if a girl you like says hi to you how do you say ';hi'; back to show you like her? what about a guy who is shy?
what about a girl you dont like?Hey ';guys'; i was wondering?...if girls kno il take advice there too?
Like suck it off like already..........Miss F
I say shut up. '; speak when spoken to';............The Pro fHey ';guys'; i was wondering?...if girls kno il take advice there too?
First of all if a person says hi it would be rude not to reply at all. If you like her say, ';Hi, how are you';? and make sure you are smiling; then try and strike up a conversation.
If a girl that you don't like says hi, just return the greeting with a hi and leave it at that.
You always say Hi back when someone say Hi to you....
Just a matter of good manners...
Then you can go on start talking to that person if you like that person and you are interested to getting to know more about this person..
When he/she is shy...be careful in your approach make sure he/she will be comfortable with the situation..
If I like her, I'd show enthusiasm. If I don't, I'd just show politeness. Unless she was ultra repulsive (like one of those ';are you kidding me?'; situations) then I might just ignore her.
if the girls says 'hi' you say 'hi' back!
it'll show her that you're not afraid to talk to her.
just by saying 'hi' probably won't show her you like her
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Saturday, July 31, 2010
Need sum advice... has to be in ireland guys!?
um ok i might be getting this really nicely bred horse and my bro and dad love riding too... i really would love a sand arena and it would be way easier on the horses and us for jumping... our land is very very very soggy and wet in the winter aswell... i have to break it to u the budget wud not be the highest... can you guys please tell me about outdoor sand arenas and can u give me an esitmate... i think i have room for a 20by 30 arena not sure... i no theres not a lot to go by but just sum basic advice wud be great.. and an estimate... thanks xxxxNeed sum advice... has to be in ireland guys!?
Hi,
I'm getting a crumb rubber/silica mix about the same size as yours. You'll need to put in some some good drainage first(much cheaper if you DIY) Without good drainage especially with the weather we are having you are wasting your time! Link: http://www.gpcork.com/services.php?title鈥?/a>
You will need about 100 tons of silica (haven't priced yet was told to ring road-stone for a quote) and 23 tons of rubber (鈧?,200 www.crumbrubber.ie ph:042 93 82 611)
If I can help you with anything else just add details =)
EDIT: 20x30 - Slightly small but fine to practice some flatwork when your land is boggy
20x40 -standard arena size which will allow room to do two 20m circles or serpentine
Either will be fine, but the 20x40 would be ideal. It 's only for your family not a riding school.
If you use a fence line or wall for one or two of the sides you could save a lot of money on fencing.
Pictures: 20x40
http://www.whisperingpines.net.au/arena.鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ie/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>Need sum advice... has to be in ireland guys!?
I have ridden in a sandy wax areana and its nice to ride on.
See this link below and this should help ya
http://www.cushiontrackfooting.com/
20 x 30
is very small as the other person said it will put pressure on the horses bones and tendons !
x
hey - I have to say I think a 20 x 30 arena would be very small hun - most standard arenas are at least 30 x 80 - you need an arena this size, as smaller arenas can put pressure on horses tendons due to smaller circles and turns which isnt a good thing.
you'd need to dig down deep to get good drainage - then put a layer of rocks and stones which need to be covered over by sand - if you give the likes of John A Woods or Roadstone a ring they should be able to quote you, but I do know Wexford Sand makes a fantastic surface. Whether you leave it as sand, or choose to add in the likes of carpet or rubber surfacing with it then is entirely up to you
xx
Hi,
I'm getting a crumb rubber/silica mix about the same size as yours. You'll need to put in some some good drainage first(much cheaper if you DIY) Without good drainage especially with the weather we are having you are wasting your time! Link: http://www.gpcork.com/services.php?title鈥?/a>
You will need about 100 tons of silica (haven't priced yet was told to ring road-stone for a quote) and 23 tons of rubber (鈧?,200 www.crumbrubber.ie ph:042 93 82 611)
If I can help you with anything else just add details =)
EDIT: 20x30 - Slightly small but fine to practice some flatwork when your land is boggy
20x40 -standard arena size which will allow room to do two 20m circles or serpentine
Either will be fine, but the 20x40 would be ideal. It 's only for your family not a riding school.
