does that mean he likes me. like he likes me? of just as a friend?I need guys ADVICE!!?
you look very young , and I think he doesn't like youI need guys ADVICE!!?
ya id say so becuase this sounds like he wanted to get acroos to you he likes you... as member of the guy race we have trouble when we want to tell a girl we like, that we like them...i myself am having this problem and i can see goin up to her and show my feelings for her but stumbiling with my words...its a horrible feeling espacially if he really likes you...give him a chance hes probaly a nice dude
Like yeah, he like likes you like in a gf like way.
He likes you as in he digs you :)
dude that is the cutest thing ever!!!! i'm sooo jealeous!!! YES!! he likes you as more than a friend!!!! omgh i can't get over how cute that is!!! awww that is soo sweet of him, i can't believe that!! nothing more to say though, he likes you as a gf... good luck to the two of you!
this is why guys have SUCH A DIFFICULT TIME with girls - you READ INTO EVERYTHING.
He said he likes you. what do you want him to say - that he LOVES you? If he did that you'd read into that and call him ';clingy.';
No, I think he likes you likes you as in a girlfriend...
it obviously means he likes you
i think he likes you likes you.
NO! lol
He totaly LIKES you!
lol
A guy wouldn't say that if it was just as a friend. How many times has your pure guy friend told you he likes you as a friend. They don't say that it's just assumed. If they admit they like you than it's as more than friends. Good Luck!
;-)
This guys ';in like'; (smile)
He likes you. :) That's so sweet too. Good luck with him. :)
He likes you likes you.
Yeah, he likes you. No doubt.black lipstick
you look very young , and I think he doesn't like youI need guys ADVICE!!?
ya id say so becuase this sounds like he wanted to get acroos to you he likes you... as member of the guy race we have trouble when we want to tell a girl we like, that we like them...i myself am having this problem and i can see goin up to her and show my feelings for her but stumbiling with my words...its a horrible feeling espacially if he really likes you...give him a chance hes probaly a nice dude
Like yeah, he like likes you like in a gf like way.
He likes you as in he digs you :)
dude that is the cutest thing ever!!!! i'm sooo jealeous!!! YES!! he likes you as more than a friend!!!! omgh i can't get over how cute that is!!! awww that is soo sweet of him, i can't believe that!! nothing more to say though, he likes you as a gf... good luck to the two of you!
this is why guys have SUCH A DIFFICULT TIME with girls - you READ INTO EVERYTHING.
He said he likes you. what do you want him to say - that he LOVES you? If he did that you'd read into that and call him ';clingy.';
No, I think he likes you likes you as in a girlfriend...
it obviously means he likes you
i think he likes you likes you.
NO! lol
He totaly LIKES you!
lol
A guy wouldn't say that if it was just as a friend. How many times has your pure guy friend told you he likes you as a friend. They don't say that it's just assumed. If they admit they like you than it's as more than friends. Good Luck!
;-)
This guys ';in like'; (smile)
He likes you. :) That's so sweet too. Good luck with him. :)
He likes you likes you.
Yeah, he likes you. No doubt.
Guys advice needed,please?
I`m feeling a bit confused about a guy so would like your opinions please.He gave me his number last week and we had been texting and calling each other.He said he really liked me and didn`t care about the fact i have a son as he wanted to take me out at least once to get to know me.
He then text me on friday and said that he is interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just let him know.He text me again later on and asked if he could call me soon but my battery went dead and he didn`t call,i sent him a text the following day and explained what happened and he didn`t reply.
My mum saw him last night in his work and got talking to him but she said he wasn`t his usuall chatty self and he told her he`d give me a call.He then text agin and asked if he could call me soon and i said yes,he didn`t call.So i just sent a text today and said if he`s not interested it`s totally fine and not to worry about it and he hasn`t even replied.Has he lost interest do you think,help??Guys advice needed,please?
When you like someone, you'll do almost anything to connect.
He hasn't made the effort, so far, and my guess is he's lost
interest (..or, wasn't interested in the first place..).
Chuck him aside and move on.Guys advice needed,please?
Maybe his battery is dead now.
for f u c k s sake woman just ring him an make him take u out! life is to short to mess around. just do it.
stop keep saying if he is not interested.
give him an ultimatum. either meet you for (pick something somewhere you like) or to forget you all together, because you are tired of his games.
that said if he is not his normal self, may be he has had a personal tragedy in his life, the death of a loved one for example or something equally devastating.
so phone and speak instead of texting. now ask him if there is anything on his mind he would like to talk to you about. and stress to him whatever it is you would like to know especially if you and he are ever going to be a couple. you have to start to trust each other and talk (text is fine but not in this case).
make sure that what ever it is you try not to judge him on what you hear.
be a friend to him first. without friendship how is a long term or even a mid term romance ever going to get off the ground.
this situation seems to have been going on for a while now. it is time you make the bold move to break out of being shy and in to outgoing and confident (even though you are not and it will be a nerve racking emotional rollercoaster).
i've said several times that you have to TALK face to face with him. arrange to meet up. or may be on monday go to his workplace and force the issue. make your visit around lunchtime and force him to go to a local restaurant or out for a pic nic with you. now talk about why he has suddenly become distant and not showing any interest. be prepared for him to say the worst that he is not interested for (what ever his reasons). or may be he is interested and is just showing you that it does not botherhim one way or the other if you get together or not.
to be frank here having your potential girlfriends mother talk to you about dating her daughter especially if he is a shy guy is going to do your relationship more harm than good.
your mom should stay out of it and say nothing to him about you. and she should not be asking him to call you. that is a definate pashion killer.
so that could be the reason behind him not calling you.
next time you text him as no doubt you will, make sure to add:
';please tell me if you are not interested';.
