Girls & guys - need some advice?

girls - you may have been in my shoes


guys - what would you want a girl to do





so basically, there's this guy who i'm fairly good friends with, and recently he's become really flirty all the time. i know where this is leading to, but idon'tt want to be more than friends. i'm not attracted to him and i can't see myself in arelationshipp with him at all.


thing is, i can't really dismiss his comments, and usually i change the subject, but i get on well with him and he's a bit cheeky anyway.





i've had this before with guys, and the same applies when they start to over-compliment etc.





i don't want to lead him astray, but i cant confront him and be like ' i don't want to be more than friends' because hhasn'tnt actually said he wanted to be, so it could back fire and make me like like an idiot.





i'm not a *****, i want to do something now before he gets the wrong idea!





thanks xGirls %26amp; guys - need some advice?
Maybe next time you're hanging out you could casually bring your friendship up in the conversations. Then say something like, ';I'm glad we're such good friends, its nice to have a male friend w/o having to worry about whether or not its going to turn into something more.'; Thats fairly subtle and it doesn't necessarily mean that you thought he was trying to take it further. Just a suggestion...Girls %26amp; guys - need some advice?
well just dismiss it as you have been, still give him the impression you want to be friends, by being really friendly, but only show him theres nothing more.. you obvioulsy want to keep this friend, so dont give him the hint that you are interested. you may feel kinda awkward, but if it does not go well, you may have to lose this friend.
Just leave him to it for now, but don't lead him on. When it comes to the point where he actually says something just say you can't see yourself in a relationship and that you love him to much as a friend. Good Luck (: x
nothing you can do about it, you want to be friends with him, but you bring this behavior out of him. The best thing you can do is get guy friends that you are attracted to in the future.
I think you don't need to change anything your doing. You aren't feeding it back to him so he's got to get the point eventually. and if he doesn't you Have to tell him!
relax don't think about it and try to be around Friends when he talks to u also u can ignore him which works all the time and if he asks u tell him u have a bf
try and include the words- you and me can never be more than just be friends as many times as possible he will get it and hopefully he will change but guys do not easily give up
tell him straight up you do not like him that way and want to still be friends.
well there was this guy i was friends with. he wasnt cute and i only wanted to be friends. he started walking me to one of my classes cuz his was next to mine. i thot it was just company so i was like whatever. well one day my ';friend'; came up and asked if we were going out and i was gonna say no but he grabbed my hand and said yes. i thot he was just wanted to trick them so i didnt say anything. when my ';friend'; left he was still holding my hand. i tried to pull away but still held my hand. so i told him im going the opposite way and he let me go. later that day my friends and brother told me i didnt kno u were going out with him.i told them no its a joke and they said he is telling everyone we r. i avoided him for 2 days til we had class together. than when he tried to kiss me i told him i didnt want a boyfriend. he ended up tellin everyone that he was too much of a man for me. so i guess u can say that u dont want a bf. sorry that was long.
Maybe do something that would put him off but not make him hate you? Like find out something that annoys him and do it, if he is a good friend he will stay friends through it. Or say something like, ';I'm so glad to have you as my friend'; and emphasize ';friend';. Also while your with him try not to make physical contact (like hugs). And i know you said you change the subject but maybe you need to show absolutely 0% interest, don't smile if he complements you, just say a blunt ';thanks';. And don't complement him for any reason. I may sound harsh, take my advise or not but if he doesn't get the message after that he is too determined and you might just need to tell him you want to stay friends.





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You could just simply ask him why he has recently become more flirtatious and ask him to stop.





Hope this helps!





Dom