If you use a fence line or wall for one or two of the sides you could save a lot of money on fencing.
Pictures: 20x40
http://www.whisperingpines.net.au/arena.鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ie/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>Need sum advice... has to be in ireland guys!?
I have ridden in a sandy wax areana and its nice to ride on.
See this link below and this should help ya
http://www.cushiontrackfooting.com/
20 x 30
is very small as the other person said it will put pressure on the horses bones and tendons !
x
hey - I have to say I think a 20 x 30 arena would be very small hun - most standard arenas are at least 30 x 80 - you need an arena this size, as smaller arenas can put pressure on horses tendons due to smaller circles and turns which isnt a good thing.
you'd need to dig down deep to get good drainage - then put a layer of rocks and stones which need to be covered over by sand - if you give the likes of John A Woods or Roadstone a ring they should be able to quote you, but I do know Wexford Sand makes a fantastic surface. Whether you leave it as sand, or choose to add in the likes of carpet or rubber surfacing with it then is entirely up to you
xx
What does it mean when a guy doesnt call back? (mostly guy advice )?
Does it really mean that he is not interested or could it be another reason. But he really seems interested besides when he gave me his number he wrote it so hard and deep into my hand that it didnt erase until after 3 days,eventhough i washed my hands and even took a shower twice. please help me. should i call him again or not? i really like this guy.What does it mean when a guy doesnt call back? (mostly guy advice )?
Maybe he's just been a little busy. If he gave you his number, give him a call and just see what's up.What does it mean when a guy doesnt call back? (mostly guy advice )?
If you called him the first time, you may want to give him a week...you don't want to sound desperate for this guy. After about a week and a half call him up again...if he hasn't returned your call, there could also be other factors such as him being busy, losing your number, he never recieved your missed call, or just simply isn't interested in you. I would wait for a while say 2 weeks after your first call before I try initiating something back again...because it just screams out desperate. You don't want him to think you are clingy kind of girl. Goodluck
Maybe he's just been a little busy. If he gave you his number, give him a call and just see what's up.What does it mean when a guy doesnt call back? (mostly guy advice )?
If you called him the first time, you may want to give him a week...you don't want to sound desperate for this guy. After about a week and a half call him up again...if he hasn't returned your call, there could also be other factors such as him being busy, losing your number, he never recieved your missed call, or just simply isn't interested in you. I would wait for a while say 2 weeks after your first call before I try initiating something back again...because it just screams out desperate. You don't want him to think you are clingy kind of girl. Goodluck
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Need some advice on online dating with older guys.?
How do I tell him no?
Help Please! My two friends BOTH love me!?
I'd just like some advice...what you'd do if you were and personal experience would be nice too. Please don't be too judgmental.
I met them both on the internet.
We all talk all the time. On the phone..webcam..texting.
I'm thirteen and I really love the second friend. We are like totally on the same page as each other. Sometimes he annoys the hell out of me but I love him just the same. We really are perfect for each other.
First friend told me he loved a few days ago.
He is eighteen.
I've known him for five years.
He lives an hour away.
He has loved me for three years.
I don't love him back.
Second friend told me he loved me around Thanksgiving.
He is sixteen.
I've known him for three years.
He lives a half hour away.
He has loved me for six months.
I love him back.
They are like brothers and they've been friends for a very long time. I don't know what to say to the second friend with out hurting him. I really don't want to come in between their frienship either.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and to respond.Need some advice on online dating with older guys.?
I'm also dating an older guy and I know his brother is so in love with me. The younger one is hotter. But i think the older one is better for my reputation.Need some advice on online dating with older guys.?