that should get you a response. if no response after that within 24 hours then move on and lose his number. after telling him:
';sorry time is up i asked you repeatedly if you were interested and wanted a relationship, you ignored me. i'm moving on to find someone who is not so child like. I need a real man, one who can treat me how i want and deserve to be treated';.
the above message should be sent in as close to your own words as possible without changing the overall clarity of the message. and make sure to type in the clear not the sms short hand.
as far as has he lost interest, YES he could well have lost interest especially if your mom is confronting him about you and him.
before you write or speak to him get a pan and paper and write down all the questions you need an honest answer too from him.
instead of are you interested, ask :
are we friends?
do you want to be more than just friends?
are you looking for just fun?
do you want a full blown romantic relationship?
complete the list with your own questions.
make sure to ask him not in a text but on the phone by voice to voice communications.
now tell your mom you love her, BUT please butt out of interfeeering between you and this guy.
speaking as a shy guy, the absolute best way to kill the passiion a guy may have for a woman is if her mom gets involved and asks him to call. to the mothers face he is likely to say yes of course i'll call your daughter (substituting the daughters name for the words your daughter). however once the mother (potential mother in law goes away the guy will not call. no guy wants the mother in law interfeering in the romance he may have planned for the woman he wants to date. honourable and not so honourable intentions included in this.
he is likely to think if she is interfeering now what is she going to be like if i ever decide to marry the girl. not many guys want an interfeering mother-in-law. an interfeering mother in law is the best pasion killer on the planet.
sorry but I have to say you are acting like a school girl with her first crush here. if you are over 18 it is time to stop texting and start talking! if you're under 18 then time to go for a guy your own age.
good luck!!
When you are confused by a behavior pattern, suspect a lie. I suspect he's lying to you about being interested. If he acts like he's not interested (even though his words say he is interested) he's not interested. You can't make filet mignon out of turkey.
give him a couple of days if he likes u he will be in touch
Leave it a day or so and give him a call rather than a text.
sounds to me like he is a bit immature forget him because if he is this unreliable just now then further down the line it could only get worse and i`m sure you would agree that you are worth more than that, take care xx
personally i think you are putting him off. you still havent arranged anything yet so he isnt sure about you liking him.
i say stop texting him and talk to him instead. arrange to meet him ASAP
either that or he is playing about behind your back. talk to him.
Unless you are desperately in love with him, it would be better for you to leave the thing as it is.
You'd better not take your move first. He will get in touch with you if he really fancies you.
To be honest it sounds like he has, sorry xx
He then text me on friday and said that he is interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just let him know.He text me again later on and asked if he could call me soon but my battery went dead and he didn`t call,i sent him a text the following day and explained what happened and he didn`t reply.
My mum saw him last night in his work and got talking to him but she said he wasn`t his usuall chatty self and he told her he`d give me a call.He then text agin and asked if he could call me soon and i said yes,he didn`t call.So i just sent a text today and said if he`s not interested it`s totally fine and not to worry about it and he hasn`t even replied.Has he lost interest do you think,help??Guys advice needed,please?
When you like someone, you'll do almost anything to connect.
He hasn't made the effort, so far, and my guess is he's lost
interest (..or, wasn't interested in the first place..).
Chuck him aside and move on.Guys advice needed,please?
Maybe his battery is dead now.
for f u c k s sake woman just ring him an make him take u out! life is to short to mess around. just do it.
stop keep saying if he is not interested.
give him an ultimatum. either meet you for (pick something somewhere you like) or to forget you all together, because you are tired of his games.
that said if he is not his normal self, may be he has had a personal tragedy in his life, the death of a loved one for example or something equally devastating.
so phone and speak instead of texting. now ask him if there is anything on his mind he would like to talk to you about. and stress to him whatever it is you would like to know especially if you and he are ever going to be a couple. you have to start to trust each other and talk (text is fine but not in this case).
make sure that what ever it is you try not to judge him on what you hear.
be a friend to him first. without friendship how is a long term or even a mid term romance ever going to get off the ground.
this situation seems to have been going on for a while now. it is time you make the bold move to break out of being shy and in to outgoing and confident (even though you are not and it will be a nerve racking emotional rollercoaster).
i've said several times that you have to TALK face to face with him. arrange to meet up. or may be on monday go to his workplace and force the issue. make your visit around lunchtime and force him to go to a local restaurant or out for a pic nic with you. now talk about why he has suddenly become distant and not showing any interest. be prepared for him to say the worst that he is not interested for (what ever his reasons). or may be he is interested and is just showing you that it does not botherhim one way or the other if you get together or not.
to be frank here having your potential girlfriends mother talk to you about dating her daughter especially if he is a shy guy is going to do your relationship more harm than good.
your mom should stay out of it and say nothing to him about you. and she should not be asking him to call you. that is a definate pashion killer.
so that could be the reason behind him not calling you.
next time you text him as no doubt you will, make sure to add:
';please tell me if you are not interested';.
that should get you a response. if no response after that within 24 hours then move on and lose his number. after telling him:
';sorry time is up i asked you repeatedly if you were interested and wanted a relationship, you ignored me. i'm moving on to find someone who is not so child like. I need a real man, one who can treat me how i want and deserve to be treated';.
the above message should be sent in as close to your own words as possible without changing the overall clarity of the message. and make sure to type in the clear not the sms short hand.
as far as has he lost interest, YES he could well have lost interest especially if your mom is confronting him about you and him.
before you write or speak to him get a pan and paper and write down all the questions you need an honest answer too from him.
instead of are you interested, ask :
are we friends?
do you want to be more than just friends?
are you looking for just fun?
do you want a full blown romantic relationship?
complete the list with your own questions.
make sure to ask him not in a text but on the phone by voice to voice communications.
now tell your mom you love her, BUT please butt out of interfeeering between you and this guy.
speaking as a shy guy, the absolute best way to kill the passiion a guy may have for a woman is if her mom gets involved and asks him to call. to the mothers face he is likely to say yes of course i'll call your daughter (substituting the daughters name for the words your daughter). however once the mother (potential mother in law goes away the guy will not call. no guy wants the mother in law interfeering in the romance he may have planned for the woman he wants to date. honourable and not so honourable intentions included in this.
he is likely to think if she is interfeering now what is she going to be like if i ever decide to marry the girl. not many guys want an interfeering mother-in-law. an interfeering mother in law is the best pasion killer on the planet.
sorry but I have to say you are acting like a school girl with her first crush here. if you are over 18 it is time to stop texting and start talking! if you're under 18 then time to go for a guy your own age.
good luck!!
