Should i just stay away from dating guys for a while??? need some good advice :] thankks in advance?

Okay, everytime i get close to a guy even if its just a month relationship or something.. we slowly fall apart like i will feel like he hates me all the time and i will just break up with him.








my last relationship ended this way right after thanksgiving and he told his friends he didnt know what happened








im only 14;; but i feel like having a boyfriend keeps me together. im independent for the simple fact i do not need anybody to help me with life. i just love being with a guy that i know thinks im the hottest thing ever, and lieks me alot. guys can say it but i dont think it means much unless we are going out..





should i just stay away from guys for a while?





should i reject them until im older?


i feel bad being like noo.. but i dont


rlly know if its best for me or not.





%26amp;%26amp; i wanna know why im so attracted to jerks.


when guys get jelous of me talking to other guys


and wanting to kill them for talking 2 me.. i love it.


why is that?





thanks :]Should i just stay away from dating guys for a while??? need some good advice :] thankks in advance?
You sound like one fo my friends who has never gone a day without a boyfriend.





I think you should take a break because you are only 14 and it seems like you don't focus on yourself, but on the guy. I only fear that if you keep this up, you are going to fall into bad relationship after bad relationship. My friend is never happy in her relationships because she ends up talking to a new guy, and drifts away from her old boyfriend. Then all the guys get jealous because they want her. It kind of sounds like the problem you have now.





It might not be so bad now since your younger, but one you get into highschool it could cause some damage on you. You might be unhappy because you can't seem to get into a good relationship and you might get a reputation of being a tease, which could drive some guys away.





I'm not telling you to take a break exactly, but before you date someone, make sure that you really like them and that your relationship can last longer than a month. Don't just date a guy just to date them, make sure they treat you like a queen. Just slow down and think before you date.Should i just stay away from dating guys for a while??? need some good advice :] thankks in advance?
You luv attension thts true but let the boys come to you your only 14 hun, try goin on a few dates to get to know them first this way you may realise if it will work or not x
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Hey hun, don't worry, i know the feeling. I feel like sometimes having a guy like me is the greatest. This is because you always feel that no matter how much u feel down, you always know theres somebody out there who likes you, and wants you. That would be why u always want a BF. But, let me tell you, that sometimes its not good breaking up and hooking up. Its just insercurity. You say your independant, and thats good, but part of it is being w.o a guy. Try stopping dating for a while, and take it slowly. Learn to be really independant, and not rely on a guy for security :] I hope that helps!
hun,


you like attention...its ok just be a little more judgemental and try to realize that they guys who don't want to kill a guy if you talk to him are the better guys for you...