You have to tell the older one that your too young to date an 18 year old, he should know better, the sixteen y o is ok I suppose, he shouldnt be telling you things like this but should see you simply as a sister.
You're going to get someone thrown in jail and ruin their life forever as a sex offender. STOP.
The 18 year old is disgusting for trying to take advantage of you. They might be filling your head up so they can meet you and attack you.
LMFAO to Dont taze ..that was funny .
how did you get in such mess anyways?
if you don't want to come in between their friendship
then don't get with neither. simple.
Hun, these guys could be sexual predators. Please stop talking to them. Online sexual predators do pretend to be teens to lure teens.
okay, let me see...
this eighteen year old has loved you since you were ten? there is something seriously wrong with this. you should probably stop.
Hi, I'm Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC.
I'd like you to have a seat.
I would not be online dating. Wait until your 25!
I think you being 13 and having 2 guys who claim they love you and they are both older. I think they are looking to get laid. No 18 year old should ever want to hook up with a 13 year old it is wrong. I question his judgment. The 16 year old also is too old for you. You may be at the same maturity level but the fact remains is he is 16. He is most likely in grade 10 or 11 and you are probably grade 7 and when you think about it that way he is way ahead of you. If you do not want to come in between them tell them both you can not be with either one because someone would get hurt.
Tell the first guy.
You do know that it's illegal for an 18 year old and a 13 year old to be involved in anything sexual (not saying you will be) because you're a minor. And anyway. You don't like him, just say ';I'm not interested in a relationship sorry'; or whatever.
By the way, the word ';love'; goes way beyond. I had the same situation, but my first guy understood that I wasn't interested in him, and now we're good friends.
Just be honest and don't beat around the bush; guys only think in a straight line, so be direct (but not blunt or tactless)
No, no, no, no, no. 13?? That is wayyy too young to be online dating. ESPECIALLY 16 and 18-year-olds. No offense, but why would an 18-year-old have any interest in a 13-year-old? That's wrong. Not only wrong, it's ILLEGAL. Do your parents know about these people?
Also, you don't really know them. You know how they act virtually, not in person. Those things are completely different. Stories like this are always, always the same. ';I met this guy online, and sure he's a bit older, but he completely understands me and no one else does.'; No, he doesn't. He's faking it, trying to get closer to you. That's when people get hurt. Then people think, ';No one else would understand our relationship... I really love him and I don't want my parents to get in the way, so I'll keep it a secret...'; THAT'S when things go bad.
You may feel like you know these guys, but you don't. And for five years? You started online dating when you were seven? Something isn't quite matching up here...
Help Please! My two friends BOTH love me!?
I'd just like some advice...what you'd do if you were and personal experience would be nice too. Please don't be too judgmental.
I met them both on the internet.
We all talk all the time. On the phone..webcam..texting.
I'm thirteen and I really love the second friend. We are like totally on the same page as each other. Sometimes he annoys the hell out of me but I love him just the same. We really are perfect for each other.
First friend told me he loved a few days ago.
He is eighteen.
I've known him for five years.
He lives an hour away.
He has loved me for three years.
I don't love him back.
Second friend told me he loved me around Thanksgiving.
He is sixteen.
I've known him for three years.
He lives a half hour away.
He has loved me for six months.
I love him back.
They are like brothers and they've been friends for a very long time. I don't know what to say to the second friend with out hurting him. I really don't want to come in between their frienship either.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and to respond.Need some advice on online dating with older guys.?
I'm also dating an older guy and I know his brother is so in love with me. The younger one is hotter. But i think the older one is better for my reputation.Need some advice on online dating with older guys.?
You have to tell the older one that your too young to date an 18 year old, he should know better, the sixteen y o is ok I suppose, he shouldnt be telling you things like this but should see you simply as a sister.
You're going to get someone thrown in jail and ruin their life forever as a sex offender. STOP.