When you are confused by a behavior pattern, suspect a lie. I suspect he's lying to you about being interested. If he acts like he's not interested (even though his words say he is interested) he's not interested. You can't make filet mignon out of turkey.
give him a couple of days if he likes u he will be in touch
Leave it a day or so and give him a call rather than a text.
sounds to me like he is a bit immature forget him because if he is this unreliable just now then further down the line it could only get worse and i`m sure you would agree that you are worth more than that, take care xx
personally i think you are putting him off. you still havent arranged anything yet so he isnt sure about you liking him.
i say stop texting him and talk to him instead. arrange to meet him ASAP
either that or he is playing about behind your back. talk to him.
Unless you are desperately in love with him, it would be better for you to leave the thing as it is.
You'd better not take your move first. He will get in touch with you if he really fancies you.
To be honest it sounds like he has, sorry xx
Guys? advice please?
how do you make a guy like you? ive tried a whole bunch of things! like wearning like the prettiest things i have... some times i catch him looking at me, but that doesn't mean anything.... does it?Guys? advice please?
If he is looking at you it means something. Keep noticing how he looks at you. If he looks frequently or stares, he has an attraction to you. Just keep your eyes open to his looks. Try smiling back at him when he looks and take it from there. There may be more to it than you think right now. He may really be into you.Guys? advice please?
it means you're just a teasing little girl-NOT A WOMAN!!! GROW UP ALL YOU LITTLE GIRLS!!!
Go up and ask him out! You'll never know if you don't ask.
flirt with him, give him one of those looks that make them disire you when you walk by. notice the way he acts around you, it tells you alot. if he tries to make you laugh, smile, anything like that(especially trying to act cool) you'll know he likes you
If he is looking at you it means something. Keep noticing how he looks at you. If he looks frequently or stares, he has an attraction to you. Just keep your eyes open to his looks. Try smiling back at him when he looks and take it from there. There may be more to it than you think right now. He may really be into you.Guys? advice please?
it means you're just a teasing little girl-NOT A WOMAN!!! GROW UP ALL YOU LITTLE GIRLS!!!
Go up and ask him out! You'll never know if you don't ask.
flirt with him, give him one of those looks that make them disire you when you walk by. notice the way he acts around you, it tells you alot. if he tries to make you laugh, smile, anything like that(especially trying to act cool) you'll know he likes you
GUYS ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!?
Plz guys i need your advice!!!GUYS ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!?
Yes definately cute and a little smile with it makes it absolutely adorable, we fall head over heels for it
Yes definately cute and a little smile with it makes it absolutely adorable, we fall head over heels for it
Guys advice?
ok theres this guy that goes to my church and is cute sweet and sensitive. ok how do i get his attention? he always sits on the bottom and i always sit in the balcony with my PARENTS!! hes a tiny bit older than me please how do i get his attention GUYS? please answer before this sunday!Guys advice?
Well everyone has to enter and exit the church at some point, right?
When it's time to leave the church you could try to mingle a little so that you could meet him outside. It's a lot more rough though because you're with your parents. Make an excuse like you need to use the restroom and you'll meet them in the car, then try to catch him as he walks out the door and just give him a smile and a ';Hi.';
Good luck!Guys advice?
Wait for him outside the church with a friend, be talking so that it doesn't look like you are actually waiting for him, it may make him feel awkward. When he comes out say hi and try to get him into a conversation. Time after church is supposed to be for socializing, so socialize.
Dress propaly cloes for curch. Then, when all that finish, yours staff in the curch, on the way out ask him to meet tonight, then dress miniscurt, and sexy top. That, good look....
be honest to him tell him how u feel how much older is he
Well everyone has to enter and exit the church at some point, right?
When it's time to leave the church you could try to mingle a little so that you could meet him outside. It's a lot more rough though because you're with your parents. Make an excuse like you need to use the restroom and you'll meet them in the car, then try to catch him as he walks out the door and just give him a smile and a ';Hi.';
Good luck!Guys advice?
Wait for him outside the church with a friend, be talking so that it doesn't look like you are actually waiting for him, it may make him feel awkward. When he comes out say hi and try to get him into a conversation. Time after church is supposed to be for socializing, so socialize.
Dress propaly cloes for curch. Then, when all that finish, yours staff in the curch, on the way out ask him to meet tonight, then dress miniscurt, and sexy top. That, good look....
be honest to him tell him how u feel how much older is he
All I need is some advice...(Guys mostly but girls too)?
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Just go to the link that's where the actual question is...All I need is some advice...(Guys mostly but girls too)?
after wresting you know how there is like always a akward silence? well.. alot of guys i have been with like it when u just go at them and kiss them randomly so at that akward momment when ya are smiling at eachother just grab him like put your hands on his head like u know holding hishead andjust kiss him and then like mess with his hair while kissing him and then if he doesnt take it further which i know he will just smile at him he will think its really cute.. i have been in plenty of situations like these :)
have funAll I need is some advice...(Guys mostly but girls too)?
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Just go to the link that's where the actual question is...All I need is some advice...(Guys mostly but girls too)?
after wresting you know how there is like always a akward silence? well.. alot of guys i have been with like it when u just go at them and kiss them randomly so at that akward momment when ya are smiling at eachother just grab him like put your hands on his head like u know holding hishead andjust kiss him and then like mess with his hair while kissing him and then if he doesnt take it further which i know he will just smile at him he will think its really cute.. i have been in plenty of situations like these :)
have funAll I need is some advice...(Guys mostly but girls too)?
i cuoldn't answer i couldn't understand ur question
ok =D
Can anyone offer their advice(Guys too)?
Why would your guy risk an relationship for his female friends. I dont think they should be talking on the phone I think that it should be more a hi and bye thing im more of a friend that he will ever need, so why the friends? So i basically put my foot down and told him goodbye, Im also a leo and he is an aquarius, is this bad pairing? or am I being too selfcentered?Can anyone offer their advice(Guys too)?
okay yeah... i love horoscopes but i would never not date someone just because our signs don't pair well. i think its a little over the top to kick him to the curb for talking to friends... and he can't have just you as a friend it doesn't work that why.. though i see why your upset with him talking to other girls. but if he's just talking its not so bad. if he's given you a reason not to trust him then asking him to not be around female friends without you there is okay.Can anyone offer their advice(Guys too)?
Just because you're are dating doesnt mean that he cant have female friends. I had a similar problem a few months ago. you have to trust him. And its good tio have a variety of friends. No one can offer everthing that is needed in a friendship.
Horoscopes do not mean a damn thing my dear-guys can have all kinds of friends including girls. That does not mean that he wants you and that also does not mean he wants to ruin his current relationship. He is looking for a person that he can trust to tell everything too and for advise. Dont be so self centered.
Well you obviously don't like him that's for sure?
if his female friends were in the picture before you then you have no right to give him that kind of ultimatum. its not like its some chic he met on the way to the barber shop and thought she has a fat *** and just decided to exchange numbers this is an actual friend. if i was him and you gave me that kind of decision to make id say goodbye to you too. aquarians are air signs which means that you can't try and tie them down like that if they choose to be with you then thank your lucky stars but as soon as you try to lock them in with demands and things that's when they pretty much decide that its over.black lipstick
okay yeah... i love horoscopes but i would never not date someone just because our signs don't pair well. i think its a little over the top to kick him to the curb for talking to friends... and he can't have just you as a friend it doesn't work that why.. though i see why your upset with him talking to other girls. but if he's just talking its not so bad. if he's given you a reason not to trust him then asking him to not be around female friends without you there is okay.Can anyone offer their advice(Guys too)?
Just because you're are dating doesnt mean that he cant have female friends. I had a similar problem a few months ago. you have to trust him. And its good tio have a variety of friends. No one can offer everthing that is needed in a friendship.
Horoscopes do not mean a damn thing my dear-guys can have all kinds of friends including girls. That does not mean that he wants you and that also does not mean he wants to ruin his current relationship. He is looking for a person that he can trust to tell everything too and for advise. Dont be so self centered.
Well you obviously don't like him that's for sure?
if his female friends were in the picture before you then you have no right to give him that kind of ultimatum. its not like its some chic he met on the way to the barber shop and thought she has a fat *** and just decided to exchange numbers this is an actual friend. if i was him and you gave me that kind of decision to make id say goodbye to you too. aquarians are air signs which means that you can't try and tie them down like that if they choose to be with you then thank your lucky stars but as soon as you try to lock them in with demands and things that's when they pretty much decide that its over.
Hey guys need some advice with my weight :D?
Ok im 5ft and 13 st 7 yes iam embarrassed but i know i need t lose weight .I dont understand im active i dont get out of breath i eat healthy could someone who is knows what there talking about please steer me in the right direction?
p.s im a vegitarian just incase you tell me the right things to eat :D
thanks for all your help xxxHey guys need some advice with my weight :D?
i know how ya feel but my doctor put me on these pills (REDUCTIL) which really helped ive lost about 26 kilos in 3 months which is cool but i also ate right fruit and veg and walked my dog once a day. The only really bad side effects that i heard of are panic attacks but honestly that has not happened to me so ask ur gp. Good luck with ur journey and just remember it is a long process but if i can do it anyone can good luck again and let me know how u go LOL beccaHey guys need some advice with my weight :D?
You can be a vegitarian and still eat unhealthy. You might have a protein deficiency, which is one of the risks from being a vegetarian. If that's the case, you need more protein in your diet. Try eating things like soy beans, any type of nuts, grains, and nonfat dairy regularly. I'm sure you know to stay way from soda, sugars, and fats, even though you're a vegan :).
Also start a workout routine regularly (jogging, treadmill, whatever you like), instead of just ';being active';.
wut does 13 st 7 mean in pounds?
Go and have your thyroid tested. You might have a low Thyroid. does your hair fall out,? do you feel a bit lathargic? weight gain was my top clue to me testing my thryroid.
sure enough, it was low,
see your gp
Diet, exercise, plenty of sleep, plenty of water, cut way back on the alcohol.
what is your weight?
You need to keep track of your calorie intake. It doesn't matter what type of diet you're eating. Keep it to as close to 1200 calories a day (no less). Exercise...being ';active'; isn't enough here. You need to make a commitment to 30 or more minutes of sweat every day. So jog, run, aerobics..whatever you enjoy but you have to sweat. You should be huffing and puffing all the wat through. You should see about 2 to 3 pounds a week of healthy weight loss. The choice is yours..no one else can lose the weight for you..good luck
p.s im a vegitarian just incase you tell me the right things to eat :D
thanks for all your help xxxHey guys need some advice with my weight :D?
i know how ya feel but my doctor put me on these pills (REDUCTIL) which really helped ive lost about 26 kilos in 3 months which is cool but i also ate right fruit and veg and walked my dog once a day. The only really bad side effects that i heard of are panic attacks but honestly that has not happened to me so ask ur gp. Good luck with ur journey and just remember it is a long process but if i can do it anyone can good luck again and let me know how u go LOL beccaHey guys need some advice with my weight :D?