The 18 year old is disgusting for trying to take advantage of you. They might be filling your head up so they can meet you and attack you.
LMFAO to Dont taze ..that was funny .
how did you get in such mess anyways?
if you don't want to come in between their friendship
then don't get with neither. simple.
Hun, these guys could be sexual predators. Please stop talking to them. Online sexual predators do pretend to be teens to lure teens.
okay, let me see...
this eighteen year old has loved you since you were ten? there is something seriously wrong with this. you should probably stop.
Hi, I'm Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC.
I'd like you to have a seat.
I would not be online dating. Wait until your 25!
I think you being 13 and having 2 guys who claim they love you and they are both older. I think they are looking to get laid. No 18 year old should ever want to hook up with a 13 year old it is wrong. I question his judgment. The 16 year old also is too old for you. You may be at the same maturity level but the fact remains is he is 16. He is most likely in grade 10 or 11 and you are probably grade 7 and when you think about it that way he is way ahead of you. If you do not want to come in between them tell them both you can not be with either one because someone would get hurt.
Tell the first guy.
You do know that it's illegal for an 18 year old and a 13 year old to be involved in anything sexual (not saying you will be) because you're a minor. And anyway. You don't like him, just say ';I'm not interested in a relationship sorry'; or whatever.
By the way, the word ';love'; goes way beyond. I had the same situation, but my first guy understood that I wasn't interested in him, and now we're good friends.
Just be honest and don't beat around the bush; guys only think in a straight line, so be direct (but not blunt or tactless)
No, no, no, no, no. 13?? That is wayyy too young to be online dating. ESPECIALLY 16 and 18-year-olds. No offense, but why would an 18-year-old have any interest in a 13-year-old? That's wrong. Not only wrong, it's ILLEGAL. Do your parents know about these people?
Also, you don't really know them. You know how they act virtually, not in person. Those things are completely different. Stories like this are always, always the same. ';I met this guy online, and sure he's a bit older, but he completely understands me and no one else does.'; No, he doesn't. He's faking it, trying to get closer to you. That's when people get hurt. Then people think, ';No one else would understand our relationship... I really love him and I don't want my parents to get in the way, so I'll keep it a secret...'; THAT'S when things go bad.
You may feel like you know these guys, but you don't. And for five years? You started online dating when you were seven? Something isn't quite matching up here...
Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
Okay so I'm seeing this girl and we're technically on a two week break because her parents want her to date many people in order for her not to get hurt again. I really like her and according to her she really likes me, in fact she says she's kind of scared because she likes me a lot and we seem a little too perfect for each other. Right now she suggests both of us date around and she doesn't want me to just wait for her. But when she's ready for a real relationship she'll let me know right away. This is the first week and everything has gone swimmingly well at the beginning until I decided to be romantic and hung up some paper cranes on the front tree to remind her of the pretty birds at a certain zoo from her childhood to cheer her up since she's been having a rough time recently. After that we talked a bit but she's been kind of ignoring my texts (or doesn't text me as often as she used to text me good morning before...) Well I'm not sure if I came out to strong or she doesn't like me anymore and is ignoring me on purpose but I do know that her parents set her up on two dates this week and they are really religious.. So does she still like me or is it basically over and should I move on...? If it helps its only been a two days or so since we last talked but we kind of talked almost everyday so it's a little unusual that she's taking a lot more time.Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
Its a tuff one dude. if she likes you as much as she said. dont worry about it. religeous family. hhm maybe its her way of coping not seein you coz she is pretty much forced to date other guys. how old r both u?Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
hang around there you may be suprised what happens
Sounds like you two really hit it off. Unfortunately though, her parents are putting the kabosh on that. It's good to hear she had the decency to be honest and let you know that she will be dating around. Since she has suggested that you do the same, so do I.