You can be a vegitarian and still eat unhealthy. You might have a protein deficiency, which is one of the risks from being a vegetarian. If that's the case, you need more protein in your diet. Try eating things like soy beans, any type of nuts, grains, and nonfat dairy regularly. I'm sure you know to stay way from soda, sugars, and fats, even though you're a vegan :).
Also start a workout routine regularly (jogging, treadmill, whatever you like), instead of just ';being active';.
wut does 13 st 7 mean in pounds?
Go and have your thyroid tested. You might have a low Thyroid. does your hair fall out,? do you feel a bit lathargic? weight gain was my top clue to me testing my thryroid.
sure enough, it was low,
see your gp
Diet, exercise, plenty of sleep, plenty of water, cut way back on the alcohol.
what is your weight?
You need to keep track of your calorie intake. It doesn't matter what type of diet you're eating. Keep it to as close to 1200 calories a day (no less). Exercise...being ';active'; isn't enough here. You need to make a commitment to 30 or more minutes of sweat every day. So jog, run, aerobics..whatever you enjoy but you have to sweat. You should be huffing and puffing all the wat through. You should see about 2 to 3 pounds a week of healthy weight loss. The choice is yours..no one else can lose the weight for you..good luck
Need a guys suggestions, went to the docs found out i have jock itch any advice what to do to stop the itch?
i did get ointment to put on it but doesnt seem to help. anyone wanna give me advice what to do?Need a guys suggestions, went to the docs found out i have jock itch any advice what to do to stop the itch?
yeast infection. and stop shaving your balls.that can cause the itch as well.Need a guys suggestions, went to the docs found out i have jock itch any advice what to do to stop the itch?
Does the cream have steroids in it? Jock itch is caused by yeast isn't it? Some creams come with a steroid called hydrocortisone that stops itching as well killing the fungus. Go back to your doctor and ask him if you can use this kind of cream for your infection. If you can it will help the itching.
it's cause by moisture in that area, use baby powder or some sort of body powder every morning and in the evening at home lay around in your under shorts for ventilation, preferably boxer type shorts.
yeast infection. and stop shaving your balls.that can cause the itch as well.Need a guys suggestions, went to the docs found out i have jock itch any advice what to do to stop the itch?
Does the cream have steroids in it? Jock itch is caused by yeast isn't it? Some creams come with a steroid called hydrocortisone that stops itching as well killing the fungus. Go back to your doctor and ask him if you can use this kind of cream for your infection. If you can it will help the itching.
it's cause by moisture in that area, use baby powder or some sort of body powder every morning and in the evening at home lay around in your under shorts for ventilation, preferably boxer type shorts.
Guyfriend, need advice! Guys, please answer, open to any advice!?
my guy friend has had a crush on a girl for a really long time now and the girl wants him to back of so that they can just be friends. He is like a sick dog and is obsessed with her. I've talk to him about sometimes he dosn't want to talk about it and other times he does. He has liked her for almost three years now! She has others guys ';that adore'; and they all hate each other for it. He is sooooo hot and so many girls would love to go out with him but he is to obsessed. I don't want to see him all depressed anymore, i always get stuck in the middle.
P.S. Yes i do like him he's hot who wouldn't. this girl
please an answer that will help me not you like him i figured that out on my own
PLEASE HELP WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE MER OR HIM!Guyfriend, need advice! Guys, please answer, open to any advice!?
if I was you, I would back off of him, he sounds wacko if he is obsessed with a girl that only wants to be his friendGuyfriend, need advice! Guys, please answer, open to any advice!?
I'd say stay out of the business until it settles down.
tell him the trust tell him u love him
P.S. Yes i do like him he's hot who wouldn't. this girl
please an answer that will help me not you like him i figured that out on my own
PLEASE HELP WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE MER OR HIM!Guyfriend, need advice! Guys, please answer, open to any advice!?
if I was you, I would back off of him, he sounds wacko if he is obsessed with a girl that only wants to be his friendGuyfriend, need advice! Guys, please answer, open to any advice!?
I'd say stay out of the business until it settles down.
tell him the trust tell him u love him
Ok I need advice. Guys and Girls! My boyfriend of 3 yrs is turning 21 pretty soon...?
and I don't know what to get him. Oh yeah I'm making him a cake or something like that, but what should I write on it? eg. Happy 21st B-day baby I love you? or what? I need some help here. I got money I work so that's no problem. w/e you think i should give him. thanx!Ok I need advice. Guys and Girls! My boyfriend of 3 yrs is turning 21 pretty soon...?
I dont know if you have talked about marriage but my first thought was what about a really nice bottle of champagne (or wine) for you to drink on your wedding night.
He is turning 21 so a good gift is a bartenders guide, and maybe some differant alcohols and mixers so he can make some differant drinks.
If you are trying to stay away from that type of gift another great gift is a book autographed by his favorite author. He would keep it forever.
Does he have Sirius Satalite radio? I got it for my b-day last month and its awesome! My wife got me a lifetime membership! But it was probably more that you want to spend. ($500 on sale for $400)
On my 18th birthday my dad's gf got me a really nice leather wallet for my birthday and I still have it.. (20 years ago) I had one of those velcro wallets from the 80's. Another good gift is a really nice watch.. but they are pretty pricey.
And you definitly have to pick some stuff up at Victoria's Secret!
I dont know if you have talked about marriage but my first thought was what about a really nice bottle of champagne (or wine) for you to drink on your wedding night.
He is turning 21 so a good gift is a bartenders guide, and maybe some differant alcohols and mixers so he can make some differant drinks.
If you are trying to stay away from that type of gift another great gift is a book autographed by his favorite author. He would keep it forever.
Does he have Sirius Satalite radio? I got it for my b-day last month and its awesome! My wife got me a lifetime membership! But it was probably more that you want to spend. ($500 on sale for $400)
On my 18th birthday my dad's gf got me a really nice leather wallet for my birthday and I still have it.. (20 years ago) I had one of those velcro wallets from the 80's. Another good gift is a really nice watch.. but they are pretty pricey.
And you definitly have to pick some stuff up at Victoria's Secret!
Need your advice guys,?
Which is the best to antivirus to use:
AVG or AVAST?
Thanks in advance
Tink xNeed your advice guys,?
avg 7.5Need your advice guys,?
i use ';NOD32'; ...works fine
and i use ';ad-Aware se professional';
Avast has more features but I have always found it to slow my PC down a lot.
I use avg and also run an online scan at http://usa.kaspersky.com/services/free-v鈥?/a> just for a bit more security
I like AVG
Avast was too hard to understand for me
avg
avg but be sure to download version 7.5
i'm not sure if they plan on including a spyware scanner on that but i also have adaware on my computer
both are free
edit-spyware, in excessive amounts, can be extremely destructive. it'll slow down your computer, and may cause pop-ups even when you're not online
a good tip-don't download anything from a site you can't trust! (such as smileycentral, or those free ringtones)
AVG and ADAWARE I use both and everything is fine.
avg 7.5
as long as it's always updated .. I think it will be the same
Download one and use it for a week or two. Remove it and do the same with the other. Now you can choose the one you like best.
Sorry I do not know.I use McAFee and it works well for me.My dad uses Norton and he likes that one.I would suggest one of these because I do not know enough about those two.
Yup, AVG by Grisoft is definately ';The Best';--NOT! Unfortunately one of the things it is not the best at is doing what is is supposed to do, detecting viruses!
In short, AVG is crap!
In test,
http://www.virus.gr/english/fullxml/defa鈥?/a>
after test,
http://www.av-comparatives.org/
after test,
http://antivirus.about.com/od/antiviruss鈥?/a>
after test ,
http://www.wilderssecurity.com/showpost.鈥?/a>
after test,
http://www.pcworld.com/article/124475-1/鈥?/a> ,
etc. etc. etc, ad nauseam.
AVG has proven itself to be a mediocre performer at best. Missing almost 20%, while trying to detect known malware, in some tests. Not to mention almost non-existent heuristic detection and infrequent ';once-a day'; updates.
AVG = Average, at best!
In my opinion, Both of those antivirus programs are the same in the way that they do their job. What you have to consider is whether or not the program is free to use forever, or if it is free a certain amount of days. As for me, i have AVG, but i get a notice everytime i turn on my computer saying that it won't be free anymore on the 15th of this month. But i would suggest AVG because it is a user-friendly program; it is not a complicated antivirus program to use. Hope this helps. =)
I would not choose ether one! Norton is the best antivirus software! I have used many different types of antivirus and Norton is the best! I have had many people try to get a virus into my computer to no end but it never works because norton is always on it!
AVG or AVAST?
Thanks in advance
Tink xNeed your advice guys,?
avg 7.5Need your advice guys,?
i use ';NOD32'; ...works fine
and i use ';ad-Aware se professional';
Avast has more features but I have always found it to slow my PC down a lot.
I use avg and also run an online scan at http://usa.kaspersky.com/services/free-v鈥?/a> just for a bit more security
I like AVG
Avast was too hard to understand for me
avg
avg but be sure to download version 7.5
i'm not sure if they plan on including a spyware scanner on that but i also have adaware on my computer
both are free
edit-spyware, in excessive amounts, can be extremely destructive. it'll slow down your computer, and may cause pop-ups even when you're not online
a good tip-don't download anything from a site you can't trust! (such as smileycentral, or those free ringtones)
AVG and ADAWARE I use both and everything is fine.
avg 7.5
as long as it's always updated .. I think it will be the same
Download one and use it for a week or two. Remove it and do the same with the other. Now you can choose the one you like best.
Sorry I do not know.I use McAFee and it works well for me.My dad uses Norton and he likes that one.I would suggest one of these because I do not know enough about those two.
Yup, AVG by Grisoft is definately ';The Best';--NOT! Unfortunately one of the things it is not the best at is doing what is is supposed to do, detecting viruses!
In short, AVG is crap!
In test,
http://www.virus.gr/english/fullxml/defa鈥?/a>
after test,
http://www.av-comparatives.org/
after test,
http://antivirus.about.com/od/antiviruss鈥?/a>
after test ,
http://www.wilderssecurity.com/showpost.鈥?/a>
after test,
http://www.pcworld.com/article/124475-1/鈥?/a> ,
etc. etc. etc, ad nauseam.
AVG has proven itself to be a mediocre performer at best. Missing almost 20%, while trying to detect known malware, in some tests. Not to mention almost non-existent heuristic detection and infrequent ';once-a day'; updates.
AVG = Average, at best!
In my opinion, Both of those antivirus programs are the same in the way that they do their job. What you have to consider is whether or not the program is free to use forever, or if it is free a certain amount of days. As for me, i have AVG, but i get a notice everytime i turn on my computer saying that it won't be free anymore on the 15th of this month. But i would suggest AVG because it is a user-friendly program; it is not a complicated antivirus program to use. Hope this helps. =)
I would not choose ether one! Norton is the best antivirus software! I have used many different types of antivirus and Norton is the best! I have had many people try to get a virus into my computer to no end but it never works because norton is always on it!
I need advice GUYS!!?