Putting the cranes in her tree was sweet. However, since she is not committing herself to dating you exclusively just yet, it may of come off as you not having good boundaries. If she doesn't respond to a call/text, wait at least 3 days before you try again. Any more than that will make you look very clingy and like you don't respect her boundaries. Also, her parents may be monitoring her phone and you'll make a bad impression on them if you do it much more.
I'm sure she still likes you as much as before. Just give her some space and respect that she needs to date other people. You can't force anything, so unfortunately you're going to have to sit back and wait. In the meantime, date some other girls to ty to keep your mind off of her as much as possible.
If it is meant to be it will be.
shes scared, if you really care for her be patient, she'll come around
Maybe her parents saw the gesture and are afraid that she'll get hurt, so they told her not to talk to you as often.
Maybe you should talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel when the time is right.
really there can be many reason why she's like that:
1. maybe she might be attracted to someone else and is confused if she should stay with you or not.
2. maybe she doesn't talk that much cause her parents don't want her to.
3. maybe she needs a lil space right now from whats been goin on.
all i can suggest is just to ask her whats goin on so you can get an update. :p
Do what her parents want, date around, but don't mess around. If her parents are really religious, they don't want you to worship their daughter, they want you to worship God, help others, and learn how to deal with more people than just one. One thing that dating around proves is that you're not a sleazeball looking for a night in bed, but a guy who cares about people, (unless you really are looking for a night in bed and the girls you date are the girls that would provide that) and wants to find decent girls. And who knows, you might have some fun in the process. Hope you have friends too -- group dates seem more innocent.
Wooow... her parents are frigging retarded. They're religious... so they're setting her up on all of these dates so that she WON'T get hurt?
Kay first of all, just forcing her to date around will put her under immense sexual pressure, especially when she dates non-religious people. They'll just expect her to be easy since she dates around so much.
And second of all, forcing her to date around will hurt her more! She won't feel genuinely loved by any of the men she dates, and there will be more break ups, more exes, and more heartache.
As for your end of the deal... I'd keep holding on. Although it's a struggle now, I think it will be worth it in the end. And a great story to tell your kids. But I recommend talking to her about it.
AWW!! The paper cranes sound really cute, but it might have came on too strong. Especially if you two are on a break, it could of scared her. It's a really cute idea and you sound like you might be the clingy type. Which, by the way, is nothing wrong. I don't know how long you two have known each other, but if it's been less than a year, than you are going to have to give her breathing space to make up her mind. It might hurt, but it is the right thing to do. Try dating someone else and see from there. Just give it time.
idk
do people really do this........seriously....but anyways maybe she want to date other people for a while and she wants you to do same aswell....that can be the reason why she is ignoring you.......or maybe this hole date other people thing was just an excuse to break up....i mean she didnt want to break your heart,...so she said those stuffs....... but hey idk.......you better talk to her.......ask her what she wants........because the hol thing is so confusing....... good luck
Its a tuff one dude. if she likes you as much as she said. dont worry about it. religeous family. hhm maybe its her way of coping not seein you coz she is pretty much forced to date other guys. how old r both u?Need some advice about a girl (girls and guys welcome)! Thank you.?
hang around there you may be suprised what happens
Sounds like you two really hit it off. Unfortunately though, her parents are putting the kabosh on that. It's good to hear she had the decency to be honest and let you know that she will be dating around. Since she has suggested that you do the same, so do I.
Putting the cranes in her tree was sweet. However, since she is not committing herself to dating you exclusively just yet, it may of come off as you not having good boundaries. If she doesn't respond to a call/text, wait at least 3 days before you try again. Any more than that will make you look very clingy and like you don't respect her boundaries. Also, her parents may be monitoring her phone and you'll make a bad impression on them if you do it much more.
I'm sure she still likes you as much as before. Just give her some space and respect that she needs to date other people. You can't force anything, so unfortunately you're going to have to sit back and wait. In the meantime, date some other girls to ty to keep your mind off of her as much as possible.
If it is meant to be it will be.
shes scared, if you really care for her be patient, she'll come around
Maybe her parents saw the gesture and are afraid that she'll get hurt, so they told her not to talk to you as often.