I need help! My ex asked me to have drinks, and now he's ignoring me but we had a convo for about 3 hours and at the end he said be good? Does he not know what he wants or is he using me for a ego boost? It seems like he wants me, but doesn't want to see me in person because then he knows it could possibly go somewhere...or am I being a dumb girl?I need advice GUYS!!?
First of all stay away from drugs and alcohol. That's the best thing that you could do for yourself and if you ever have sex before marriage, use condoms. This a hard question because there is not enough detail. He could be using you for an ego boost if he doesn't want to meet you in person. If a guy is being like that it means he's either too shy to meet you or he is trying to stalk you, but, I don't know the answer to that. If he knows that the relationship could possibly go somewhere, then it just means that he's probably not ready for a relationship.I need advice GUYS!!?
When you like someone you want to see them. He doesn't sound shy, so I would ask him what the deal is.
Most of the time it is not a good idea to get back, with your ex. Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place.
And could you answer mine
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move on to a real man
YA UR DUMPED....GIRL.....JUST SAY **** OFF TO HIM,..AND FIND NEW GUY....HAVE FUN HAVE BLAST....U'LL BE ALRIGHT...:)black lipstick
First of all stay away from drugs and alcohol. That's the best thing that you could do for yourself and if you ever have sex before marriage, use condoms. This a hard question because there is not enough detail. He could be using you for an ego boost if he doesn't want to meet you in person. If a guy is being like that it means he's either too shy to meet you or he is trying to stalk you, but, I don't know the answer to that. If he knows that the relationship could possibly go somewhere, then it just means that he's probably not ready for a relationship.I need advice GUYS!!?
When you like someone you want to see them. He doesn't sound shy, so I would ask him what the deal is.
Most of the time it is not a good idea to get back, with your ex. Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place.
And could you answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
move on to a real man
YA UR DUMPED....GIRL.....JUST SAY **** OFF TO HIM,..AND FIND NEW GUY....HAVE FUN HAVE BLAST....U'LL BE ALRIGHT...:)
I need advice guys help?
ok there's this guy at walmart that is so totally cute, i like him alot and idk how to tell him i only have seen him once, id like to get to know him b4 i start a relationship if it happens, but idk if he has a gf he's good looking he may have a gf how would i ask him or tell him that i like him i dk if he likes me like that what should i do should i ask him or wait till he asks me.I need advice guys help?
Try to consciously make eye contact with him or bump into him several times more but without talking. After this, both of you should be familiar with each other casually, then you can go up to him and start a conversation.I need advice guys help?
Such things are best done through 3rd party friends....who could do a recon mission to first see if he's available...that's he's straight....When that hurdle is over....you can make your move....
Good for him.
This is the only thing that I can say, cos im 34 and never had a wife or girlfriend !
Try to consciously make eye contact with him or bump into him several times more but without talking. After this, both of you should be familiar with each other casually, then you can go up to him and start a conversation.I need advice guys help?
Such things are best done through 3rd party friends....who could do a recon mission to first see if he's available...that's he's straight....When that hurdle is over....you can make your move....
Good for him.
This is the only thing that I can say, cos im 34 and never had a wife or girlfriend !
Advice please when a guy looks at me that I don't know I get really shy?
If a cute stranger looks my way I get shy and look away. Any advice?Advice please when a guy looks at me that I don't know I get really shy?
It may just be because you aren't really used to cute guys looking your way. But pretty girls aren't supposed to be shy. That's my motto and I'm taking it with me to my grave but, try having more confidence but not too much. Wouldn't want guys to think you're arrogant, even though I'm sure you aren't. Anyway, if a cute guy were to look at me and stare me down with interest, I'd flirt without words. Actions speak louder than words, correct? So, if he looks at you, hold his gaze so that he'll have time to look you over. he may want to capture your dazzling smile. Maybe, by looking in your eyes, he can tell if you're interested or not. If you are, send signals but not flirty types. Like i said, capture his gaze and then break it so that he can have enough courage to come and talk to you...unless he's shy also. Well, I hope I helped you! have a nice day and take care.Advice please when a guy looks at me that I don't know I get really shy?
ur just shy it works both ways when a girl looks at me i turn away then i always end up regretting it. try to not break eye contact just try not to stare to long lol
It may just be because you aren't really used to cute guys looking your way. But pretty girls aren't supposed to be shy. That's my motto and I'm taking it with me to my grave but, try having more confidence but not too much. Wouldn't want guys to think you're arrogant, even though I'm sure you aren't. Anyway, if a cute guy were to look at me and stare me down with interest, I'd flirt without words. Actions speak louder than words, correct? So, if he looks at you, hold his gaze so that he'll have time to look you over. he may want to capture your dazzling smile. Maybe, by looking in your eyes, he can tell if you're interested or not. If you are, send signals but not flirty types. Like i said, capture his gaze and then break it so that he can have enough courage to come and talk to you...unless he's shy also. Well, I hope I helped you! have a nice day and take care.Advice please when a guy looks at me that I don't know I get really shy?
ur just shy it works both ways when a girl looks at me i turn away then i always end up regretting it. try to not break eye contact just try not to stare to long lol
Ok, I met 2 really great guys, which one should I date? I need advice!!!?
I'm 18 and in high school and I'm torn between 2 guys! One of the guys is about 5'10'; and kinda cute but not necessarily the type I usually go for. He's sweet, funny, and respectful and I've known him a very long time. He's also friends with all my friends. The other guy is gorgeous but he's my height (about 5'5';) and he's really nice and funny as well. But, all his friends are younger girls who are known for putting out and his guy friends are kind of rude. Both of the guys like me though and I like both of them. Which one sounds like a better choice and why? I want to make sure i'm not going to be put into a situation I am not comfortable with.Ok, I met 2 really great guys, which one should I date? I need advice!!!?
Go with the guy that is respectful b/c he will care for you more and also he obviously gets along with YOUR friends and thats a good sign. Looks will change over time, usually the core of a person wont change. Im just talking from experience. You'll be so much happier. Good luck hope all is well. ;)Ok, I met 2 really great guys, which one should I date? I need advice!!!?
A guy who is good friends with your friends is priceless. He already knows how to deal with girls, and if he's in the same circle as you it's a lot easier in a relationship. The first guy, totally. Maybe just cuz it sounds like a description of myself, but go for him anyways!
Good Luck!
--Max
what do you base your decision on? whether the guy is physically attractive and have friends that you can click with or whether he alone could really make you happy? there are pros n cons to have a boyfriend whose friends are your friends too...
skip the thought of dating for the time-being... take your time to think things thru. it may be just infatuations thats making you be in such a dilemma....
if youre looking for a friendship you will always cherish you choose the first one...
if you just wanna have fun, 2nd guy sounds like a good choice.
I麓m not much of a ';love the one you麓re with right now'; kind of girl so number one would be mi pick.
Date them both. You won't know until you try. Don't commit.
Avery honey, for you it'll be a 3some, for them, its gonna be their first gay experience.
a little 2 on 1 might help you figure it out
Go along with the one who's friends with your friends...
unless you're willing to be known for putting out and hanging around rude guys.
pick the one you have more in common with...
who do u feel more comfortable with? Height doe no meen anything. U like em both but u gotta let ur heart think it through
pick the one your most comfortable with
I like the first one, he sounds sweet. even if he's not as cute as the other one i would pick him.
the one u think he wants u more and u think he will make anything to make u happy sweetie
Go with the guy that is respectful b/c he will care for you more and also he obviously gets along with YOUR friends and thats a good sign. Looks will change over time, usually the core of a person wont change. Im just talking from experience. You'll be so much happier. Good luck hope all is well. ;)Ok, I met 2 really great guys, which one should I date? I need advice!!!?
A guy who is good friends with your friends is priceless. He already knows how to deal with girls, and if he's in the same circle as you it's a lot easier in a relationship. The first guy, totally. Maybe just cuz it sounds like a description of myself, but go for him anyways!
Good Luck!
--Max
what do you base your decision on? whether the guy is physically attractive and have friends that you can click with or whether he alone could really make you happy? there are pros n cons to have a boyfriend whose friends are your friends too...
skip the thought of dating for the time-being... take your time to think things thru. it may be just infatuations thats making you be in such a dilemma....
if youre looking for a friendship you will always cherish you choose the first one...
if you just wanna have fun, 2nd guy sounds like a good choice.
I麓m not much of a ';love the one you麓re with right now'; kind of girl so number one would be mi pick.
Date them both. You won't know until you try. Don't commit.
Avery honey, for you it'll be a 3some, for them, its gonna be their first gay experience.
a little 2 on 1 might help you figure it out
Go along with the one who's friends with your friends...
unless you're willing to be known for putting out and hanging around rude guys.
pick the one you have more in common with...
who do u feel more comfortable with? Height doe no meen anything. U like em both but u gotta let ur heart think it through
pick the one your most comfortable with
I like the first one, he sounds sweet. even if he's not as cute as the other one i would pick him.
the one u think he wants u more and u think he will make anything to make u happy sweetie
Can you guys help me in screaming? I would like some advices on how to scream. Pretty please?
I am a girl and I am 16 years old. I know that not many girls who like screamo but I don't care about that. Look, I really love how Angela from Arch Enemy and Gerard from My Chemical Romance screams so how do I scream like them?Can you guys help me in screaming? I would like some advices on how to scream. Pretty please?
This could be very dangerous if you don't know how to do it properly.. Even if you dont feel any kind of pain this could cause you problems in the vocal chords. Of course you are doing something wrong because this is not the way you have to sing, speaK. For further details follow that link
http://miketheblacksheep.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>Can you guys help me in screaming? I would like some advices on how to scream. Pretty please?
Simply imagine you're a dinosaur.
This could be very dangerous if you don't know how to do it properly.. Even if you dont feel any kind of pain this could cause you problems in the vocal chords. Of course you are doing something wrong because this is not the way you have to sing, speaK. For further details follow that link
http://miketheblacksheep.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>Can you guys help me in screaming? I would like some advices on how to scream. Pretty please?
Simply imagine you're a dinosaur.
This is for the guys! How come most of the guys i know talk to other girls but not me?Any advice to stop this?
maybe you dont stand out enough
look at the girls that the guys talk to, and see what they do that you dont
but I dont recommend that yuo change yourself just so boys will approach you......stay the way you are, and then you will know that when a boy does approach you, its because he's interested in the real youThis is for the guys! How come most of the guys i know talk to other girls but not me?Any advice to stop this?
They probably think you're too shy. Have you tried talking to them?This is for the guys! How come most of the guys i know talk to other girls but not me?Any advice to stop this?
start wearin tight shirts and short skirts that will get their attention
Are You Serious?
either they are too nervous or you are not wearing what turns them on.
To stop your problem this second I suggest wearing skirts because they are soo sexy and irresistible to guys!
can you be more specific?
Try smiling, maybe you are being too serious or shy.
look at the girls that the guys talk to, and see what they do that you dont
but I dont recommend that yuo change yourself just so boys will approach you......stay the way you are, and then you will know that when a boy does approach you, its because he's interested in the real youThis is for the guys! How come most of the guys i know talk to other girls but not me?Any advice to stop this?
They probably think you're too shy. Have you tried talking to them?This is for the guys! How come most of the guys i know talk to other girls but not me?Any advice to stop this?
start wearin tight shirts and short skirts that will get their attention
Are You Serious?
either they are too nervous or you are not wearing what turns them on.
To stop your problem this second I suggest wearing skirts because they are soo sexy and irresistible to guys!
can you be more specific?
Try smiling, maybe you are being too serious or shy.
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