Maybe you should talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel when the time is right.
really there can be many reason why she's like that:
1. maybe she might be attracted to someone else and is confused if she should stay with you or not.
2. maybe she doesn't talk that much cause her parents don't want her to.
3. maybe she needs a lil space right now from whats been goin on.
all i can suggest is just to ask her whats goin on so you can get an update. :p
Do what her parents want, date around, but don't mess around. If her parents are really religious, they don't want you to worship their daughter, they want you to worship God, help others, and learn how to deal with more people than just one. One thing that dating around proves is that you're not a sleazeball looking for a night in bed, but a guy who cares about people, (unless you really are looking for a night in bed and the girls you date are the girls that would provide that) and wants to find decent girls. And who knows, you might have some fun in the process. Hope you have friends too -- group dates seem more innocent.
Wooow... her parents are frigging retarded. They're religious... so they're setting her up on all of these dates so that she WON'T get hurt?
Kay first of all, just forcing her to date around will put her under immense sexual pressure, especially when she dates non-religious people. They'll just expect her to be easy since she dates around so much.
And second of all, forcing her to date around will hurt her more! She won't feel genuinely loved by any of the men she dates, and there will be more break ups, more exes, and more heartache.
As for your end of the deal... I'd keep holding on. Although it's a struggle now, I think it will be worth it in the end. And a great story to tell your kids. But I recommend talking to her about it.
AWW!! The paper cranes sound really cute, but it might have came on too strong. Especially if you two are on a break, it could of scared her. It's a really cute idea and you sound like you might be the clingy type. Which, by the way, is nothing wrong. I don't know how long you two have known each other, but if it's been less than a year, than you are going to have to give her breathing space to make up her mind. It might hurt, but it is the right thing to do. Try dating someone else and see from there. Just give it time.
idk
do people really do this........seriously....but anyways maybe she want to date other people for a while and she wants you to do same aswell....that can be the reason why she is ignoring you.......or maybe this hole date other people thing was just an excuse to break up....i mean she didnt want to break your heart,...so she said those stuffs....... but hey idk.......you better talk to her.......ask her what she wants........because the hol thing is so confusing....... good luck
What advice can you give to these guys (they're my friends)?
Please see link, below:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AskcORfjRhJQnFb.LpE5T8zsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080419145101AACjHFfWhat advice can you give to these guys (they're my friends)?
This is what I posted on his.......First of all, pray for your sister and your best friend. That will help. Let God's will be done, right? If it comes down to it that your best friend simply WON'T support the baby, it's okay for you yourself to offer support to your sister. Not being daddy, but letting her know you are their for her as you can be. If she carries the baby to term, she needs to get paternity tests done. It will be her decision what she decides to do with the baby. Just give her positive encouragement to what you think is best. That will help her decide what is best as well. She needs support. Do the parents know? Not sure how old you all are.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AskcORfjRhJQnFb.LpE5T8zsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080419145101AACjHFfWhat advice can you give to these guys (they're my friends)?
This is what I posted on his.......First of all, pray for your sister and your best friend. That will help. Let God's will be done, right? If it comes down to it that your best friend simply WON'T support the baby, it's okay for you yourself to offer support to your sister. Not being daddy, but letting her know you are their for her as you can be. If she carries the baby to term, she needs to get paternity tests done. It will be her decision what she decides to do with the baby. Just give her positive encouragement to what you think is best. That will help her decide what is best as well. She needs support. Do the parents know? Not sure how old you all are.
Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
I was wondering how far up the ear would look the best and be the hottest for a guy getting his cartilage pierced?
I was just curious because I want to get more piercings in my ears and I don't think I want to do a second set on the lobes so I was thinking about the cartilage.
I am 24 and have a skater/rocker look by the way, which may help with it.Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
Just like near the side curvey bitAdvice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
Get your conches done.
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